I want to know if those things some nairaland men say about the vagina, are really true or they're just exaggerating. You'll see some saying the women they came in contact with, that they vagina smell like rotten fish, rotten meat, dead rat, or like gutter, or like a soakaway pit.

Are they being serious when they say that? Or maybe it's a way of them bodyshaming women. Because, I don't think a woman's vagina is supposed to smell, at least not as bad as they portray it.

Men who do this should desist from it. Desist from saying derogatory things about a woman's vagina. Instead of saying these demeaning things, why not calmly and maturely call the said woman's attention to it, and if you have any solution/suggestions/remedy to help the situation, then you give that.



Women, if your vagina smells, such that then you rub around it or when you dip your finger in it and perceive and you then have to clinch/cover your nose or or twitch your nose or face, then something is wrong somewhere.


A vagina is a self-cleansing organ. But, that does not mean that you shouldn't wash the areas around it or look for solution when it starts to smell even though it appears neat. It's not surprising that some people do not know how to care for the vagina or how to wash it. You don't just pour water on the surface and then that's it. No. It's not so.



Men, stop saying demeaning and derogatory things about the woman's vagina. The vagina is not like the penis. The vagina is more complex in nature than the penis. Profer solutions if you have. If you don't, then calmly and maturely call the woman's attention to it.



Women, if your vagina still smells or have a foul odour even after washing, then something is wrong. I'll still open a thread on what to do about this. A vagina is not supposed to have an odour, at least not a bad one that'll make you or another person twitch the nose or face.


I'm usually sad when I see some derogatory words being said about the vagina. Please, I wouldn't want to see such threads or words again. Reason why I decided to create this thread. I've been wanting to do it since, but the opportunity hasn't presented itself.


Please, I would like you all to take this in good light. Thanks.

na smelling toto matter dey hear''

It always seems derogatory when a man is saying it. Vj odours exist. But because na man dey talk am it's now body shaming.

When will some of you ladies learn to take correction without acting like emotional children?

HanisahZuwy:
I'm usually sad when I see some derogatory words being said about the vagina. Please, I wouldn't want to see such threads or words again. Reason why I decided to create this thread. I've been wanting to do it since, but the opportunity hasn't presented itself.


Please, I would like you all to take this in good light. Thanks.

What will you do?

Rayban25:
It always seems derogatory when a man is saying it. Vj odours exist. But because na man dey talk am it's now body shaming.

When will some of you ladies learn to take correction without acting like emotional children?

You know the way you pass a message matters. The manner and tone you use matters too.

Take this two scenarios as an example;

The first- ' na wa oo. Do you wash your vagina at all? It smells like a rotten egg. I couldn't even breathe well. Abeg do something about it. The smell is terrible. Can't you perceive it? It smells like a soakaway pit."

The second; " It seems your vagina has this strong odour. I can recommend for you how to go about it. Take xyz. Do abc. Then take ghi. You won't notice any odour or bad smell again."


From the above scenarios, who do you think will be more offended?

Nlfpmod

Rayban25:




What will you do?

Seems you're one of those doing this. Please, I wouldn't want to see such threads again. It makes me feel bad to see or read them.

HanisahZuwy:
You know the way you pass a message matters. The manner and tone you use matters too.

Take this two scenarios as an example;

The first- ' na wa oo. Do you wash your vagina at all? It smells like a rotten egg. I couldn't even breathe well. Abeg do something about it. The smell is terrible. Can't you perceive it? It smells like a soakaway pit."

The second; " It seems your vagina has this strong odour. I can recommend for you how to go about it. Take xyz. Do abc. Then take ghi. You won't notice any odour or bad smell again."


From the above scenarios, who do you think will be more offended?

so now its the tone that matters? when women talk about men you think you watch your tones or the manner you say It? but na you dey cry foul pass when talking about you you now want men to watch their tone and sugarcoat it for you.

if you no like am its either you learn to take the correction and take care of your hygiene or you leave nairaland.

Lol I couldn't hold my laugh.

You really won't understand OP.
I'll say no more.

Rayban25:


so now its the tone that matters? when women talk about men you think you watch your tones or the manner you say It? but na you dey cry foul pass when talking about you you now want men to watch their tone and sugarcoat it for you.

if you no like am its either you learn to take the correction and take care of your hygiene or you leave nairaland.

Don't tell me you're one of those who do this. Are you? I hope not though.

talented321:
Puss360 '' na smelling toto matter dey hear''

Lol..

Some Pple will just open thread and be using authrotative tones...... u dont like it ??..

Stop talking..
Stop laughing...
Stop telling ...
Stop doing this...
Stop doing that..




Hiss!!

Well done nairaland resident virgina activist

talented321:
Puss360 '' na smelling toto matter dey hear''

Bros haba, that girl is clean o and has sense, unlike some others wey dey yarn anyhow.. but it's like una two matter na only court fit settle am

Are u talking from experience or what'' biko

lordnkem000:

Bros haba, that girl is clean o and has sense, unlike some others wey dey yarn anyhow.. but it's like una two matter na only court fit settle am

talented321:
Are u talking from experience or what'' biko

Yeah if u say so, she's dope and very neat swears.. but her most attractive virtue is her reasoning, it turns a brother on

HanisahZuwy:
You know the way you pass a message matters. The manner and tone you use matters too.

Take this two scenarios as an example;

The first- ' na wa oo. Do you wash your vagina at all? It smells like a rotten egg. I couldn't even breathe well. Abeg do something about it. The smell is terrible. Can't you perceive it? It smells like a soakaway pit."

The second; " It seems your vagina has this strong odour. I can recommend for you how to go about it. Take xyz. Do abc. Then take ghi. You won't notice any odour or bad smell again."


From the above scenarios, who do you think will be more offended?

i dey suspect that even yours too dey smell like a rotten fish

ideamonster:

What's funny please?

HanisahZuwy:
You know the way you pass a message matters. The manner and tone you use matters too.

Take this two scenarios as an example;

The first- ' na wa oo. Do you wash your vagina at all? It smells like a rotten egg. I couldn't even breathe well. Abeg do something about it. The smell is terrible. Can't you perceive it? It smells like a soakaway pit."

The second; " It seems your vagina has this strong odour. I can recommend for you how to go about it. Take xyz. Do abc. Then take ghi. You won't notice any odour or bad smell again."


From the above scenarios, who do you think will be more offended?

you no no say de vagina dey smell before?

February 2020 nah so one girl with big breast carry smelling pussy come my house for portharcourt

HanisahZuwy:
Don't tell me you're one of those who do this. Are you? I hope not though.

My dear, it's very true. Of course in line of work, you often can't even mention it. Unless it's one of the signs and symptoms the lady has alongside pain during urination, discharge, itchiness, etc. It's always a delicate matter.

But it's rather common.

Some women over-clean down there. They use soaps that should not be used there. Such as medicated soaps. They disrupt the flora there. Some may be due to infection especially bacterial vaginosis (BV).

It's important to manage it well because if it's BV, then it increases the risk of catching and or infecting others with HIV through unprotected intercourse.

The fishy odour can be VERY strong, even more so after intercourse. The woman may not perceive the odour themselves but the guy may never want to experience it again.

Had a sexual encounter with this young lady whose kpekus stank like poo. It was a terrible experience. The stench haunted me for weeks unend and now whenever I come across her I remember the stinking kpekus she offered me.