ronkebp:

@ Poster you should have adviced your friend in the first place to use condom. Now they are going to be stuck with a child they cannot care for. Let her have the baby and give him/ her up for adoption to responsible parents. Instead of having a baby take care of a baby.

splitnaija:

@OP
Why did you wait till your friend got pregnant before realizing he/she shouldn't be involved in such relationship? If you had advised him/her earlier, probably there wouldn't have been any unwanted pregnancy.

^^^Huh? Is he supposed to boss him around, and tell him how or who not to sleep with? Tell me something?

So a boy that decides to have Bleep shouldn't know he's supposed to use protection? Is the OP his father? Doesnt he have parents to teach him etiquettes?   I taya o!

sexkillz:

^^^Huh? Is he supposed to boss him around, and tell him how or who not to sleep with? Tell me something?

So a boy that decides to have Bleep shouldn't know he's supposed to use protection? Is the OP his father? Doesnt he have parents to teach him etiquettes? I taya o!

Ucheosefoh:

its look at it 4rm this angle  the abortion process didnt go well the gal lose or damage her womb or worst still lose her life what will be the fate of both us just know dat if she lose or damage her womb my friend will not marry her in the future leaving her with the problem of not being able to bear a child then she will turn back to blame us 4 helping her damage or lose her womb or if she dies in the process of abortion what do u think we will do? Do we have money for her burial? How will we tell the world and our parents what we did? Dont u see dat u are forcing me to help him do another mistake, just think it dis way if the gal is your sister will u support dis plan 

sexkillz:

I hate it when men supposedly quote the bible correctly, and then twist it out of context to suit their immediate selfish needs! WTF!

And how, Mr, would you EXACTLY know, who is who inside the womb? And what they'll become huh? Do you have a futureristoscope?( ) Seriously, talk to me!

Jesus Christ! What the hell is this? Was the baby formed from the ground? When does life begin? At conception, or at birth? Now, if an infant should breathe it's first breath before you term it a person, why the hell does it's heart, start beating from the womb? And why o why should a baby in the womb kick it's mother, if it's not alive!

Seriously! I'm left in confounded wonderment as to how selfish and self centered we have become! Manically bewildered, to say the least! Sheesh!. . .

sexkillz:

^^^Because he came to collect money for abortion, and OP said NO?

MRbrownJAY:

bro, so long as it is done in a proper facility with proper doctors then there should be no problems. also you would prefer that both do something they are not ready to do. whatever choice they make will come with its own sets of risks, but let THEM decide what is best for them.

if the gal is my sister and she doesnt want the child, i am not going to punish her FOR LIFE, by forcing her in having this unwanted baby. come on now!!!!

people are quick to quote the bible for forcing people to have unwanted children, and therefore that same bible have to be use to make them understand that a foetus is NOT a child.

The Bible says So? Where?

MRbrownJAY:
are you saying that these 2 people who CLEARLY are not ready to care/raise a child, DONT want a child should be force to have it and (in the same process) bring an unwanted child into this world?!
well i dont know about you but I believe that every children need the proper CARE, ATTENTION, LOVE, DEDICATION, SUPPORT from their parents, so if anyone knows they cannot provide it then they have no business bringing a child into this world. being a parent and raising a child is NO JOKE!!!!

MRbrownJAY:
if i'd listen to your little analogy, then looking at a spe.rm in a microscope, you will understand that it's already alive and kicking, THEREFORE mast.urbation is premeditated murder, oral se.x is cannibalism, wearing a condom is murder by suffocation AND sper.m donation is child trafficking. NONSENSE!!!!

A baby CANNOT be compared to a single S[b]p[/b]erm!? Why? Because A S[b]P[/b]ERM ALONE DOESNT MAKE A BABY! TRY AGAIN! The development of all the parts of an embryo begins at conception, when the ovum, or egg cell, of the woman is fertilized by a Fluid cell of the man. The molecules making up the DNA of the father and mother combine to create a human life that never existed before. So those examples you gave about Mast[b]u[/b]rbation, Oral Bleep, wearing a condom is murder by suffocation AND sper.m donation is child trafficking blah blah are all HOGWASH! because a SINGLE SP[b]E[/b]RM DOES NOT MAKE A BABY!

MRbrownJAY:
a child IS NOT a child until it takes its first breath. if a woman is pregnant and lose the foetus during the 8th month of pregnancy, do we say she had a child that died or do we say she had a miscarriage?! duh!!!!!

So why do Doctors, try saving the life of 7 month old Premature Babies? Oh i forgot! Miscarriages? What is a miscarriage? Miscarriage is considered as the accidental and unavoidable interruption of pregnancy. While Abortion is defined as the deliberate and induced emptying of a pregnant uterus! So MBJ doesnt believe an eighth month old pregnancy turned miscarriage should be termed a child, but he believes a seven month old born premature baby is a child? Why do we use such terms as expecting a child? Pregnancy? Pregnant with what? A Human Child? So a child is not a child until it takes it first breath, so can you please tell me the difference between a baby in the womb, with its heart beating, and a baby that came out of the womb with it's heart beating? oh i forgot! Breath!

MRbrownJAY:
sorry, the selfish/self centered person is the one that only think of themselves rather than using their brain to solve a problem. come back to earth brotha, you have your beliefs and people have theirs. expecting everyone to think like you is not only foolish but also very childish. grow up!

sexkillz:

The Bible says So? Where?

Yeah, so EVERY UNWANTED CHILD should be aborted? Great!!! How about asking them to stop humping unnecessarily? And in cases where humping cant be controlled, or condom broke or whatever, cant the baby be given up for adoption?

A baby CANNOT be compared to a single S[b]p[/b]erm!? Why? Because A S[b]P[/b]ERM ALONE DOESNT MAKE A BABY! TRY AGAIN! The development of all the parts of an embryo begins at conception, when the ovum, or egg cell, of the woman is fertilized by a Fluid cell of the man. The molecules making up the DNA of the father and mother combine to create a human life that never existed before. So those examples you gave about Mast[b]u[/b]rbation, Oral Bleep, wearing a condom is murder by suffocation AND sper.m donation is child trafficking blah blah are all HOGWASH! because a SINGLE SP[b]E[/b]RM DOES NOT MAKE A BABY!

So why do Doctors, try saving the life of 7 month old Premature Babies? Oh i forgot! Miscarriages? What is a miscarriage? Miscarriage is considered as the accidental and unavoidable interruption of pregnancy. While Abortion is defined as the deliberate and induced emptying of a pregnant uterus! So MBJ doesnt believe an eighth month old pregnancy turned miscarriage should be termed a child, but he believes a seven month old born premature baby is a child? Why do we use such terms as expecting a child? Pregnancy? Pregnant with what? A Human Child? So a child is not a child until it takes it first breath, so can you please tell me the difference between a baby in the womb, with its heart beating, and a baby that came out of the womb with it's heart beating? oh i forgot! Breath!

Believe What you want man! But dont  quote the Bible! You know NOTHING about the Bible's view on Such Matters! If people arent ready for kids, they should abstain from sex, and reserve it till when they are capable of taking care of the resulting baby!

Condoms have become an excuse for promiscuity! But it comes with no guarantee of protecting you from pregnancy!