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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by LordReed(m): 11:03pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
thesilentman: Sounds like post-partum depression. Your wife probably needs help with her mental health plus that CS "wound" could still be hurting adding to her frustrations. Have some empathy man. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by JOGICE(m): 11:03pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
thesilentman: My candid advice …red pill doesn’t apply to a woman who just gave birth, you go OFF that mic first SIRE!. Child birth affects females psychologically (it is a moment of near death experience) 1. 1st You need to stop visiting that BAR or any BAR. PLS! PLS!! SIRE (time = money & you’re spending both there). You’re better than that KING. 2. Play with her & your kids as much as time allows you_try calming the new BOSS (baby) if he cries at night too. 3. Understand that those mood swings are normal after childbirth (That it didn’t happen with your first doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen, na normal stuff) & sincerely she needs you now more than ever, even though her words & actions may depict otherwise. 4. Buy her a gift (I’ve never seen a woman reject a necklace_make it tiny & not too expensive) & check up on the healing process of her CS stitches with genuine concern. 5. Watch out for signs of depression. It’s normal, but don’t let it last if you notice any in her. with Women_LITTLE THINGS MATTERS ALOT 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Luckysbab: 11:08pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
Persephone1: SS2 pupil confirmed! Anyway's you can't unread the little wake-up call. You are in your rights to marry from wherever and I resect that. Just don't go around promoting an unfounded agenda. No hard feelings. |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by folake4u(f): 11:11pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
Persephone1: Do you gettt He's not even happy that mother and child is safe, hale and hearty. Pregnancy is A LOT. It's a life and death situation. I'm telling you oh. She must have gone through a lot. Seeeeeeee! Toxic men are dangerous to one's mental health. Them nor dey telli person oh. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by folake4u(f): 11:13pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
Persephone1: Seeeeee! That's why I clamour for A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. I pray earnestly to God that I don't marry an unkind partner. |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by strangebutreal(f): 11:15pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
Bennysam: Are you referring to women like me?
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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Lampass(m): 11:16pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
thesilentman: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Cunnilingus(m): 11:17pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
My brother don't die because of woman. You might not notice but this your condition is telling on your health. My suggestion if you're certain this isn't depression on her part, leave the house for her for a few days. Don't inforn of your whereabouts. Cut off all form of communication but drop upkeep oh. 3- 5 days. Then try take off your mind from. Provide when you ought to but ignore her. If that does not work after some weeks then Separate jare. Women can lead one to early grave. Probably why there are more widows than widowers thesilentman: 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by joepepsy(m): 11:17pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
I think say na only me dey reason the matter.nice one. BlissGod: |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Lifepia: 11:19pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
thesilentman: Ogbeni, Your wife is going through post postpartum depression after childbirth and needs help. Seek medical assistance for her and stop complaining. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Nobody: 11:23pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
Luckysbab:Go fvck yourself with a cactus plant will you! I don't give a hoot about your existence you are trying to force on me! Take a hike! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Nobody: 11:27pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
folake4u:My daily prayer point! I just can't deal. Every time I think of marriage i find myself chanting "God abeg" "God abeg" 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by angelikoko: 11:32pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
you spoke my mind BlissGod: |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Nobody: 11:32pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
folake4u:God abeg God abeg. God abeg! It's one thing going through pregnancy and childbirth, it's another going through it alone when the man responsible is still very much alive and with you but not involved. Ahhhhh God nah beg i dey beg o. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by folake4u(f): 11:38pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
Persephone1: For real oh. I can't deal at all. I'm very quick to LEAVE whatever gives me discomfort. I don't know how marriage own will be. I chant "God Abeg" like 1k times a day. I hope I've not exhausted my "God abeg" bundle at this point. |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by folake4u(f): 11:39pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
Persephone1: It's a LOT actually. God airpus all. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Dinieoj(f): 11:50pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
