Mindlog:


You are right.

If you visit psychiatric hospitals in Nigeria and go to the male wards, you are more likely to see married women during visiting hours with their admitted husbands but go to the female wards, very insignificant number of men visit their wives who have been admitted there. For most men, getting the wife admitted is the best they can do and visit few times and disappear from the scene, abandoning her to her birth family to take care of.

Who funds the hospital bill? I don't think any serious man with a job and bills to pay will sit down with his spouse in the hospital in the name of love or care. If men can do both, then that's very perfect. But how many men can afford the luxury of time and money? One has to give way.

Acidosis:


Who funds the hospital bill? I don't think any serious man with a job and bills to pay will sit down with his spouse in the hospital in the name of love or care. If men can do both, then that's very perfect. But how many men can afford the luxury of time and money? One has to give way.

Exactly.
And in this case the woman can't afford both the luxury of spending money on him and nursing him + the household

CuriousStudent:

Exactly.
And in this case the woman can't afford both the luxury of spending money on him and nursing him + the household

Then she has to do one, which is get a job and fund his treatment. The mother's advice is completely different.

Acidosis:


The mother is evil.

What would you have done if you were in the daughter's shoes and had 4 kids with an immobile husband?

UyaiIncomparabl:


What would you have done if you were in the daughter's shoes and had 4 kids with an immobile husband?

My dear, I can't be in her shoes. I'm male and a full-time provider.

Moreover, immobility is just a challenge that anyone can overcome with remote work and tools to aid mobility around the house.

What if the woman was barren, would she had want her MIL convincing her husband to get another wife ??

It's obvious the woman doesn't love her husband because I see no why a woman that loves her hubby can't take care of her man

Acidosis:


Who funds the hospital bill? I don't think any serious man with a job and bills to pay will sit down with his spouse in the hospital in the name of love or care. If men can do both, then that's very perfect. But how many men can afford the luxury of time and money? One has to give way.

It is not as if majority of those men admitted have health insurance covering the bills or have funds sitting pretty in their accounts, wife has to combine visitations with running around to raise funds for the hospital bills and taking care of their children.

This story get k leg

Set Awon Patient Ozokwo

Easily remarry after 4 kids? She dey ment

jmoore:
She is 26 years plus, has 4 kids already.

Her husband has been working and providing for the family until he had an accident which affected his waist. The company stopped him from working because it affected his mobility and productivity.

She reached out to her mother for capital so she can start a business. The mother refused to help her. She gave him a condition that she should leave the marriage and she will sponsor her to travel abroad.

The mother told her that she is too young to suffer in that marriage, that she can easily remarry.

Remarrying is termed ADULTERY by JESUS Mark 10:11-12
Divorcing & Remarrying means your marrying Hellfire. 1Cor. 6:9

jmoore:
She is 26 years plus, has 4 kids already.

Her husband has been working and providing for the family until he had an accident which affected his waist. The company stopped him from working because it affected his mobility and productivity.

She reached out to her mother for capital so she can start a business. The mother refused to help her. She gave him a condition that she should leave the marriage and she will sponsor her to travel abroad.

The mother told her that she is too young to suffer in that marriage, that she can easily remarry.

Moral of the story. Don't marry a woman from a poor background.
Don't marry a liability.
Don't marry someone who brings nothing to the table.

As a man, you're only valuable according to what you can provide. If you stop providing, you'll be ditched and called useless.

jmoore:
She is 26 years plus, has 4 kids already.

Her husband has been working and providing for the family until he had an accident which affected his waist. The company stopped him from working because it affected his mobility and productivity.

She reached out to her mother for capital so she can start a business. The mother refused to help her. She gave him a condition that she should leave the marriage and she will sponsor her to travel abroad.

The mother told her that she is too young to suffer in that marriage, that she can easily remarry.

If the mother had that kind of money, the daughter would not have gotten married at 21 and started spitting out children once a year.

Just an incoherent bs story from Andrew tate geng

CuriousStudent:
A fictional tale to shame women. Imagine catering for four kids and a bedridden man at the age of 26( when your mates are going from dates to dates and partying)

This should be the duty of a woman in her 50s whereby haven enjoyed the protection and provision of a man for decades, repays him by nursing him and taking care of him when ill health arises but not a young lady at 26.
So try to see things from the mother perspective.

Men walk out of their families and abandon their wives with kids if they feel overwhelmed or for their peace of mind,so why should this be different?

The lady in question can drop the man temporarily with his relations and give her kids to her parents then go Abroad. While abroad she can be sending money for the upkeep of her kids and husband till she can bring the kids over. The man should remain in naija while the wife hires a nurse and sends up keep till he is stable enough before he can join them over

now that the story is concerning your gender its now fake.Continue

There are mothers like this incase you dont know. You better come out of your bubble and stop thinking that events like this is meant to push an agenda.

If it were concerning a man now you wont think twice before bashing him. say no to hypocrisy

Mindlog:


You are right.

If you visit psychiatric hospitals in Nigeria and go to the male wards, you are more likely to see married women during visiting hours with their admitted husbands but go to the female wards, very insignificant number of men visit their wives who have been admitted there. For most men, getting the wife admitted is the best they can do and visit few times and disappear from the scene, abandoning her to her birth family to take care of.

Hope you know it's men that take responsibility of the house? If woman admitted and men sit with her all day,

How will family move on?

jmoore:
She is 26 years plus, has 4 kids already.

Her husband has been working and providing for the family until he had an accident which affected his waist. The company stopped him from working because it affected his mobility and productivity.

