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| All For Love by Keziah(f): 12:15pm On Sep 05, 2007 |
Graduates will u marry an Illiterate in the name of love? As for me the answer is capital letter "NO" I will never ever marry an illiterate, not even for LOVE. I have my reasons. So, Graduates will u marry an Illiterate in the name of love? Ur candid opinions are needed pls. |
| Re: All For Love by olanajim(m): 12:23pm On Sep 05, 2007 |
Why not? I can marry an illerate all over depending on her psychology. |
| Re: All For Love by olanajim(m): 12:24pm On Sep 05, 2007 |
Why not? I can marry an illerate all over depending on her psychology. |
| Re: All For Love by olanajim(m): 12:25pm On Sep 05, 2007 |
Why not? I can marry an illerate all over depending on her psychology. |
| Re: All For Love by NaJaHaJe(f): 1:00pm On Sep 05, 2007 |
bros -------------- one answer don do. |
| Re: All For Love by kanmosyl(m): 1:44pm On Sep 05, 2007 |
NaJa HaJe:Plz leave the guy alone or have u forgotten "Repetition is the law of long and lasting impression". |
| Re: All For Love by Easybaby(f): 2:01pm On Sep 05, 2007 |
NaJa HaJe: lol   |
| Re: All For Love by olanajim(m): 2:06pm On Sep 05, 2007 |
Your law of repeatition failed. I wasn't the one that repeated the message. Blame the network. |
| Re: All For Love by Keziah(f): 6:06pm On Sep 06, 2007 |
On a serious note will anyone of you Graduates or Masters Degree Holders ever marry an illiterate in the name of almighty Love? |
| Re: All For Love by obonyunmi1(f): 6:26pm On Sep 06, 2007 |
u never pray make God give u one person furst - u dey here dey boast. |
| Re: All For Love by saucekid(m): 6:44pm On Sep 06, 2007 |
obo.nyunmi: @ obonyunmi, how that one take concern you sef? |
| Re: All For Love by Keziah(f): 12:25pm On Sep 09, 2007 |
obo.nyunmi:why u dey yap like mumu? saucekid:God go bless u and me. The questions is as simple as ABC, take it or leave it no be by Fire or by Force. I have a serious reason for asking and ur responses will be appreciated and not criticism |
| Re: All For Love by olanajim(m): 1:05pm On Sep 09, 2007 |
@poster, the question is unnecesary. It is common except on nl. Illiteracy is not a vice. If your woman can learn then it does not matter. I know alot of people go to the villages to get a wife when the city girls are reluctant to go into serious affair. Education is not all about literacy. Ever heard of educated ignorants? |
| Re: All For Love by iice(f): 1:08pm On Sep 09, 2007 |
Hmmmmm never to late to learn and unless he's hella slow, then i guess it's doable  |
| Re: All For Love by SwtNsoFLyy(f): 2:36pm On Sep 09, 2007 |
@ poster. Thats all according to what you classify as 'illiterate', do you mean in not as highly educated? Or simple inability to communicate as in, they just don't have a clue about progressing forward in life? People may view this in a couple of ways, I can marry a man who may not have as much 'book' knowledge as I, because he may not have afforded the opportunity. He may be a powerful force in our relationship to bring both of us to higher ground. Just because I would have abit more education doesnt excel me above him at all. So in this sense, if he is "illiterate" in someone's eyes because he hasn't gone to a University or secondary schooling, its ok by me, I would be wiling to look beyond and give him a chance to prove his compabitility and if its what God has ordained, AND CONFIRMED, (gotta have that confirmation baby. )  Now. On the OTHER hand. As someone may have mentioned, I have seen people graduate school who slept in class, and don't have the least CLUE whats going on. They hold a degree, but even the most 'authentic' piece of paper doesn't put them above a man or woman who is more driven & determined , and have not had that opportunity. Or another illerate type ,, someone who thinks, acts, and behaves in such a way that is not a positive challenge to my mental growth as a partner. If you can not hold an intelligent conversation with that person beyond 'I LOVE YOU' or 'you're so fine' , OK. so now that we've established this, for the record, how do we move forward from this point? that is the question. If they can't seem to parallel your motivational drive, why invest energy, when its all about knowing yourself and what you desire complimentary wise in your partner's sense of himself, his intellect, and his communication level when they clearly don't display such characteristics? So these 2 types of illlerate men? NO man, NO. LOL I think not.I don't think that any one person is better than another, tho there are boundaries that we must establish and stand firm by. love & light |
| Re: All For Love by Jark(m): 2:41pm On Sep 09, 2007 |
yes why not, i will marry her and get her educated |
