GreatAchiever1:
I really disagree with you, sir. Being a housewife is a full-time profession, thus there is nothing wrong with it. As long as hubby can support his family with the necessities and keep the house safe, there is nothing wrong with a man wanting a housewife and it isn't in anyway bringing down his self-esteem

Nobody ever claimed housewives were dullards nor nonentities; they take care of the family, help their husbands, nuture and educate their kids, which makes the house functioning, which in turn makes society functional. Yes there are ways they can make money for themselves, with handskills like tailoring, hairdressing, making stuffs, baking stuffs, online business etc, they can easily earn some cash from home while building the home.

Lastly, the wife is supposed to only be useful to the hubby first and the children, these should be her top priority after God. Lets forget about modern wokism culture.

I wonder if the above poster feels the same way about Househusbands.

Candidlady:
Nothing bad in it...

Stay-at-home dad


In Nigeria today most men stay at home with the excuse that they are working remotely while it is their wives that actually do the 9-4pm jobs


Men are getting extremely lazy... Anyways they have always been like that...

Eve went in search of food for that lazy man called Adam.. dude was just at home in the garden waiting to be fed by his wife...

And they still blame the poor woman for enlightening MEN.. INGRATES

Likes of Samueltemi337 and miracrood2 lazy set of individuals who would rather beg and gamble their wives money away

Ireject beings like em for my sisters out there

Yet you sat at home on your lazy black ass with mouth odor and typing all these via a smartphone or laptop created by Men.

Come closer let me give you a knock on the head. Mumu person.

Skyview01:


I can bet money that you know nothing about the word of God like most Nigerians. Just what you ignorant GO's and pastors feed you.

Go and allow your wife marry you. Mumu man, go and study God's word well, you will know what you said is foolish talks.

iampeterben:

Go and allow your wife marry you. Mumu man, go and study God's word well, you will know what you said is foolish talks.

You Study God's word, curse and abuse others online. You can even steal I gues. That is the Nigerian brand of Christianity.

You see when I said you knew nothing about God's word, it wasn't meant as an insult but a statement of fact.

Let's not deviate from the topic.

Candidlady:
Nothing bad in it...

Stay-at-home dad


In Nigeria today most men stay at home with the excuse that they are working remotely while it is their wives that actually do the 9-4pm jobs


Men are getting extremely lazy... Anyways they have always been like that...

Eve went in search of food for that lazy man called Adam.. dude was just at home in the garden waiting to be fed by his wife...

And they still blame the poor woman for enlightening MEN.. INGRATES

Likes of Samueltemi337 and miracrood2 lazy set of individuals who would rather beg and gamble their wives money away

Ireject beings like em for my sisters out there

It was actually Adam who went out to find food for Eve, before she manifested the greed in her, when the serpent tempered her

Kobojunkie:
Your previous however insists that there is nothing ordinary about the training since you highlighted that it was given to female child, not male child, and the female child had to be subjected to rigorous specialized training to ready them for life as home keepers and child rearers.

Depending on how you decode and the decipher the message, either you like to accept it or not, some frameworks are logically feminine and some are masculine, there is no how you can beat that.

Husband is automatically expected to check the leaking roof, most especially when the wife is pregnant
A man will prefer to render first hand check on external attack or violence prompted on his family, it is wrong for a woman to do that
By virtue of training, most ladies focus on cooking process while growing, boys play ball and table tennis....this helps the female gender to be a seemingly better cook (except in case of professional training)
Alot to mention few

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I will. It is a story about two of my friends.

Did you mean to say a house boy? Actually we have men like that but most times not willingly. The woman might have given him ewe jokoje ( A jass, that makes him to be obedient). Fear this gender, their mama and their friends. If them put hands for your mata ehn, na only God fit help you. They do this mostly to arrogant men and womanizers. If you don't believe me, ask the women in Gbagi market in Ibadan

Skyview01:


Ok. Move along!

You don't need to say it.

I always move along when I come across any stupid post.

No time to decrease my IQ over such nonsense.

bluefilm:


You don't need to say it.

I always move along when I come across any stupid post.

No time to decrease my IQ over such nonsense.

Move along.

Oizee:
I doubt any reasonable man will wish that on himself unless circumstance just put them there temporarily.

I

You get sense

Skyview01:
I have seen situations where the wife is very wealthy and there are kids in the family. My question is, can you as a man, leave your job to become a full time house-husband, taking care of the kids and the home while your wife works at her very lucrative job?

I like working from home but someone has to take care of the kids. So full time HORSEBAND yes but full time house boy NO.

Yup, plus an additional allowance from her.

Boyooosa:
■ Depending on how you decode and the decipher the message, either you like to accept it or not, some frameworks are logically feminine and some are masculine, there is no how you can beat that.
■ Husband is automatically expected to check the leaking roof, most especially when the wife is pregnant
A man will prefer to render first hand check on external attack or violence prompted on his family, it is wrong for a woman to do that. By virtue of training, most ladies focus on cooking process while growing, boys play ball and table tennis....this helps the female gender to be a seemingly better cook (except in case of professional training) Alot to mention few

1. No amount of decoding or deciphering will make any of your claims of nature given you already admitted that it all has to do with nuture..

2. Changes that have taken place over the last 30 years in what you consider saner climes have revealed that all these ideas are as a result of what I like to refer to as cultural brainwashing and nothing more. The 2010 census in the U.S found that approximately 550,000 men lived as househusbands. That number has significantly increased since that time. And the same trends have been observed in many other countries including Asian nations. So, whatever you are attempting to push leave nature out of it.

occfx:


I like working from home but someone has to take care of the kids. So full time HORSEBAND yes but full time house boy NO.

