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Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by HussenAdul: 8:18pm On Sep 04, 2023 |
Why flashing ur private part to ur son? |
Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by bolademi(m): 8:24pm On Sep 04, 2023 |
Iyaebube: Meet with the class teacher in church let him or her do the corrections 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by OlujobaSamuel: 8:27pm On Sep 04, 2023 |
9182736455O1999:Only his mum does most times, I've spanked him just twice before, but still fears me more than his mum |
Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by aimmoney9: 8:34pm On Sep 04, 2023 |
Cook his best food for him or buy the sweets or snacks he loves eating, serve it to him, while he is eating ask him do you like it? Is it sweet? tell him you have a challenge or task for him that you don't think he can do it...... Tell him that you want him to stop saying private part but "cover your body because of cold",that people need to cover their body because of cold, that that is the main purpose people wear clothes...... That cover your private part is the word that motor park / people that did not go to school use, that it is a vulgar word, plus right in front of you make sure he repeats after you "cover your body because of cold or cover your body so that you will not catch cold" upto ten times........ The word "catch cold" always sink into people his age memory well so use it..... Plus at least twice in a day always ask him "why do people wear clothes ?" his answer should be because of cold. Then cover your body because of cold....... If it does not work call me out for being fake on naira land. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by aimmoney9: 8:35pm On Sep 04, 2023 |
Iyaebube:Cook his best food for him or buy the sweets or snacks he loves eating, serve it to him, while he is eating ask him do you like it? Is it sweet? tell him you have a challenge or task for him that you don't think he can do it...... Tell him that you want him to stop saying private part but "cover your body because of cold",that people need to cover their body because of cold, that that is the main purpose people wear clothes...... That cover your private part is the word that motor park / people that did not go to school use, that it is a vulgar word, plus right in front of you make sure he repeats after you "cover your body because of cold or cover your body so that you will not catch cold" upto ten times........ The word "catch cold" always sink into people his age memory well so use it..... Plus at least twice in a day always ask him "why do people wear clothes ?" his answer should be because of cold. Then cover your body because of cold....... If it does not work call me out for being fake on naira land. |
Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by Ten06(m): 8:55pm On Sep 04, 2023 |
Stop flogging the boy and cover your private part. God is using him |
Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by 1MILLIONLiGHTS(m): 9:17pm On Sep 04, 2023 |
I was like your son too, when I was a little boy. Only that I wasn't the much vocal type. I took everything in the Sunday school too serious. Mean while there are other stereotypes out there . JOKES; Teacher; Kids! how many of you want to go to heaven ? . Teacher; Why are your hands not up like the others? Don't you wanna go to heaven? . Little boy: Our mummy said we should RUN back home straight after church. |
Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by litaninja(m): 9:47pm On Sep 04, 2023 |
You willingly carried him to where he'd be indoctrinated. You are back here complaining about it again? Iyaebube: |
Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by fineberry(m): 10:31pm On Sep 04, 2023 |
Sigh......the thing is; when you're trying to instill some principles or training to a little child, it is quite different from the way you deal with an adult. I can relate with this op child attitude. When I was really young let say 6 or 7 years I watched one film back then that revolved around HIV/ AiD pandemic.....it symptoms, the gradual way its destroys it victim and all. Do you know that after watching that movie, I stop behaving normal.....bcus it created this picture in my head that am slim, I might have contacted aids.....I was now secluding my self from my brothers nd sister infact everyone so that I don't infect them. There was a day I ask my twin if he didn't notice I was getting slimmer nd that I will die soon, That movie tormented my childhood. Every morning I was expecting not to wake-up bcus I have aid..... that is why this movie censor people normally rate movie base on content (age grade), that stuff is not meant to prevent children from viewing adult scenes alone oo,. The truma is more than what I can reterate here, I'm not good at narrating story or events. Op that your child needs proper orientation asap, the children teacher in your church did not breakdown the lesson/ teaching properlly so that this kids will not misunderstand points. . Parent should desist from passing sensitive information to children it might av negative impact on their young mind. Peace |
Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by Henrypraise: 11:08pm On Sep 04, 2023 |
Iyaebube: Its you who needed that scolding not your son,the boy has learnt what really is true, but because you prefer to stick to immodest dressings and the world around seems to be haywire, you want your son to be a conformist, whereas his path is to be a reformer... It's your choice to be modest or immodest, don't change his destiny because you want to expose your flesh... allow his reformer zest build up inside him, don't infuse your own thought into him... |
Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by Slynation(m): 11:42pm On Sep 04, 2023 |
ojun50:This is the comment I was looking for...!! |
Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by BALLOSKI: 11:49pm On Sep 04, 2023 |
Iyaebube:The little man is saying the right thing. You just teach him how to say it properly and not to everyone. |
Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by Perseverance127: 12:13am On Sep 05, 2023 |
;DI can't stop laughing here. This is so funny. I love that kid. Iyaebube: |
Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by Perseverance127: 12:17am On Sep 05, 2023 |
; bro this is even getting me more amused. You must be a good teacher aimmoney9: |
Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by Unyimekelvin: 3:11am On Sep 05, 2023 |
Iyaebube:๐๐๐๐๐ |
Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by zedegit: 4:20am On Sep 05, 2023 |
Stevenbright: She's not the one to re-educate him since she's not a good role model for him. She dresses skimpily. |
Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by GoodRocks: 6:52am On Sep 05, 2023 |
Iyaebube: Are you sure you're normal? Can you as an adult tell your fellow gender to dress decently? I bet you can't. But this is a young man speaking expressly on the need for your olosho gender to dress appropriately and cover up and yet you have a problem with it? If you see nothing wrong in sexualizing a little girl, why then is the demon in you trying to ude you to stop that young man from speaking the truth to this generation? |
Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by GoodRocks: 6:55am On Sep 05, 2023 |
Iyaebube: You expected him to be timid and shy about it? You think he is u who has probably slept with numerous guys before meeting the simp that married you? If e sure for you preach the way that young man is doing let's see! Na Olosho dey always feel embarrassed on things like this because it reminds them of their lives |
Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by maasoap(m): 8:42am On Sep 05, 2023 |
Lemos14:Yes, he's a kid. He has picked up a bad habit at Sunday school class. But doesn't mean you should see it as something that makes him unique and" destiny child", whatever that means. |
Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by maasoap(m): 8:51am On Sep 05, 2023 |
AllenSpencer:Because you're the parent. Unless you believe that your way or belief is not the right path. There are some things that could backfire if parents try to be too liberal or too extreme raising their kids. There is a need to maintain balance. If you are a Christian, Muslim or whatever, I don't have problem with you raising your kids the same way. What I'm against is extremism or refusing to let them go their separate paths as adults if and when they're willing to. |
Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by soundOsonic: 10:25am On Sep 05, 2023 |
Iyaebube:Just do nothing, he will grow out of it. They always do. |
Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by Pjoe238: 11:19am On Sep 05, 2023 |
Kindly see the Sunday school teacher to help you talk to him. He believe so much on what the Sunday school teacher taught him, he would also believe the Sunday school teacher if he or she advises him to stop using the words. Iyaebube: |
Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by kcbaba007: 12:32pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
[quote author=Iyaebube post=125572108][/quote] Your son is a destiny child, all you need to do is mould him into becoming what God has destined him to be. As a poster had rightly said, sit him down and let him know what private parts exactly is, and let him know what modest dressing is.... Also, your son is growing, he sees and learns from you and everything around him, you are no longer single, neither are you and your husband courting, you have new people in your lives now, skimpy wears should be restricted to your bedroom alone, except when it's just you and your husband at home |
Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by Chigold101(m): 2:11pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
Iyaebube:So for your mind what he does is misbahavior) แป dแป mma |
Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by ghettochild(m): 8:35pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
He shdnt go to Sunday school anymore.. Gradually he will forget it |
Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by Segzy19: 3:52pm On Sep 07, 2023 |
There is a big difference between proper teaching and brainwashing. Your son has not been properly taught but brainwashed. Take time to teach him properly and also watch out on other things they teach them and how they are being taught at the children service |
Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by ealtutu: 10:15am On Sep 14, 2023 |
The problem is the mode of teaching, the message is Good but the messager used a wrong method of passing the message, call the attention of the Sunday school teacher let him or her do the corrections kids believe what their teachers say than parents but 4 yes is too tender to digest that. |
Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by sylvestersamuel(m): 4:02pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
Re: How Can I Help My Son Unlearn This by Taal17: 9:55pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
Iyaebube: Private part for a 4yr old is perfectly appropriate. Ask your child to tell you what areas of the body are considered 'private parts' Let him know the teaching is for him to know that those areas are for him..that why they are private. Anyone touching him in a funny there should not. However it's his own body he should be concerned about. That's all. Soon you'll teach him to bath himself and cream his own body. The lesson is for him to know what's inappropriate for others to touch on his body. It's a lesson for helping children identify sexual abuse . Stop flogging him, just tell him it's his own body he should be careful about. |
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