| Re: All For Love by Keziah(f): 7:09pm On Sep 09, 2007 |
olanajim:As for those going to the villages to marry a wifey, i think they just want a wife to dominate (the type that won't argue much in anything they say). Or perhaps they are afraid that the city girl can disappoint them or cheat on them when they least expected or they just feel the village wifey is more decent than the city babe. As for the educated ignorants, yes i have heard and seen alot of them and to tell u the truth they get me pissed off more than the average man that didn't attend nursery School. Infact they are among the class i referred to as Illiterates in my post. SwtNsoFLyy: Ur 1st Question: No. He/She doesn't have to possess a Masters or something equivalent but such a person must be really, really intelligent as in more intelligent than me. Ur 2nd Question: Yes. Those are the Agbayas i am rereferring to. And as Olanajim rightly called them "Educated Ignorants/Illiterates" including those that didn't go to school at all. I have seen people graduate school who slept in class, and don't have the least CLUE whats going on. They hold a degree, but even the most 'aauthenticiece of paper doesn't put them above a man or woman who is more driven & determined , and have not had that opportunity. Or another illerate type ,, someone who thinks, acts, and behaves in such a way that is not a positive challenge to my mental growth as a partner. If you can not hold an intelligent conversation with that person beyond 'I LOVE YOU' or 'you're so fine' , You have said it all. Those are the two categories of Illiteracy i am referring and neither one i will ever get married to. I rest my case!  |
| Re: All For Love by davidt(m): 7:19pm On Sep 09, 2007 |
Essentially, I think the case is different for males and females. I think an educated man would find it much easier to marry an illiterate woman he loves than for an educated woman to marry an illiterate woman. I think that's just it. |
| Re: All For Love by fatty27: 7:34pm On Sep 09, 2007 |
That is the truth. But it is all depend on personal preference. As for keziah, do you mean to say women from the villages are not human? Cut the crap. That they were raised in the village does not make them an idiots. Your statement simply implies that you are the kind who didn't believe villagers are human. You obviously see them as second class citizen. Oluchi, the model was a village girl when she won MNET face of Africa. Can you tell her that illiterate village girls are what you described them? I think your motive is probably directed at the villagers. If that is correct, I am sorry this thread is worthless. You need to do more research to find out whether your assumption is right. I can you that the most intelligent people are in the villages! |
| Re: All For Love by CrazyMan(m): 7:57pm On Sep 09, 2007 |
No one should be called an illiterate. That you went to school and maybe came out with some papers doesn’t classify you better off than someone else. There are some illiterates who made good use of the brains God gave them and today, they are on top. Now tell me; will the academical deficiency of a successful illiterate stop any woman from marrying him? No I don't think so. If you find a girl who isn’t educated very much; but she’s hard working, creative and has a very good character; would you not marry her? To educate someone isn’t that hard provided that the person is willing to learn. If you want to judge someone, your judgement should be based on how sincere and committed he or she is towards that relationship and not how educated he or she is. |
| Re: All For Love by Keziah(f): 9:02pm On Sep 09, 2007 |
@fatty27 Pls don't be Hasty why u are condemning or criticising a person. Read a post thoroughly, comprehend and understand the person's point before u start replying. Was there any place where i condemned or dehumanized a village girl. Let's be frank, i was once a village girl before i came to Lagos so cut that crap pls. I quoted someone and gave him the reasons why most people go for village chicks. I even said they are considered more respectful and decent than the city chicks in most cases. So what's ur stress abi ur eye dey shook u?  @crazykid If anyone should not be called an illiterate then how come the word came to be. Don't deceive urself it's either u are an illiterate or u are not, there is no two ways about it. Once a person was an illiterate and the person get educated, that person is no longer an illiterate. So u get ur facts right before u post. By the way did u at all read the reply of the person i quoted. The same advice goes to you. |
| Re: All For Love by Keziah(f): 4:57pm On Sep 14, 2007 |
Well  |
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