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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Yankiss(m): 10:45pm On May 13, 2023 |
taylor89:Jumping to stupid conclusion. Haba. You and advice. 5 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Lvgirl: 10:45pm On May 13, 2023 |
taylor89: The father named him Daniel here you are calling him Charles It's unfair to the Father Well the parent of your wife knows the truth 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by CarlosTheJackal: 10:47pm On May 13, 2023 |
sisisioge:what the Op is trying to explain is that a two year old child will be more receptive to the name he is being called always. The grandparents need to understand that the father of the child wishes should be respected 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by luckedesiri(m): 10:47pm On May 13, 2023 |
Charles Daniels.... Make sense |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by malvisguy212: 10:49pm On May 13, 2023 |
Ever8090:something wey no suppose o be problem. someone even telling him that the child isnt his own. so sad |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by ukaface(f): 11:09pm On May 13, 2023 |
ceejay80s:What’s the meaning of Jeremy? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by maasoap(m): 11:17pm On May 13, 2023 |
Ever8090: Humour me please. Someone named his kid, Charles but some grandparents decided his name should be Daniel! That's disrespectful, nothing more! They didn't see local names of their choice? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by ElijahIme1992(m): 11:29pm On May 13, 2023 |
Exmilitant:u self u no hear as all those local name sound? Just use my own name for example Elijah, anywhere I enter as I hala my name everybody dey sit up adjust.. |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Odidigboigbo(m): 11:41pm On May 13, 2023 |
ceejay80s:There is no issue here, most grandparents gives their grandchildren special names. |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Heartbender: 11:43pm On May 13, 2023 |
Same issue im having joeargy: 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by isabi2lof: 11:47pm On May 13, 2023 |
MrDoGood:Sometimes I just read them for reading sake and also comment . Especially on Facebook, the fabricated stories are much . |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by E2000: 11:48pm On May 13, 2023 |
The child is not yours. That name Daniel was probably given to the child by his suspected father and your wife confided in her parents. Secretly Do a DNA test. To be sure your child's name is not Daniel for real. |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by viodemus: 11:52pm On May 13, 2023 |
joeargy: lol !!! |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by slimmoney(m): 12:20am On May 14, 2023 |
OP what is the color of ur problem? why are u making a mountain out of a molehill, ordinary unofficial name u dey raise dust over like this. |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by viodemus: 12:42am On May 14, 2023 |
your eyes go clear when dem go cun dey call am by whistling or ey suu. |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by seunayantokun(m): 12:58am On May 14, 2023 |
If the child is actually yours, talk to your wife and both of you should agree on a peaceful approach to it. However. don't fail to insist on your desire. You also need to move your family far away from them. If warranted, be firm and drive home the message for them to learn to respect you and your wife. Some in-laws are just incorrigible, so you have to be impossible to them. |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Antyxx: 1:37am On May 14, 2023 |
anyilalaz:your baby is so blessed with love. let the mumu op be angry over nothing,he be ode |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by ceejay80s(m): 1:51am On May 14, 2023 |
ukaface:The name "Jeremy" means "God will uplift" or "God will uplift/raise," in various interpretations, Jeremy is one of God's prophet in the bible, he wasn't popular like some, read the bible very well and u will see Jeremy there 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Slurity(m): 2:11am On May 14, 2023 |
joeargy:Very easy, stop everyone from calling him the name you didn't give him, make it obvious and correct them at every opportunity you have, also stop the boy going to the grandparents that want to force another name on him, them them even know that its because of that name thing. Never let the name appears in any of his certificates or documentation. Always tell the boy himself that his name is not Daniel 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by KingofHearts(m): 3:40am On May 14, 2023 |
joeargy: You all just like making issues of nothing and creating problems! The boy will answer the name on his birth certificate by himself. I experienced the same! When he gets to school where he will spend most of his days his friends will scream Charles, his books will scream Charles, himself will scream surname first then Charles. Leave him alone! He even needs those names to play his games in future, like give one girl Charles, give another Daniel while still not technically telling a lie!! We need you to focus on helping to solve problems like unemployment, general Nigeria problems e.t.c Don’t mind those telling you he is not your child,they know nothing!! Don’t spend energy policing everyone because of name. A father names his child, you have done that already.Have fun and focus on real problems,Cheers!! |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by pressplay411(m): 4:06am On May 14, 2023 |
joeargy: Both are good names by the way. Curious, does he have a Nigerian name too? And If you don't mind me asking; -Why do you prefer Charles to Daniel? -Why does it still bother you, since you already know that grandparents often do that? A commenter here gave a good counsel- the name on your child's birth certificate is what matters. And the name you, his parents call him. Most importantly the name he identifies with. |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by konvicted77: 4:42am On May 14, 2023 |
Ever8090:Ike gwuru. should this be an issue at all??. some people today are well known by the names given to them by other's, but that doesn't change the fact dat it's not their real names. OP goan sitdan. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Berankis: 5:26am On May 14, 2023 |
joeargy:Oga calm down small. The Daniel they are calling him is not last name now. It's just like other names. Even my own mother has her other names for my children and she doesn't call them the names I gave them. And I am never offended, even my younger brother is also a culprit. E no really matter. |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Ndipe(m): 5:52am On May 14, 2023 |
Why is your moniker "Elliot . . ."? Practice what you preach. Elliotwaveforec: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by candelahria(f): 6:09am On May 14, 2023 |
Pet names are different from real names JeffreyJunior: |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Elidrisy20: 6:13am On May 14, 2023 |
Daniel is a nice name to |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by deltateam: 6:19am On May 14, 2023 |
joeargy: Simply include Daniel as one of his names. Let him have Charles as his first name in his documents. Some people even have 3 to 4 names, surname excluded. |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by simplepee(f): 6:35am On May 14, 2023 |
Waffarianman:This is so wrong. You are separating your kids from their grandparents just because of names? I can imagine the tension you’ve put in your wife and her parents’ relationship. Nawa o |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Allisgud: 6:37am On May 14, 2023 |
If it were to be a native name from the inlaw he for still dey ok 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Tims088: 6:42am On May 14, 2023 |
Growing up this happened to me, my paternal and maternal family both have different names for me, i still answer both names and have no problem with it, i know my official name so it doesn't bother me |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Sunnyski: 6:46am On May 14, 2023 |
I will advise you to change location to end the frequent visit. |
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by babajeje123(m): 6:49am On May 14, 2023 |
joeargy:Even my mother doesn't call by kids the name I gave them. Don't create an issue where there is none. |
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