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Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by Pedrocross4568(m): 11:01am On Sep 18, 2023 |
My mother passed away on Saturday evening. She wasn't even sick at all. She helped my sister in the kitchen and washed her clothes this same Saturday. At 5 pm she said she was tired and needed to take her bath and eat to rest. She went and took her bath and went into her room to dress up. My sister called her to come out to eat and she never responded. That was the end Here in the car with her lying beside me on my way to taking her home and she is just there not knowing that her children she worries so much about all the time are right her beside her. What a life. My younger brother is with me. At the Mortuary when we picked up her lifeless body, her hand was a bit up, and my brother thought it would come down as we journeyed home, only for him to see it now at Ore and was surprised that it was still up. I have to explain to him that it can never go down anymore. My question is this? Why do people go through so much and do all the unimaginable things to make money, when all it takes is for the spirit to go and our flash is useless? My heart is full of pain. My mother has given so much for us since my Dad died 30 years ago and she was just starting to enjoy it for once and yet the hand of the dead took her away from me. In the end, life is nothing. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by iammo(m): 11:06am On Sep 18, 2023 |
Am truly sorry for your loss brother... In any consolation just know she is in a better place with angels catering for her far more care than you can RIP to her Stay strong and lead your family as the next authority . 3 Likes |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by Oganla101: 11:11am On Sep 18, 2023 |
This is almost the same way my mum left us last year. She was not sick at all. Sorry for your loss OP. May she rest in peace. 3 Likes |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by Kingosytex(m): 11:18am On Sep 18, 2023 |
I'm so sorry for the loss bro. Please accept my condolences. Losing one's mother is really painful as I've been in that situation before. The life we live can be taken at any moment, nothing is guaranteed. 1 Like |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by talented321: 11:19am On Sep 18, 2023 |
Loosing a love one teaches so many things we don't know about life before. Take care my man... 1 Like |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by ibechris(m): 11:30am On Sep 18, 2023 |
Pls,be consoled and I feel ur pain. In fact,my mother in law died same way last year December and it was really painful. That woman meant alot to us all. May her kind soul rest in perfect peace. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by Nobody: 11:33am On Sep 18, 2023 |
Sorry dear that's life RIP Believe it that she's in a better place 1 Like |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by Acidosis(m): 11:46am On Sep 18, 2023 |
Oh my God. This is so sad. ..so sorry man. I can't begin to imagine the shock and pain 1 Like |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by Xscape1993(m): 11:47am On Sep 18, 2023 |
Take heart sir. God knows the best for you all. 1 Like |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by Nobody: 12:11pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
Acidosis:Awnn are you an emotional kinda guy? Do you cry? |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by Baloranking(m): 12:24pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
My condolences op. May God strengthen and heal you. 1 Like |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by Mindlog: 12:31pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
May her soul rest in peace. Be consoled by your memory of her being a heroine, holding the fort for 30 years after the death of her husband and raised you all. In any of your "alone moments" after her burial, get a plain sheet of paper and write a thank you letter to her, pour out your heart and later go out somewhere private and burn the letter....it is well. 5 Likes |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by dontrulee: 12:58pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
Accept my condolences Op. I wonder how I'll feel when I loose either of my Parents. It's something I think about everyday and I have chosen to accept the reality should it happen that way, So I'm prepared. However I'm also aware and prepared that I may die before them. My own personal death is a reality I've accepted since I was 20years. Whether I live long or not, my life is fulfilled. Once again accept my condolences. 6 Likes |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by doggedfighter(f): 1:12pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
We work so hard to acquire and achieve so much and then death happens leaving us all helpless. The futility of life !!! I am saddened by your loss. My condolences !! 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by bluepreek(m): 1:29pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
Take heart bro.... May her soul rip 1 Like |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by mariahAngel(f): 1:42pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
Sorry for your loss. May God Almighty comfort and fill your hearts and souls, both you and your siblings. You all are not alone. Be comforted. God is with you. 2 Likes |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by CloudTrees(f): 1:49pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
There isn't much to life except death and birth But we are conditioned by nature to strive for comfort. The comfort isn't just for ourselves, but for our kids and generations yet unborn. Humans through out our lives live a life of constant sacrifice and struggles. Its not as if you can take anything out of life after death, we are just clouds acting, passing and never to return. The is no reward except that which you have given while on earth. One can only hope reincarnation is real so we all can reap what we sow 1 Like |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by 2goodbobo(m): 2:37pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
Take heart bro. I understand your pain because I have been there before. We are all walking dead bodies separated by time. 1 Like |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by Justkatty(f): 2:47pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
May God rest her soul and may God give your family the fortitude to bear the loss. 1 Like |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by Balablue64: 2:47pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
If my mom goes right now na to go share property and sell |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by sisisioge: 3:00pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
It is well my brother. This is exactly what I was discussing with my sister the other day because of Mohbad's situation. How all our struggles, wants and haves wont matter one day. May God rest your mama well. Try to remember what you wrote anytime you push yourself too hard leaving those things that really matter unattended....our health, peace, loved ones and general wellbeing. Take heart. 1 Like |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by Dubetex96(m): 3:01pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
That is very painful experience that u won't forget in your life time but u have to take comfort that she's resting in God arm. I lost my own six years ago but it still looks like she died today sometimes reminiscing the memories we shared always brought tears to me. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by Caaz: 3:08pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
Pls accept my condolences. 1 Like |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by Sweetvie: 3:35pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
Sorry for your loss May her soul rest in peace 1 Like |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by CarlosTheJackal: 3:39pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
The pains never goes away By this time last year my mum was on oxygen and fighting for her life, we lost her by the last day of the month and the pains has refused to go away. Death is cruel 1 Like |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by Kaido: 4:27pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
Please, accept my condolences. 1 Like |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by fortunez1(m): 4:43pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
Sorry bro , life is unexplainable. But open your eyes from now onwards till she's buried not everyone that comes around are really coming to help , some will come to steal or set confusion between you and your siblings. This is a time for you and your siblings to bond together. 1 Like |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by GboyegaD(m): 4:58pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
So sorry for your loss. May her soul rest in perfect peace and may God uphold the family she left behind in Jesus Name. 1 Like |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by juman(m): 5:13pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
Condolences to you and the family. Its irreparable loss. Its one of the greatest loss. 1 Like |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by Pedrocross4568(m): 5:52pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
iammo: Thank you so much I'll do just that when the time is right. |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by Nobody: 5:57pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
My condolences, OP. May God comfort and strengthen you during this difficult time. May your loving mom's soul rest in heavenly peace. Do everything you can to always keep her memory alive. Hugs to you and your siblings. 1 Like |
Re: Just Lost My Mother And Get To See What Life Is Really All About by UnfairLife7(m): 6:14pm On Sep 18, 2023 |
So sorry for the loss bro |
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