before I start I need to make it crystal clear that nothing is happening between me and her. I'm not a pedo and I don't plan to become one.

I give private guitar lessons and for the past year I've been giving lessons to this 17 year old girl (I'm 26). We have a super chill vibe in our lessons and get pretty conversational about casual topics and music we like. Recently she confided in me that she has a crush on me and wants to get closer to me to which I laughed it off and told her point blank the answer is no. I don't know if I should tell her parents about this or how they'll react. I might just stop our lessons altogether. She's a good kid, very popular and pretty. I just don't know how to approach this situation.

Delete this post first thing

Are we suppose to praise you for doing the needful or are you looking for some slight encouragement to go ahead because you won't see one.

everybody na saint online

the first two responses are unwarranted.... @OP, telling her parents might cause more problems, the thing is, you should only focus on the lessons for now and don't discuss anything off topic.. because if you try to tell her parents, she might twist the words and use it against you... you know how these females can be...

this is why a man and a woman can never be friends, feelings must surely get into the way most especially if they've spent some pretty good times together... you should be careful so you don't get falsely accused of harassing or molesting someone's daughter.. and I might be wrong, it seems you admit that she's pretty and you guys also vibe well, you better be careful and know the kind of conversation you'd be having with her because you might find yourself doing what you said you wouldn't do if she gets bolder... and that might open a bag of troubles for you later on..

remember if anything happens, the blame would be on you more even though you might be innocent... she's still young, probably naive but her eyes might be already opened... you have a choice to make... don't shit where you eat...

PaganTerrorist:
before I start I need to make it crystal clear that nothing is happening between me and her. I'm not a pedo and I don't plan to become one.

I give private guitar lessons and for the past year I've been giving lessons to this 17 year old girl (I'm 26). We have a super chill vibe in our lessons and get pretty conversational about casual topics and music we like. Recently she confided in me that she has a crush on me and wants to get closer to me to which I laughed it off and told her point blank the answer is no. I don't know if I should tell her parents about this or how they'll react. I might just stop our lessons altogether. She's a good kid, very popular and pretty. I just don't know how to approach this situation.

This is wrong bro.

Discourage her.

Teenage Love exploited always results in adult hatred unavoidable

You should just stop the guitar lesson already.

PaganTerrorist:
before I start I need to make it crystal clear that nothing is happening between me and her. I'm not a pedo and I don't plan to become one.

I give private guitar lessons and for the past year I've been giving lessons to this 17 year old girl (I'm 26). We have a super chill vibe in our lessons and get pretty conversational about casual topics and music we like. Recently she confided in me that she has a crush on me and wants to get closer to me to which I laughed it off and told her point blank the answer is no. I don't know if I should tell her parents about this or how they'll react. I might just stop our lessons altogether. She's a good kid, very popular and pretty. I just don't know how to approach this situation.

i know you are tempt to sleep with her. i know you want a piece of that young virgin pucci. but please remember they serve watery half done beans in prison .. you might not survive the prison life.

Don't listen to the commenters above me. Many of them think dirty and feel everyone is like them..

If you feel her genuinely, then groom/train (I don't mean paying her bills) her and wife her afterwards. The age gap isn't too much for something reasonable..

Remember, true love is patient, so don't try to defile her or mislead her. See her as your student, friend and wife to be in the nearest future...

MrsTwrite:
You should just stop the guitar lesson already.

No

I'm getting paid more than a VI pre school teacher's salary so I can't leave

Note to self.

Never hire a young single guy as lesson teacher for my daughters

Avoid her advances and see what happens when she turns 26 , the insults you will receive in your life will earn God thanks for avoiding a land mine , be careful with teens they actually don't know what they want

If you know the drama teenage girls put up to pull people down, you will run. Young girls these days can innocently tarnish the good image of a promising young man. You may want to tell the parents but she can possibly come up with a story they will believe so gently avoid her.

Just wait 2 or 3 more years

If you are a good person with no intent of exploiting her then tell her that she has not yet come of legal age and she will put you in trouble.

I was in a similar position 7yrs ago. I was 24yrs and just finished my youth service, she was 17yrs preparing for jamb.

I was taking her private lessons for the jamb and feelings started flying. In my case she didn't say it but I could see that the girl was Catching Feelings but pretended like I wasn't noticing.

She would chat on facebook, call me like 10 times a day even after closing the class. Lol

She failed the first jamb. When she clocked 18yrs and legal age, I made the proposal and she gladly agreed...

A perfect and decent girl I wouldn't want to exploit. As usual the relationship began as hide and seek for her parents not to know.

At 19yrs the mother discovered and called us for a private talk. A very understanding woman. I talked with her in the presence of her daughter explaining my feelings and plans for us. I could tell that my girl was impressed and the mom saw a gentle man. She only advised us to be careful and also she doesn't want her husband to know yet until when she feels her daughter is mature enough.


At 20yrs she gained admission, after year one her dad was laid off from work and she was supposed to drop from school but the same year, God blessed me and I could support her in school too.

