Switinthemiddle:
Happy sunday y'all, so i have this issue bothering me that i need advice on.

So me and this my guy have known for some years now and i know him as someone who has a flaw for anything under skirts.

It didnt bother me all these while cause i am nt one to judge until recently when i found out from my girlfriend that he was codedly wooing my junior sister and they just started dating.

Now the problem is i dnt knw if i should warn my sister about him and try and put a stop to the relationship or just try and give him and her a chance.

Please advice

Op ,it is either you're benefiting from the guy u called ur friend, or youre owing him and u don't want to Bleep up cz he'll ask for his money.

Can you date his sister? A close friend oo.. No naaa.
I also have gees very close one infact one is next our house and his sister is really endowed and all that but, how does it seem dating my friend's sister? 1. I don't respect myself. 2. I don't respect our friendship 3. If she mistakingly put in, would I wanna marry her? Considering we ain't strangers at all, both parents might even know eachother. So? Is there honor or respect from that side?

The thing is, your friend used money to deceive her, and u also know girls!! If not, I'm sure your sister won't wanna be that stupid to start bleeping her brother's close friend.

Switinthemiddle:
Happy sunday y'all, so i have this issue bothering me that i need advice on.

So me and this my guy have known for some years now and i know him as someone who has a flaw for anything under skirts.

It didnt bother me all these while cause i am nt one to judge until recently when i found out from my girlfriend that he was codedly wooing my junior sister and they just started dating.

Now the problem is i dnt knw if i should warn my sister about him and try and put a stop to the relationship or just try and give him and her a chance.

Please advice

These things are very simple..


If you thought your sister how to know and identify genuine love,, you shouldn't be bothered a-bit.

Switinthemiddle:
lol, gee calm down he no reach this level. He is still my main padi. Its just his ways ion like

You're afraid he will fụ́ck your sister and dump her??
Or you're afraid your sister will commit many abortions for him??


What exactly are you afraid of.?
I see...
You wouldn't like to hear him describing her body and punna in his crazy jokes,, and even describing her ring-tone..

If your sister was your daughter would you allow such relationship to progress.

Your sister is probably unaware of they womanizing nature of your friend.

My Brother can allow it if you want to sister to die untimely ...

Your friend has no good intentions for your sister. If he has,he would have carried you along right from the onset not this hide and seek he's doing with her

GodSaklek:

play your role as an elder brother,ask her if what u heared is true,if she never denied it,then tell her that u are not happy about it,so she should quit,let her undastnd that the person is ur friend,a friend is also like a family member who will forever remain as part of the family,tell her that u are not in suppose of that,unless they get married in near future which u dont see happening,if he end up dumping her bcus u know your friend very well,this will also affect your image and reduce u to nothing.

Na Ogun go kee you there if you no refund me my money.

Scammer!!!!

Best of friends

Any of my friend wooing my sister doesn't have respect for me in the first place.

why should you even woo my sister in the first place??

No Real G dates his friend sister cos he (the G) sees your sister as his sister as well so no such feeling…Even when it comes a real G will always try to fight such feeling.Else he’s ready to settle down n get married to her not on d ground of game playing..
Your G no regard una friendship..

dopedealer:

^
What if he has changed , repented and ready to settle down ?

You watch too much Nollywood.

Is it op sister that would convert him or transform him?

Not saying it's not possible but come on. Would you allow it if your own sister is involved?

Switinthemiddle:
Happy sunday y'all, so i have this issue bothering me that i need advice on.

So me and this my guy have known for some years now and i know him as someone who has a flaw for anything under skirts.

It didnt bother me all these while cause i am nt one to judge until recently when i found out from my girlfriend that he was codedly wooing my junior sister and they just started dating.

Now the problem is i dnt knw if i should warn my sister about him and try and put a stop to the relationship or just try and give him and her a chance.

Please advice

A womanizer is alwayz a womanizer. They need grace to change

Gggjhhj:
My friend can't date my sister, my sisters is like there sisters, likewise I can't date my friends sister, no matter how she enter eye

Why?
But u date other guys sister

jameel6:
If you are my friend, no matter how good, how close you are to me, I will never allow you date my sister.

Why do u say so
But u date other guys sister

intruder15:


He went against the bro code by dating your sister. Confront him about it and tell him to back off. If he doesn't, I see no reason he should be called your friend. True friends don't run shits with family.

If he choose not to back off, confront your sister and let her know that you don't approve their relationship.

You are doing this to save your head. What if he impregnates her and denies the pregnancy? They will now say is he not your friend? Call it out now so it won't come back in future to haunt you.

What is this bro code u guys have been commenting here?
Don't guys date other guys sister
What difference does it make dating your friend sister when you also date other guys sister

nedekid:
If he has started nacking her, then no point in you stopping them.
But why in the first instance will your paddy put eye on your sister to even date her ontop?
It is not done. That you friend can stab you at your back.
Did you ever watch SCARFACE?

