As a married man I will advice these young boys..

Do you want to be become a MAN and be addressed as a MAN?

So you want to be respected as a full grown man??

Then do what your father did, that made him to become a Man.

Or you can still remain a boy even if you are 50 years but not married....

A word is enough for the wise.

siofra:
So, I told my parents I don't want to get married. I do not recommend telling your Nigerian parents you don't want to get married😹

My mom put her hand on her head and looked at me with pity lol. She said I don't have a goal in life, she said I'm empty.

My father was even more dramatic. He started praying o. He told me to kneel down and starting casting and binding all the evil spirits and his village people.

Ngl, it was hilarious. It's not like I don't want to get married though, I just wanted to see their reactions.

But why can't parents accept that not everyone wants to follow the way they did things? That I don't want a husband doesn't mean something is wrong with me and I won't be lonely because I plan on having 29 cats, a dozen goats and scores of chickens.

You are just afraid

You are afraid of not getting married and getting married, you are stuck in the middle and don't know what is best.

You have to realized getting married and not getting married both have their own consequences and risks before you can choose.

Marriage can destroy a life if you chose the wrong partner and not getting married also come with its own stigmatization and disdain in Nigerian society, it also mean you have consign yourself to the possibility of loneliness without any emotional support from a partner till you die, so think wisely before you choose.

It is both risky but that's life, it is left to you to decide what you can risk. If you want a good partner for marriage the question should be are you ready to be a good partner yourself ? List realistic expectations and qualities you want in a partner according to your own values, expectations and qualities and look for that in men that are interested in you and you are interested in.

I don't think it should be that difficult if you are ready to be a good girl but the problems with most girls like you is that you don't want to submit to a man and you hate the responsibilities that come with being a wife but you can't have it both ways. If you want to be married you must be ready for the responsibilities that comes with it or remain single forever without any responsibilities and face the consequences that come with it too alone.

siofra:
So, I told my parents I don't want to get married. I do not recommend telling your Nigerian parents you don't want to get married😹

My mom put her hand on her head and looked at me with pity lol. She said I don't have a goal in life, she said I'm empty.

My father was even more dramatic. He started praying o. He told me to kneel down and starting casting and binding all the evil spirits and his village people.

Ngl, it was hilarious. It's not like I don't want to get married though, I just wanted to see their reactions.

But why can't parents accept that not everyone wants to follow the way they did things? That I don't want a husband doesn't mean something is wrong with me and I won't be lonely because I plan on having 29 cats, a dozen goats and scores of chickens.

Are you less than 31 and 25 and above and saying this? Then I believe you!
If you are less:it means that you might still be confused as a result of some heartbreaks here and there.
If you are above 31: it means you might be frustrated that the right man isn't coming forth.

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Okay.

Deciding not to get married is the worst decision anyone can make.

siofra:
So, I told my parents I don't want to get married. I do not recommend telling your Nigerian parents you don't want to get married😹

My mom put her hand on her head and looked at me with pity lol. She said I don't have a goal in life, she said I'm empty.

My father was even more dramatic. He started praying o. He told me to kneel down and starting casting and binding all the evil spirits and his village people.

Ngl, it was hilarious. It's not like I don't want to get married though, I just wanted to see their reactions.

But why can't parents accept that not everyone wants to follow the way they did things? That I don't want a husband doesn't mean something is wrong with me and I won't be lonely because I plan on having 29 cats, a dozen goats and scores of chickens.

A simple answer to this question should reset your brain. If your parents had choose a dozen cat and goat instead of children, do you think you had been born?

siofra:
So, I told my parents I don't want to get married. I do not recommend telling your Nigerian parents you don't want to get married😹

My mom put her hand on her head and looked at me with pity lol. She said I don't have a goal in life, she said I'm empty.

My father was even more dramatic. He started praying o. He told me to kneel down and starting casting and binding all the evil spirits and his village people.

Ngl, it was hilarious. It's not like I don't want to get married though, I just wanted to see their reactions.

But why can't parents accept that not everyone wants to follow the way they did things? That I don't want a husband doesn't mean something is wrong with me and I won't be lonely because I plan on having 29 cats, a dozen goats and scores of chickens.