We are 7yrs together, we have never fought, still faithful to each other, never cheated, both families are themselves as in-laws, infact during holidays in school most times she spends her holiday at either with my own grandma in the village OR with my elder brother's wife in the state she schools.

My mom and her mom already refer to each other as in-laws.

We have grown together from two naive youths to soon become husband and wife.

Once she rounds off her final paper, marriage plans will be on the way.

So like I said earlier so long as u have no ulterior motives for that young girl, keep your feelings away till she clocks legal age. If she is homely and has sense, groom her

Everybody comes online to form saints

Some of them were disvirgined at 15

They started having lovers from JSS2

Aisha buhari was 17 when buhari got her pregnant.

Don't have anything sexual with her for now

But love and protect her until she clocks 20

If you miss this opportunity

You go regret am

Ballzproblem2:
Are we suppose to praise you for doing the needful or are you looking for some slight encouragement to go ahead because you won't see one.

everybody na saint online

I be won ask am whether the girl get big breast sef😁

MrsTwrite:
You should just stop the guitar lesson already.

wetin dey put food for e table?

YoungLionken:
Don't listen to the commenters above me. Many of them think dirty and feel everyone is like them..

If you feel her genuinely, then groom/train her and wife her afterwards. The age gap isn't too much for something reasonable..

Remember, true love is patient, so don't try to defile her or mislead her. See her as your student, friend and wife to be in the nearest future...

Una no dey like dey realistic. Groom her in this current generation? Lmao.

Anonymoususher:
If you are a good person with no intent of exploiting her then tell her that she has not yet come of legal age and she will put you in trouble.

I was in a similar position 7yrs ago. I was 24yrs and just finished my youth service, she was 17yrs preparing for jamb.

I was taking her private lessons for the jamb and feelings started flying. In my case she didn't say it but I could see that the girl was Catching Feelings but pretended like I wasn't noticing.

She would chat on facebook, call me like 10 times a day even after closing the class. Lol

She failed the first jamb. When she clocked 18yrs and legal age, I made the proposal and she gladly agreed...

A perfect and decent girl I wouldn't want to exploit. As usual the relationship began as hide and seek for her parents not to know.

At 19yrs the mother discovered and called us for a private talk. A very understanding woman. I talked with her in the presence of her daughter explaining my feelings and plans for us. I could tell that my girl was impressed and the mom saw a gentle man. She only advised us to be careful and also she doesn't want her husband to know yet until when she feels her daughter is mature enough.


At 20yrs she gained admission, after year one her dad was laid off from work and she was supposed to drop from school but the same year, God blessed me and I could support her in school too.

We are 7yrs together, we have never fought, still faithful to each other, never cheated, both families are themselves as in-laws, infact during holidays in school most times she spends her holiday at either with my own grandma in the village OR with my elder brother's wife in the state she schools.

My mom and her mom already refer to each other as in-laws.

We have grown together from two naive youths to soon become husband and wife.

Once she rounds off her final paper, marriage plans will be on the way.

So like I said earlier so long as u have no ulterior motives for that young girl, keep your feelings away till she clocks legal age. If she is homely and has sense, groom her

you're a lucky man.

illicit:
Everybody comes online to form saints

Some of them were disvirgined at 15

They started having lovers from JSS2

my guy no too vex na

OP,

It is Normal and Natural for 14,15,16year old Girls to Have CRUSH on Older guys. 😒🙂

But This Feelings do NOT last long and is Mostly borne out of the Female Hormones building up in them.😕🙁

When I did my NYSC in Benue in 2016, the SS2 and SS3 Girls in my school used their Big Boobs to Harass me, No be small. 😥😟

Just Try Your Best to RESIST the Temptation.

In years to come, They will always Respect you.🤨🙂

Tenrack:
my guy no too vex na

Walahi

Some people are just liars

Cutehector:
Note to self.

Never hire a young single guy as lesson teacher for my daughters

Dey Dia they Deceive yourself.😏

Haven't you not seen Married Men molesting Young Girls?🙁

Some of you always think all married men are Saints and Single Guys are Corrupt. 😕😒

Cutehector:
Note to self.

Never hire a young single guy as lesson teacher for my daughters

100

Hmmmm

illicit:


Walahi

Some people are just liars

Men seeking online validation

What a generation!!
Bloody hell

Crazies everywhere.

There are certain lines we shouldn't cross when we are put in charge of minors.

Any adult working with children of the opposite gender in that age bracket-when they are coming into their sexuality and hormones are raging is expected to maintain a professional disposition and never break character.


In your words '...super chill vibe...pretty conversational about casual topics....she's very popular and pretty...' I think you encouraged her, innocently maybe. Now you have to be the adult and discourage her.

Get her off your mind and stop seeking validation from strangers on a faceless forum.

The best way not to get into trouble is to avoid it

Cutehector:
Note to self.

Never hire a young single guy as lesson teacher for my daughters

Neither will your wife allows you to hire a gorgeous looking female teacher and your daughter will grumble at old ugly looking female teacher.