maasoap:

Laughing. Come ask those of us who already had 4 kids before Buhari and Tinubu happened to Nigeria . Thank God we didn't joke with investments, now one shouldn't even slack a bit.

Well when I wanted to marry in 2021 before my ex broke my heart. We both agreed just to have a child ( a son) shaa. She was a pharmacy undergraduate then at Unn and I was already a practicing medical doctor. Being rich doesn't mean that you should born like chicken. I roll with most politicians and a family doctor of a current serving senator now. They family is over rich ..infact multi- billionaires but he just has only a son and a girl. I won't say the tribe or state. I don't want anyone to glean and know who they are.

jmoore:
She is 26 years plus, has 4 kids already.

Her husband has been working and providing for the family until he had an accident which affected his waist. The company stopped him from working because it affected his mobility and productivity.

She reached out to her mother for capital so she can start a business. The mother refused to help her. She gave him a condition that she should leave the marriage and she will sponsor her to travel abroad.

The mother told her that she is too young to suffer in that marriage, that she can easily remarry.

This is truly sad.

Marriage is supposed to be for better for worse.

Abifarin16:

You didnt say it yes. But you implied it and I deduced it. You said the mother in-law shouldn't pay for his bills because men are polygamous in nature.


The major reason that women hate/dislike men is that we might bring in a side chick right? Hence we are scum.


So I suggest if you don't want a polygamous natured man in you life as a husband/partner.
BECOME A NUN.
FIGHT NO DEY!
Save yourself headache and focus on GOD you will make heaven at least is that not the goal of this 'transitionary' life that we are living on earth.

Dey there

A fictional tale to shame women. Imagine catering for four kids and a bedridden man at the age of 26( when your mates are going from dates to dates and partying)

This should be the duty of a woman in her 50s whereby haven enjoyed the protection and provision of a man for decades, repays him by nursing him and taking care of him when ill health arises but not a young lady at 26.
So try to see things from the mother perspective.

Men walk out of their families and abandon their wives with kids if they feel overwhelmed or for their peace of mind,so why should this be different?

The lady in question can drop the man temporarily with his relations and give her kids to her parents then go Abroad. While abroad she can be sending money for the upkeep of her kids and husband till she can bring the kids over. The man should remain in naija while the wife hires a nurse and sends up keep till he is stable enough before he can join them over.

modified:
those incels/broke/frustrated/ never-do-well/good-for-nothing men rolling in sand over my comments,I am not responsible for your failures in life.
I only advised her to make the best choice for herself.

For her getting a chance at another marriage is not the question her. You can no longer Shame women into marriage. All she need is constant pennisses servicing. You are very dispensable. No more worries on what people will say.so act right and do your best so that your wife will give her best if things go wrong with you.
If you have lawyers in Abuja confirm from them on how women are easily filing for divorce

Ciao

Marry who with four kids?You have unresolved trauma.Men should steer clear of women like you.