I agree with you. I have been working since 13yrs old and taking care of everybody all my life, if my wife suddenly becomes a millionaire, why not. I will stay at home to help my kids, have fun and chop money for a change.

Am in, what are the things attached to it?

engratule:
Am in, what are the things attached to it?

The same attached to being a housewife.

GreatAchiever1:


I really disagree with you, sir. Being a housewife is a full-time profession, thus there is nothing wrong with it. As long as hubby can support his family with the necessities and keep the house safe, there is nothing wrong with a man wanting a housewife and it isn't in anyway bringing down his self-esteem

Nobody ever claimed housewives were dullards nor nonentities; they take care of the family, help their husbands, nuture and educate their kids, which makes the house functioning, which in turn makes society functional. Yes there are ways they can make money for themselves, with handskills like tailoring, hairdressing, making stuffs, baking stuffs, online business etc, they can easily earn some cash from home while building the home.

Lastly, the wife is supposed to only be useful to the hubby first and the children, these should be her top priority after God. Lets forget about modern wokism culture.

Kobojunkie:
I wonder if the above poster feels the same way about Househusbands.

I would be interested as well.

To the writer, would you like someone else to take your role as a wife or a husband? For me I will always take my responsibility as a man the head and the CEO of my home no matter my financial capacity.

Kobojunkie:
I wonder if the above poster feels the same way about Househusbands.

No I do not, there's a word for men like that and it's called effeminate.

GreatAchiever1:
■ No I do not, there's a word for men like that and it's called effeminate.

Are women who choose to live as housewives also fall under this effeminate category since not all women live that way either?

Kobojunkie:
1. No amount of decoding or deciphering will make any of your claims of nature given you already admitted that it all has to do with nuture..

2. Changes that have taken place over the last 30 years in what you consider saner climes have revealed that all these ideas are as a result of what I like to refer to as cultural brainwashing and nothing more. The 2010 census in the U.S found that approximately 550,000 men lived as househusbands. That number has significantly increased since that time. And the same trends have been observed in many other countries including Asian nations. So, whatever you are attempting to push leave nature out of it.

If you decide to pinpoint nature as the topical issue, fine, the truth is, you can't totally eliminate that factor as I've already mentioned some instances that affirm that, breastfeeding among others can never be ridden off outrightly.
That mentioned, the so called househusbands, do they contribute to the economic progree of the household at all?
Kindly educate me on how it works pls...

Boyooosa:
■ If you decide to pinpoint nature as the topical issue, fine, the truth is, you can't totally eliminate that factor as I've already mentioned some instances that affirm that, breastfeeding among others can never be ridden off outrightly.
■ That mentioned, the so called househusbands, do they contribute to the economic progree of the household at all? Kindly educate me on how it works pls...

You eliminated every connection to nature when you pointed out that females are typically nutured from childhood in order to get them to occupy housemaid and child-rearing roles in their futures.

2. Some do while some don't. Depends on the family situation and the agreement between individual couples.

Skyview01:
I have seen situations where the wife is very wealthy and there are kids in the family. My question is, can you as a man, leave your job to become a full time house-husband, taking care of the kids and the home while your wife works at her very lucrative job?

Why would you do that? No matter how wealthy your wife might be, go and work and bring something home. Nonsense reasoning.

Kobojunkie:
You eliminated every connection to nature when you pointed out that females are typically nutured from childhood in order to get them to occupy housemaid and child-rearing roles in their futures.

2. Some do while some don't. Depends on the family situation and the agreement between individual couples.

Ok
Thanks

What does that even mean? "Full time house husband"

Why should a man marry up? It makes no sense in case you're considering it. Such a man will regret it. A man is expected by nature and by God's pla, to provide for his family.

johnlegend01:
What does that even mean? "Full time house husband" Why should a man marry up? It makes no sense in case you're considering it. Such a man will regret it. A man is expected by nature and by God's pla, to provide for his family.

Your claim has absolutely nothing to do with God or nature as its every root can be traced back to your cultures and nothing beyond that. What a woman can do(outside of nature) a man can also do.

Wow ... So husband dey wash wife cloth

Skyview01:
I have seen situations where the wife is very wealthy and there are kids in the family. My question is, can you as a man, leave your job to become a full time house-husband, taking care of the kids and the home while your wife works at her very lucrative job?

Them plenty for my side, buh your wife most like you pass , you must respect her, protect her, she must respect you ( some times) , most importantly you must sabi fu*k wella. I no men that lost their job 20 yes ago and their wife are very very rich and the live peacefully.
If you no get money, no ever carry shoulder for woman, make sure u sabi cook join. Those men plenty for Abuja

CondemnBattery:
Stupid question from a lazy youth.
A man is a provider.
If a man can't provide for his family, he's worse than an infidel.

No food for a lazy man

Lol.

teejaymmm:
Depends on situation, most men do it abroad. When you find yourself in a situation where you can't afford a nanny and your wife's job is the most lucrative

Currently, most men don't do that. Initially people work abroad save up some money, go to Nigeria marry and bring her over . The put her through nursing school. When she start working, the husband start taking care of kids. It worked for few men, buh most regretted. Some end up killing their wife. My gf is nurse . As soon as I got here I broke up with her. I can't marry a nurse even for free. I can't imagine myself divorcing..

If she is capable of providing for for my needs while i still making petty money for myself. Shebi na to keep the home and attend to it. It is welcome. Make she go first.