They're right o! If you are to to be a man it's ok but a single lady in her menopause? Na only your saggy tits go tell you how you f'd up.

Just ensure you have a child wether married or not married.

God1000:
You don't know that getting married brings a lot of joy to our parents, they want to hug their grandchildren

Your parents won't be happy to live with you unmarried

What century are you living in? You don't need to get married to have kids

siofra:
So, I told my parents I don't want to get married. I do not recommend telling your Nigerian parents you don't want to get married😹

My mom put her hand on her head and looked at me with pity lol. She said I don't have a goal in life, she said I'm empty.

My father was even more dramatic. He started praying o. He told me to kneel down and starting casting and binding all the evil spirits and his village people.

Ngl, it was hilarious. It's not like I don't want to get married though, I just wanted to see their reactions.

But why can't parents accept that not everyone wants to follow the way they did things? That I don't want a husband doesn't mean something is wrong with me and I won't be lonely because I plan on having 29 cats, a dozen goats and scores of chickens.

Your parents had the option to use a condom but they did not!

Why are Nigerian like this "It's not like I don't want to get married though, I just wanted to see their reactions" even with this quote you still type some unnecessary things. you can understand her hmm comprehension was offer in schools but most guys here missed it.

siofra:
So, I told my parents I don't want to get married. I do not recommend telling your Nigerian parents you don't want to get married😹

My mom put her hand on her head and looked at me with pity lol. She said I don't have a goal in life, she said I'm empty.

My father was even more dramatic. He started praying o. He told me to kneel down and starting casting and binding all the evil spirits and his village people.

Ngl, it was hilarious. It's not like I don't want to get married though, I just wanted to see their reactions.

But why can't parents accept that not everyone wants to follow the way they did things? That I don't want a husband doesn't mean something is wrong with me and I won't be lonely because I plan on having 29 cats, a dozen goats and scores of chickens.

internationalman:


I just imagine something.

Imagine after you recently married your wife and both of you were just chilling in the bed when you accidentally glanced through her phone on her hand while she was surfing Nairaland and you saw Soifra as the username at the top of the webpage.

As much as she's notoriously hated here as a feminist and a man hater, what would you do..

I think people like her are a completely different representation of something or someone different in real life than they are on social media..

She might be the coolest chick any guy would want to end up with in real life

that's a guy

internationalman:


I just imagine something.

Imagine after you recently married your wife and both of you were just chilling in the bed when you accidentally glanced through her phone on her hand while she was surfing Nairaland and you saw Soifra as the username at the top of the webpage.

As much as she's notoriously hated here as a feminist and a man hater, what would you do..

I think people like her are a completely different representation of something or someone different in real life than they are on social media..

She might be the coolest chick any guy would want to end up with in real life

Ah there are many women like that. Especially in black american women. People like Ciara and Beyonce are very good examples. They sing songs that tell black women to reject men or to act some kind of way in disrespect to men in their lives while having long-standing relationships with their own men, who may even act unloyal towards them sometimes.

Good news is that some of the black women are now waking up, probably because their men are now travelling out to look for wives. Recently, Ciara starting singing a song like that again and there was a strong backlash from the women.

siofra:
So, I told my parents I don't want to get married. I do not recommend telling your Nigerian parents you don't want to get married😹

My mom put her hand on her head and looked at me with pity lol. She said I don't have a goal in life, she said I'm empty.

My father was even more dramatic. He started praying o. He told me to kneel down and starting casting and binding all the evil spirits and his village people.

Ngl, it was hilarious. It's not like I don't want to get married though, I just wanted to see their reactions.

But why can't parents accept that not everyone wants to follow the way they did things? That I don't want a husband doesn't mean something is wrong with me and I won't be lonely because I plan on having 29 cats, a dozen goats and scores of chickens.

you are a complete definition of small girl,BIG wahala

A very useless post! The mods these days dey smoke weeds! My Naija parents, as if you get a foreigner as a parents! Too much nonsense and Notice me!

siofra:
So, I told my parents I don't want to get married. I do not recommend telling your Nigerian parents you don't want to get married😹

My mom put her hand on her head and looked at me with pity lol. She said I don't have a goal in life, she said I'm empty.

My father was even more dramatic. He started praying o. He told me to kneel down and starting casting and binding all the evil spirits and his village people.