She reached out to her mother for capital so she can start a business. The mother refused to help her. She gave him a condition that she should leave the marriage and she will sponsor her to travel abroad.

The mother told her that she is too young to suffer in that marriage, that she can easily remarry.

The way people born sometimes makes me feel like they are chicken...4 children is too much ohhhhhhh. As present, one child is enough!

UyaiIncomparabl:


What would you have done if you were in the daughter's shoes and had 4 kids with an immobile husband?

Its called for better or for worse for a reason.

Dammmn!!! Absolute wickedness from the mother OMG!

jmoore:
She is 26 years plus, has 4 kids already.

Her husband has been working and providing for the family until he had an accident which affected his waist. The company stopped him from working because it affected his mobility and productivity.

She reached out to her mother for capital so she can start a business. The mother refused to help her. She gave him a condition that she should leave the marriage and she will sponsor her to travel abroad.

The mother told her that she is too young to suffer in that marriage, that she can easily remarry.

Wicked mother. When they were exchanging vows for better for worst, in sickness and in health she no knw

She can go abroad and marry an old white man, probably too old to fvck her senseless, since that is what her mother wants for her, cos in this naija, no young man with carry her with two cubs talkless of 4.

Poverty or will I say mental financial insecurity has riddled marriage to a mirage relationship.
Why not buy the spouse instead of going through all the supposedly.....
Then, stories where ladies waited for their men taking care of the family while they did time is a farce.... ?
As Christians, we fear sexual sins but can't wait to take this route at the slightest privilege.
Shame.
So you go do the same....eg caught your wife cheating, you immediately go slipping.....?!

CuriousStudent:
A fictional tale to shame women. Imagine catering for four kids and a bedridden man at the age of 26( when your mates are going from dates to dates and partying)

This should be the duty of a woman in her 50s whereby haven enjoyed the protection and provision of a man for decades, repays him by nursing him and taking care of him when ill health arises but not a young lady at 26.
So try to see things from the mother perspective.

Men walk out of their families and abandon their wives with kids if they feel overwhelmed or for their peace of mind,so why should this be different?

The lady in question can drop the man temporarily with his relations and give her kids to her parents then go Abroad. While abroad she can be sending money for the upkeep of her kids and husband till she can bring the kids over. The man should remain in naija while the wife hires a nurse and sends up keep till he is stable enough before he can join them over

Is she permitted to fvck other dicks while hustling abroad? Or should she remain faithful?

GloriousGbola:


If the mother had that kind of money, the daughter would not have gotten married at 21 and started spitting out children once a year.

Just an incoherent bs story from Andrew tate geng

what if the mother got an appointment and became rich later on? after their marriage?

Fiscus105:




Hope you know it's men that take responsibility of the house, if woman in ward and men sit with her all day,

How will family move on?

When the man is sick who brings in the money or does he go to work then appear in the hospital for care?

I know several women who work to provide hospital bills and still go for visitations-sleeping overnight in the hospital then from the hospital goes to work.

Before you comment first put yourself in her shoes if na you or if na your sister

I know a woman whose husband had stroke in her very first year of marriage and has remained in that marriage ever since. It is now 30 years of taking charge of the house. They have no child but she adopted one.

It is not all women that will run away. This is a true story. We live on the same street and there are just 4 houses separating us. Personally, I don't think leaving the marriage is a good suggestion. However, she is in the best position to determine what is suitable for her.

CuriousStudent:
A fictional tale to shame women. Imagine catering for four kids and a bedridden man at the age of 26( when your mates are going from dates to dates and partying)

This should be the duty of a woman in her 50s whereby haven enjoyed the protection and provision of a man for decades, repays him by nursing him and taking care of him when ill health arises but not a young lady at 26.
So try to see things from the mother perspective.

Men walk out of their families and abandon their wives with kids if they feel overwhelmed or for their peace of mind,so why should this be different?

The lady in question can drop the man temporarily with his relations and give her kids to her parents then go Abroad. While abroad she can be sending money for the upkeep of her kids and husband till she can bring the kids over. The man should remain in naija while the wife hires a nurse and sends up keep till he is stable enough before he can join them over

just look at how stupid you sounded.. whatever happened to for better for worse in marriage.....if you are only interested in the good things marriage brings them stay single and party till your 50 then you marry .....

Truth be told she's too young to face such stress but in all the decisions is hers to take....cos she is d only one who can tell what she want and how she wants it....

This life ehn, just pray to GOD to marry your pesin. Her mother is wicked. If she has the means why not fly them abroad where there are better systems. Is marriage not for better or worse? Please nobody should quote me to say she's too young yen yen yen. Marriage goes beyond living for the gram and all those cute lovey dovey bs. Life is reality. If the reverse was the case what would she need? There is her answer and this right here swings both ways. Another matter is if the man involved has been good to her and really loved and cared for her and her four kids. Her mother can still support them without her abandoning her family at this most critical junction in her husband's life and she is her mother's daughter, if not for her but for her grandkids her family can still support them. That's life. She chose him, he chose her. They should live togther and look to GOD for Mercy.

jmoore:
She is 26 years plus, has 4 kids already.

Her husband has been working and providing for the family until he had an accident which affected his waist. The company stopped him from working because it affected his mobility and productivity.

She reached out to her mother for capital so she can start a business. The mother refused to help her. She gave him a condition that she should leave the marriage and she will sponsor her to travel abroad.

The mother told her that she is too young to suffer in that marriage, that she can easily remarry.

I heard this story on Sunday on wazobia fm pH.

cisco Ejiro ,film.Such mothers are from that side where they fight over property..Some mothers dnt knw tomorrow