Romanoff:
I laugh. This guy is talking based on his environment. If you're a Nigerian woman, better not fall for what this brother is saying.

LOL! Nigeria is not a "one-provider society" anymore, except for "established families" but even at that, it's not a guarantee.

Women need to keep working hard as much as their male counterparts to bring something to the table, it may be connection, ideas, and lots more irrespective of their domestic duties.

Look at Tony Elumelu and his wife, it's getting harder and harder but we go again and again.

Get the op's facts right. His standpoint does not elicit a justification of your bias. Go and study all context of your Bible and read ecclesiastics 25, to understand how women with this kind of ugly trait should be classified. Must you end your remarks with insults?

Jennyclay:
Even the Bible says any man that can’t provide and take good care of his girlfriend/wife and children is worse than an infidel. Atleast men are to provide 97% for his girlfriend/wife.

A woman takes care of the home and you still expect her to bring something to the table. Haba!! Na wa!!

If you as a man wants your woman to bring something to the table, then be ready to switch sides by taking care of the home while the woman goes out to provide for your lazy and broke self.

Beverlyjean:


Taking care of the home , being submissive and respectful.... being orderly , being a virgin or very very very low body count of 1 or at most 2 , supporting your husband , listening to ur husband, is what is expected for a woman to bring to the table ... men never expected women to fund the marriage... and what I listed is what most women including u can't offer ... so u will always complain

Ahha! Thank God you pointed it out to her, her types are adamantly blind to perspectives other than theirs and they invariably suffer long-term consequences of their ignorance.

A woman is supposed to make her marriage stronger but these yeyenatus doesn't even know how!

Jennyclay:
Even the Bible says any man that can’t provide and take good care of his girlfriend/wife and children is worse than an infidel. Atleast men are to provide 97% for his girlfriend/wife.

A woman takes care of the home and you still expect her to bring something to the table. Haba!! Na wa!!

If you as a man wants your woman to bring something to the table, then be ready to switch sides by taking care of the home while the woman goes out to provide for your lazy and broke self.

Unless she's a fulltime housewife she isn't taking care of any home. These days househelps take care of the home more the some wives.

Phantom233:
Mumu man

He said facts. But broke asses no go gree.

donbachi:
to carry human being like you for 9months dey waka about...no easy oo.

I know and I agree. That's why na both parties. No be only one person.

Na as you say "No womb, no pikin"

Na wa.So what are they doing with thier money.If they were jobless I would understand.But telling a hardworking women like Ngozi Okonjo Iwealla that she is not ment to bring anything to the table becuase she is a woman is an insult.What that man is saying is that all hardworking women should resign from thier jobs and go to the kitchen.Thats where they belong.

Maysdevices:
I didn’t event see a video. Let me listen to it before I withdraw my comment.


Modified: I have watched it, my comment stands.

A woman will not give all those things I mentioned without a man providing. Meaning men are only supposed to be loved under the context that they provide.

I strongly disagree with that.

I understand many men are underserving of this treatment, however there are some angels out there, who deserve it trust me.

In rain or in dry times, with or without a table. My man will receive my support and love. Many women do not know what it means to be a man, men always seem angry because they know they are loved only under the circumstance that they provide.

A man will never respect you as he should if you leave all that to him. The word has gotten much more competitive and the definition of a woman has changed. Unless you want to treated as a child, we cannot sit somewhere and expect someone’s brother to give you the whole world. We have to get off our fat asses and at least support!

Speed I pray for your household because you greatly appreciate your man's life and sacrifice and you're constantly giving him surplus capacity to explore with.

Many don't understand this because consumerism is their primary concern in marriage and when you don't have the resources to fund it, it's then a case of survival for the couple.

Keep your family together dear.

You are correct brother. Don't mind all those lazy black Monkeys we have as African Nigerian brothers, demanding something from Women but can't offer anything else apart from Money and Sex.

If I provide for you and all you offer is sex then the number of women I keep should not be ur headache. If u re not happy u can go back to your fathers house.

ebukajay184:
"A Woman Isn't Supposed To Bring Anything To The Table" - American Author (Video)


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JQL0NPfz3Z8


Video credit: TikTok/Instagram/@reemusb

Its not realistic in todays world.
Man does not have enough resources to cater for the family and live comfortably as they wish.
If woman bring even if its twenty five percent of the things needed, it help a lot.

Jazmine10:
in times of crisis to cushion the man, saving/investng for the future of her children as plan B/ financial independence in case the man head knock as only a few men are really family oriented etc.

Lol
So, in all this, women are actually as good as nothing in time when the husband is alive?
Make una get better thing to talk.

When I marry, make my wife talk say she don't have any financial contributions to make in the family fess

foolbuster:


He said facts. But broke asses no go gree.

Agreed but it's only useless people that don't contribute to their families welfare. So it's not all women that are useless and foolish.

God1000:
He's entitled to his own opinion

A woman who knows her worth needs no validation. She knows she brings a lot to the table; Love, compassion, support, prayer, wisdom, ambition, vision, intelligence, value and drive."

She needs to be putting in the same level of effort that I am. If someone isn't willing to meet you half way to begin with, it's not a relationship and it's not worth pursing.

WISDOM

Jazmine10:
Please and please and please dear Nigerian men let's clarify this bring to the table oh. For instance you want a woman to carry financial burden with you, you men will agree to carry 9months pregnancy with her as in, she say she no wan get belle for una born make una men begin carry belle born una go gree? Afterall science is way advanced for that upside down concept, so as i was saying dear Nigerian men una go gree born pikin? If not? Y'all better lace your boot straps and get on it like men. Spits at men waiting for women to feed them. A woman can decide to contribute/help out as your help meet where she sees you are lacking but opening your mouth waaa to say bring to the table, it is insulting to even your mothers that bore you.