But guys date other guys sister.
So what difference does it make?

Villa12:
exactly

Even if he was a responsible person he has to go through his friend. He needs his friend permission. At least to know if his friend is in support of it or not.

So u usually take permission from brothers of all d girls u have dated or have been dating?

Villa12:
hahahaha

Me i will break his head for betraying our friendship and going behind me to date my sister. I guess OP friend has money so he's scared of him

So u wan tell me u no dey date other guys sister abi or never date other guys sister abi?

Decent09:




Bro Code 19 Breaker

Pls what is d meaning of this bro code?

achimendy:





That your guy messed up big time, guy man no dey follow another guy man sister o. Secondly, he will definitely burst your sisters virgina which you're 100% sure of, but don't be harsh on any of them just warn your sister and let her know who he is. But if she no hear leave her o, na her nyash go hear am.

So all d girls wey u dey date no get brothers abi

ekitimanalways:


I will beat him to death. He will be the only one in hell in a wheelchair. I don't date my friend's sister. I constantly warn my friends to stay away from my sister or else I… They know I ain't joking…
My piece of advice to you: do what is best for you and your sister.

What of guys that has been dating girls that have brothers

Chidolalar:

But guys date other guys sister.
So what difference does it make?

Dont know about these days, but we that were born in the early 70s, grew up in the 80s, 90s had it as a boys code not to date our friends sisters. Not saying anything bad in it. But it was just a sign of respect.
How will you feel if your paddy that you both know the bad things you have done to ladies, from "satti", to nack and dump, to giving and removing belle etc, then starts to put eye on your own little sister.
As I said earlier look for a movie called scarface and watch if you have not seen it before. Tony Montana and what he did to his friend that dated his sister.

Chidolalar:

Why?
But u date other guys sister

Yes, maybe you don't get, I can't date my friends sister, I would be breaking the bro code, won't allow same for my friend, my sister too should understand this is my friend and was supposed to set boundaries

Chidolalar:


What is this bro code u guys have been commenting here?
Don't guys date other guys sister
What difference does it make dating your friend sister when you also date other guys sister

You don't date your guy's sister without notifying your guy. Why is he your guy if he doesn't even know that you are screwing his sister. That's unethical.

Chidolalar:


So all d girls wey u dey date no get brothers abi

Am not a friend to any of their brothers.

achimendy:




Am not a friend to any of their brothers.

And what if your friend sister is the one forcing herself on you by telling you she likes you and want the two of you to be lovers

intruder15:


You don't date your guy's sister without notifying your guy. Why is he your guy if he doesn't even know that you are screwing his sister. That's unethical.

achimendy:




Am not a friend to any of their brothers.

And what if your friend sister is the one forcing herself on you by telling you she likes you and want the two of you to be lovers

Gggjhhj:


Yes, maybe you don't get, I can't date my friends sister, I would be breaking the bro code, won't allow same for my friend, my sister too should understand this is my friend and was supposed to set boundaries

What if your friend sister is the one forcing herself on you by telling you that she want the both of you to be lovers

nedekid:

Dont know about these days, but we that were born in the early 70s, grew up in the 80s, 90s had it as a boys code not to date our friends sisters. Not saying anything bad in it. But it was just a sign of respect.
How will you feel if your paddy that you both know the bad things you have done to ladies, from "satti", to nack and dump, to giving and removing belle etc, then starts to put eye on your own little sister.
As I said earlier look for a movie called scarface and watch if you have not seen it before. Tony Montana and what he did to his friend that dated his sister.

What if your friend sister is d One forcing herself on you by telling you she wants the both of u to be lovers

intruder15:


You don't date your guy's sister without notifying your guy. Why is he your guy if he doesn't even know that you are screwing his sister. That's unethical.

What if your friend sister is the one forcing herself on you by telling you she wants the both of u to be lovers

Chidolalar:




And what if your friend sister is the one forcing herself on you by telling you she likes you and want the two of you to be lovers

If you like her too then signal your guy which is her brother and tell him about it, just to clear the air. But if you dont like her then decline her offer.

My reason for saying all this is because, when I have a good relationship with someone I always try as much as possible to maintain it, and women most times wen dey come into a relationship with someone that's close to their brothers, sisters, husbands or close friends you just have to be careful, because it might end up ruining your relationship with those your close pals that are related to her in one way or the other.


I've seen it several times with my own eyes. Women most times can spoil your relationship with someone very dear to you. So I always use my brain wen dealing with them.

Chidolalar:


What if your friend sister is d One forcing herself on you by telling you she wants the both of u to be lovers

I avoid her or get my friends permission ie b? Bring it to his knowledge, and he has to be OK with it. (Most likely he will disapprove).