Ngl, it was hilarious. It's not like I don't want to get married though, I just wanted to see their reactions.

But why can't parents accept that not everyone wants to follow the way they did things? That I don't want a husband doesn't mean something is wrong with me and I won't be lonely because I plan on having 29 cats, a dozen goats and scores of chickens.

You don't wanna get married or men been rejecting you ?

siofra:


People can find joy and satisfaction in the little things in life, like just waking up and showing up everyday. I don't have to have get married or have children to say I'm truly happy in life. That's all I'm saying.

deepdown you know you are not happy.you are just trying to console yourself.

Be my 2nd wife

siofra:
So, I told my parents I don't want to get married. I do not recommend telling your Nigerian parents you don't want to get married😹

My mom put her hand on her head and looked at me with pity lol. She said I don't have a goal in life, she said I'm empty.

My father was even more dramatic. He started praying o. He told me to kneel down and starting casting and binding all the evil spirits and his village people.

Ngl, it was hilarious. It's not like I don't want to get married though, I just wanted to see their reactions.

But why can't parents accept that not everyone wants to follow the way they did things? That I don't want a husband doesn't mean something is wrong with me and I won't be lonely because I plan on having 29 cats, a dozen goats and scores of chickens.

siofra:
So, I told my parents I don't want to get married. I do not recommend telling your Nigerian parents you don't want to get married😹

My mom put her hand on her head and looked at me with pity lol. She said I don't have a goal in life, she said I'm empty.

My father was even more dramatic. He started praying o. He told me to kneel down and starting casting and binding all the evil spirits and his village people.

Ngl, it was hilarious. It's not like I don't want to get married though, I just wanted to see their reactions.

But why can't parents accept that not everyone wants to follow the way they did things? That I don't want a husband doesn't mean something is wrong with me and I won't be lonely because I plan on having 29 cats, a dozen goats and scores of chickens.

Fine girl like you no want marry.. Who go come dey poke you? Certainly not those chickens, goats or innocent cats..


You need a good dick poking so you can produce fine fine gehs and bois with this ur gene

Benjaniblinks:
You're useless to your parent if you can't produce an offspring...

So, couples who get married and are childless for decades are 'useless'?!!

Please, tell us more!

Why is this thread on FP?

TsbAfrica:
What did the American parents say jare

This is the reality.
Most of the statement come from ladies. Knowing very well that dating and marriage market is tough and tougher to keep.
But instead of the world to accept polygamy, the ladies will sti be the one saying me and my husband, they have forget they would likely have female child that may find it hard to find a man.

Redoil:
Your choice go ahead
But note when you get to 50 years and you are lonely dont run to those small boys to come and keep you company

Haha. People that marry still experience loneliness at 50. Some lose their spouse to divorce or death. Life nor balance. Many people were ruined because of marriage

siofra:
So, I told my parents I don't want to get married. I do not recommend telling your Nigerian parents you don't want to get married😹

My mom put her hand on her head and looked at me with pity lol. She said I don't have a goal in life, she said I'm empty.

My father was even more dramatic. He started praying o. He told me to kneel down and starting casting and binding all the evil spirits and his village people.

Ngl, it was hilarious. It's not like I don't want to get married though, I just wanted to see their reactions.

But why can't parents accept that not everyone wants to follow the way they did things? That I don't want a husband doesn't mean something is wrong with me and I won't be lonely because I plan on having 29 cats, a dozen goats and scores of chickens.

🙄🙄🙄
What sort of thread is this?
What do you mean by "you told your naija parents?" Do you have foreign parents?

#Good-Riddance-To-Bad-Rubbish

Which mod pushed this to FP bayi?

Any nonsense this siofra posts is straight to front page... Na u get Nairaland Seun and the mods what's really going on

Your choice. They should respect it.

Deepocean:


In the real sense of your write-up, is it necessary you even get married? Cat, goats and pigs can really be your companions na. That lifestyle is really the best for you if I have to be honest with you.

You will make heaven for been sincere

Instead of you to say no man will ever accept to marry ur sorry *SS . You here forming rubbish.

9ja girls are so useless. The only thing they are good for is one indomie and one egg.

Ashawo!