Oga, what's the problem gongon, you haven't said anything, you were expecting her to respect you more now because you made a sacrifice of paying 300k for CS? Are you for real, so make she dey jubilate because you paid for CS, carry the belle make them cut you open, I have done three CS, which the least coated over 500k, wetin dey do you, try talk to your wife calmly, everything could be the cost. Stop talking about the CS money abeg dat one dey vex me. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by K9blunt(f): 11:56pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
thesilentman:how is the 300k a sacrifice for her, aren't you responsible for the child? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Nwiboko26(f): 12:00am On Sep 06, 2023 |
Oga have you heard of postpartum depression, that is what is actually wrong with her.treat her with care and love it shall surely pass. |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Luckysbab: 12:06am On Sep 06, 2023 |
Persephone1: Fatality! PERSEPHONE WINS |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Luckysbab: 12:09am On Sep 06, 2023 |
You folks castigating the OP for being sensitive to his wife's actions should please cut him some slack. We're humans. A typical Nigerian parent or well cultured American parent (for the team foreign) wouldn't accept their child being lousy to them 'after all they spent on him/her'. It's just natural to take offence. |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Offpointng: 12:09am On Sep 06, 2023 |
adieora: Ight you've been noticed. if you may.... Get lost |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Luckysbab: 12:16am On Sep 06, 2023 |
folake4u: Getting a degree is emotionally draining, yet most parents will go to war with a recently graduated child if he's perceived to be showing some attitude. Are you saying these parents are 'toxic' and 'dangerous' because of this? I don't understand how you ladies on this forum rationalize like kids. The wife is in her rights to project her emotional burden upon him, just as he is in his right to be appalled. It's only sensible to appeal to him for calm and understanding, like most reasonable folks have done, not this foolish gender wars you little girls bring to the table all the time. Disgusting! |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Luckysbab: 12:18am On Sep 06, 2023 |
K9blunt: And the wife is not responsible for her husband, who is fulfilling his duties too? |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Luckysbab: 12:20am On Sep 06, 2023 |
Cunnilingus: That's too harsh, considering her current condition. He just needs to take up the courage to overlook her childishness. |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Ed12(m): 1:24am On Sep 06, 2023 |
Red pill guy calm down... Its apparent you still use some relationship/dating mantra in your marriage. You need to understand that marriage and relationship are not the same. They are both different and important stages. What you do as a man in relationship and marriage must be different if you don't want cause chaos. For instance. In relationship, you don't truly need money to find love and date women. But you need real money in your marriage to run your home. Your power as a man in relationship is keeping your options open and your ability to leave anytime with little or no remorse. But once you are married, selflessness and delibrate committment are your power, since you know provision for your family is paramount and natural. So you see both stage are different but your problem is that you are running you home with the mindset of dating.. Pls listen to me, The recipe of a good and lasting marriage are kindness, selflessness and delibrate committment from both of you. Thank God it appears you understand some nature of women, but it clear you don't understand how well to tackle then. That's what you need to learn... Be kind to your woman, be selfless in the dealings in your home and be delibrate about keeping your home in order. Everyone is bound to derail along the line, but these recipes will keep both of you back on track.. Calm down manh 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by thesilentman(m): 1:48am On Sep 06, 2023 |
royalfly:4 years?That shit aint joke man! |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by ddeola: 2:00am On Sep 06, 2023 |
Brother, am sure you are not aware of postpartum depression. Most women go through this after childbirth without knowing it. My simple advice for you is to hold your woman tight o! Be patient and very understanding, pet her, pamper her, do chores for her, get her all the support she needs now. She will bounce back quickly and before you know it, your woman will return back to that lovely lady wey dey totori you... It's not a new thing, na you just need to be her pillar of support and comfort. Woman wey born for you don become your lifesaver especially your wife. Abeg improve the gauge of your love for her, she's still that adoring woman only that she cannot understand what she's going through now. i suggest you google postpartum depression, you will know what she's going through now. Abeg brother, keep your home o, vultures dey everywhere. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by thesilentman(m): 2:06am On Sep 06, 2023 |
Boldideas:I urge you to shed more light on the DNA aspect,pls.I'd appreciate a lot. |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Padipadi: 3:06am On Sep 06, 2023 |
thesilentman:Was she supposed to pay CS money? Have you considered it's her belly that was cut and she's the one that carried the pregnancy. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by LikeAking: 3:25am On Sep 06, 2023 |
thesilentman: Divorce her or marry another wife.... 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Paulsalifu(m): 3:39am On Sep 06, 2023 |
Oga was never with her full time at the hospital that's why |
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