QUESTION FOR SINGLES ONLY.

Dear Nigerian Man,
Do you have what it takes to date an ambitious career focused Nigerian woman?

How many Nigerian women are ambitious and focused?

Do I need a special privilege to date a career woman?

Zonefree:
How many Nigerian women are ambitious and focused?

that isn't the question though

Zonefree:
How many Nigerian women are ambitious and focused?

Many.

IbileIfe:

Many.

Let's use Nairaland as a case study.

How many female here are serious with their lives?

They want to prove themselves from the bedroom to the boardroom.

Zonefree:

Let's use Nairaland as a case study.

How many female here are serious with their lives?

Many in Corporate Nigeria.

What kind of stupid question is this,,,

This should get interesting in a while… 😊

😂 You wicked o, how you expect dem to answer this kind question? More peppered ones go soon show up.

It awkwardly feels like the real question is "can you date a high value woman with a lot of high value men being around her 24/7 ?".
It's an insecurity thing.

I'm sure I do but I wouldn't deliberately lead myself towards that direction...
When the more comfortable options are easier to attain.
She probably got something that's worth it!

It's like asking if I can keep up with a deaf woman.

AndrewTate:
I'm sure I do but I wouldn't deliberately lead myself towards that direction...
When the more comfortable options are easier to attain.
She probably got something that's worth it!

It's like asking if I can keep up with a deaf woman.

It is not much work, just be mature and responsible.

Merry100:

It is not much work just be mature and responsible.

well, like I said... The more comfortable and easier to maintain options with less work needed to put in and even more to gain from are way easier to attain.
But I'm not saying no to this either, anything is very possible.
What love can't do?

Career woman'' career woman''
How much is ur salary?
Who like u will marry you and who don't will not marry u''
Every man has the way they want their wives to live.
Your career don't mean anything to the man who want to marry u.

there is nothing there to date them specially

Nigerian women....lol....as usual ..always over-inflating their worth..

. go girl!!! ....u deserve the best and u mst go for it....

Merry100:
😂 You wicked o, how you expect dem to answer this kind question? More peppered ones go soon show up.

Many Nigerian men fear ambitious women.
Asking for marriage material?

Please, define marriage material?

PS:
My wife is the CEO of an online store. And she is a member of WIMBIZ. She said many of the members are senior executives in banks, telcom and tech companies.

IbileIfe:


Many Nigerian men fear ambitious women.
Asking for marriage material?

Please, define marriage material?

PS:
My wife is the CEO of an online store. And she is a member of WIMBIZ. She said many of the members are senior executives in banks, telcom and tech companies.

I don't understand what you mean. Do you mean Nigerian men fear ambitious women that take specific qualities into consideration when selecting a partner?

IbileIfe:


Many Nigerian men fear ambitious women.
Asking for marriage material?

Please, define marriage material?

PS:
My wife is the CEO of an online store. And she is a member of WIMBIZ. She said many of the members are senior executives in banks, telcom and tech companies.

stop using the word "fear" cos that's a very fat, nasty lie.
Nigerian men would just rather go for more comfortable options.
Or do Nigerian women "fear" broke and jobless Nigerian men?

IbileIfe:


Many Nigerian men fear ambitious women.
Asking for marriage material?

Please, define marriage material?

PS:
My wife is the CEO of an online store. And she is a member of WIMBIZ. She said many of the members are senior executives in banks, telcom and tech companies.

Stop deceiving and misleading yourself. Men like you promote disillusion because you think you know everything and you end up displaying ignorance. I got married in my 20s right at the beginning of my career and still going strong. Some career women can't handle the stress of ambition and trying to be stable in a relationship. I have countless friends who are oil workers, PR consultants, heads of operations in key industries. A small fraction are well home trained and didn't allow the whole career ambition to get into their head. While the others are toxic and don't really know what they want, despite having suitable suitors. I won't wish my brothers to marry such women, so congratulations for your wife but let it end there because you don't know nada.

Wainey:
Do I need a special privilege to date a career woman?

Turns out you do since the average Nigerian man does not have what it takes to date a career women. Jealousy no dey gree them..

IbileIfe:


Many Nigerian men fear ambitious women.
Asking for marriage material?

Please, define marriage material?

PS:
My wife is the CEO of an online store. And she is a member of WIMBIZ. She said many of the members are senior executives in banks, telcom and tech companies.

*Sighs*

Another man who comes online to preen about his personal life.

Dating a career focused woman isn't a problem....

It depends on how you as the man relates with her right from the very beginning......

As a man,you must know your boundaries....How to place your banny behind such boundaries.......

Once you begin notice say she wan dey dey bossy over you, always be ready to prove to her that you're the man,and not the other way round.....But if she feels like she's too big to mellow before you as her man,then respect yourself by taking your leave peacefully.

They should look for a humble man lower their standard to start a life with otherwise menopause no be ur mate o,rich guys are looking for less career well behave woman who will be obidient to them

Kobojunkie:
Turns out you do since the average Nigerian man does not have what it takes to date a career women. Jealousy no dey gree them..

what does it takes to date them?

Dating a career woman is the ideal thing. But society makes us believe they won't be submissive, the family and kids might suffer and you don't want to imagine the 'sacrifices' she would make to advance in her career.

sslcrypt:


Stop deceiving and misleading yourself. Men like you promote disillusion because you think you know everything and you end up displaying ignorance. I got married in my 20s right at the beginning of my career and still going strong. Some career women can't handle the stress of ambition and trying to be stable in a relationship. I have countless friends who are oil workers, PR consultants, heads of operations in key industries. A small fraction are well home trained and didn't allow the whole career ambition to get into their head. While the others are toxic and don't really know what they want, despite having suitable suitors. I won't wish my brothers to marry such women, so congratulations for your wife but let it end there because you don't know nada.

Seeing is believing.
You are ignorant of the facts of women professionals in Nigeria.
Come to WIMBIZ Conference in November. And meet the single women professionals who are leaders in their professions.

Babamide:
Dating a career woman is the ideal thing. But society makes us believe they won't be submissive, the family and kids might suffer and you don't want to imagine the 'sacrifices' she would make to advance in her career.

As Jason Njoku, Co-founder of Iroko Partners said, don't marry a woman who will be an economic liability.
Poverty in marriage is caused by economic liabilities.

Majority of the single men who don't want to marry career women are insecure.

If you can work with women in banks, telecos, oil companies, tech and fintech companies, then why can't you date and marry them?

IbileIfe:


Seeing is believing.
You are ignorant of the facts of women professionals in Nigeria.
Come to WIMBIZ Conference in November. And meet the single women professionals who are leaders in their professions.

Don't allow the male moniker on my account deceive you. You can't know my gender more than me.