I support you, the best is for womwn to stay single so that she would not also contribute to her living expenses and rent as a single lady

When it's time to inherit properties you claim them but it's time to build properties you say you won't contribute

Clap for yourself

Dem no dey tell person

When the kinda men u want simply see you as "pass time" and play thing, na she go by herself look inwards to ask wetin she dey bring this to this man laif sef wey warrant make he commit his life to me forever

BigBen23:
But wait o! The money women make, what's it really for?

I'm coasking, if not for the family what is it meant for?

It's been a while

God1000:
He's entitled to his own opinion

A woman who knows her worth needs no validation. She knows she brings a lot to the table; Love, compassion, support, prayer, wisdom, ambition, vision, intelligence, value and drive."

She needs to be putting in the same level of effort that I am. If someone isn't willing to meet you half way to begin with, it's not a relationship and it's not worth pursing.

Jennyclay:
Even the Bible says any man that can’t provide and take good care of his girlfriend/wife and children is worse than an infidel. Atleast men are to provide 97% for his girlfriend/wife.

A woman takes care of the home and you still expect her to bring something to the table. Haba!! Na wa!!

If you as a man wants your woman to bring something to the table, then be ready to switch sides by taking care of the home while the woman goes out to provide for your lazy and broke self.

See your mouth

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Brighton1:
I think say u be feminist, wetin happen to gender equality? To flog entitlement mentality out of ur body jst dey hungry me… 97% kee u der

😂

dmgr:


Lets say I agree to carry and bore the child as a man, now tell me, how many women can perform fully, the responsibilities of a man, how many re capable?

Well you re not man, so you can and will never know what it is to be one.

bia, carry the belle fess then you can get back to reason the mata

ExudeLoveToAll:



I support you, the best is for womwn to stay single so that she would not also contribute to her living expenses and rent as a single lady

When it's time to inherit properties you claim them but it's time to build properties you say you won't contribute

Clap for yourself

Bros, i don't know what you are talking about and i am clapping for myself las las na woman you go still take care off abi na man wan begin chop your money? Bombastic side eye

BigBen23:



Lol
So, in all this, women are actually as good as nothing in time when the husband is alive?
Make una get better thing to talk.

When I marry, make my wife talk say she don't have any financial contributions to make in the family fess

na only money dem fit dey put for dat una yeye table sef? When she dey rub your head dey tell you all dem sweet nothings to help you tackle your day no be better contribution for your life be that? Bros, na online una dey do all dis things as i tell your comrade before las las na woman go still chop una money.

Jazmine10:
bia, carry the belle fess then you can get back to reason the mata

Since we re discussion about switching roles, then na u go give me the belle, (hope u re capable) then we go see if I no go carry am reach wen I go born am🤪.

Pacyrus:
It's been a while

Yes bro, I've been busy with work

uuzba:


I don't know.
I've been listening to this guy for a while now. Kevin Samuels. I think he was a relationship adviser.
He puts the roles of men and women into clear perspective for this modern age.
He began giving advice to men. But women seem to have hijacked his channel and he started giving advice to women as well.
(he died some time last year or so).
Basically he tells women that their feminist stuff is bullsh1t.
Their job, qualification and money is bullsh1t, after all, they won't give the man their money.
That men just want cooperative, humble women, whom they can phycially carry. No orobo/overweight.
Here's a sample of some of his conversations.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gzi0joqY7_4

Just read a bit about the guy, very blunt man. Sadly, he died of hypertension. I sure say na the women matter kill am.

But a woman brought apple to table in the ancient world

RaptorX:
Actually the Lioness do most of the hunting not the male Lion.

OK invalidates his point even more so.

So were did he get the idea that females need not bring anything to the table

God1000:
He's entitled to his own opinion

A woman who knows her worth needs no validation. She knows she brings a lot to the table; Love, compassion, support, prayer, wisdom, ambition, vision, intelligence, value and drive."

She needs to be putting in the same level of effort that I am. If someone isn't willing to meet you half way to begin with, it's not a relationship and it's not worth pursing.

So true

Maysdevices:
Why is also that when women try to show kindness to men, they react this way?

And later wonder why some women will never defend a man or wonder why they never find good women.


It’s either green light or pick me or she dey find husband.

If you see my face, body, know my countenance and the state of my bank account, my humility, my intelligence, where I work, what I do for a living, how I can connect you to higher levels, you will know thousands of men are looking for me as a wife.

Are you even a man? Why behave like this? I am honestly curious.

Can u connect me to higher levels?
If u can I will be highly grateful

dmgr:


Since we re discussion about switching roles, then na u go give me the belle, (hope u re capable) then we go see if I no go carry am reach wen I go born am🤪.

Odikwa risky.Bia I no be bobrisky oh

Jennyclay:
Even the Bible says any man that can’t provide and take good care of his girlfriend/wife and children is worse than an infidel. Atleast men are to provide 97% for his girlfriend/wife.

A woman takes care of the home and you still expect her to bring something to the table. Haba!! Na wa!!

If you as a man wants your woman to bring something to the table, then be ready to switch sides by taking care of the home while the woman goes out to provide for your lazy and broke self.

Seems ur own version of the bible was translated from Haiti “Is there anything like girlfriend inside the bible”? At least concubine was even recognized.