I am glad seeing fellow men standing up for our woman. Most of these boys from broken homes do not know the importance of women in the society.

Its seriously alarming the women bashing thread on Nairaland these days.

Slaveman343:
Too many disrespectful Nigerian men on the internet space today. I see them insulting women on Fb, Instagram, Twitter, Nairaland. Let's wait for the consequences of these careless utterances in a while. You want women to submit to this level of vileness. Always counseling women yet you are the most immoral.

I wash my hand off the nemesis coming upon most of you. God should see that I'm not part of this.

Get the hell outta my mention weak man. I don't argue words with men of your kind. Nothing can reset your brain unless a woman that have done you dirty. For your information whatever i will say will be above your brain level sir. Bye, do have a good night rest!

Actually it is a misconception that there are more women than men. The reverse is actually the case. In Nigeria there are more men than women.

Gafferde:
Women are surplus but ready men are scarce.

More men keep running away from relationships and marriages because of financial responsibilities and obligations. Many of them are waiting to make money, and afterwards pick any woman they like. You can't blame them.

Call them weak men. Call them insecure men. It doesn't and will never change the fact that society measures the seriousness of a suitor by his financial readiness and capability.

If you're a woman and you're already married or in a committed relationship, you don't know how blessed you are. You are really blessed. Be grateful to that man. Be grateful everyday for finding love. It's very difficult to experience real love from a man whom other women rejected because he was not financially up to standard.

Your marriage or relationship may be rocky at the moment, but always thank your creator for bringing him to you. Be grateful that he still loves you and he still sticks around.

Fight for what you both have and share. Protect your man and your intimacy. Pray for your man.

Nice2023:
I just laugh here.

U guys are very funny. To think that this topic was meant to talk about why some folks refused to marry early and now,many of them have turned it against women.

Before u come for me,I am a man with three chdren and for all of u waiting to make big money before marriage. Don't worry I wish u guys the best in ur pursuits.

But stop disparaging and embarrassing women just because u don't have confident in ur yourselves nor respect ur sisters at home and u come up here to embarrass them online.

Marriage is not for broke men who can't feed themselves,even gamblers and cashless men will also come to talk about marriage. If u think u are a smart guy without money,first enter marriage and see how useless u will be in just a matter months.

Whether u want to marry later or u think age is just a number...no wahala but one thing is sure,u will always regret not marrying early...whether u are a macho man or flat chested man,u will see the consequences.

U can't marry at 50 and expect anyone to eulogise u. At that age,u will be buying pampers,staying late night to care for the baby or even carrying a new born when ur mates are nearing retirements(with due respect to those who had children late as a result of delay in child birth) and seeing their children graduating.

Last advice.

Allow men who matters dabble into marriage and leave out the chaff men to keep bragging about not marrying early as, time waits for no one.

I just dey laugh U, just thank god that you are doing well and feeding your family..... Many people really want to get married, but how can that be possible when you find it difficult to feed yourself.... Try dey bring your shoulder down my brother.

Nice2023:



This shows that u are inexperienced.

Okay.

Make sure to do DNA test.

Atleast to make sure you are not the pawn

Apart from the economy, men have up their games too.
No one wants to settle and take care of a beautiful lazy gurl for the rest of her life.

You want rich guys, Rich guys want ladies with economic value

MyExpression:
Apart from the economy, men have up their games too.
No one wants to settle and take care of a beautiful lazy gurl for the rest of her life.

You want rich guys, Rich guys want ladies with economic value

Men dont won't liabilities as wives this days

Slaveman343:
Many men want to marry. Speak for yourself only

you mean wizkid?

Wujio:
Because many women don't want to submit properly. You can't safely have them

Baba the primary reason why men are avoiding marriage is lack of funds.

They may try to give other reasons but the moment they have money, they will miraculously find a submissive woman to marry.

Men do want to get marry... but not like before. There is an agenda to destroy the traditional family and many are buying into it and don't even know. Redpillars ... brainwashing young guys to see young women as undercover whores... why would they be interested in a marrying a potential LovePeddler? Such guys usually bond and in time lust for each other... undercover gay masquerading as alpha male. Then there are the losers... ones who make a pile of money then believe they can buy love .... get burn by the women and carry a grudge against all women .... cannot trust another in a relationship let alone to get marry. Then there are the ones that sit on the sidelines and witness all the failed relationships only ... never the blissful long lasting ones .... and conclude marriage is a scam .... marriage is not for him. Then there are the ones that do rush into marriage for the wrong reasons .... pointy tits... small waist and balloon nyash etc... but then realize there is nothing more to offer. Those who are really interested in marriage need to start seeking a partner when young to build a relationship. Most don't.... have fun then when 30 plus be looking for a "good girl" and be crying there is none.... Nigerian girls are no good.

Nice2023:
I just laugh here.

U guys are very funny. To think that this topic was meant to talk about why some folks refused to marry early and now,many of them have turned it against women.

Before u come for me,I am a man with three chdren and for all of u waiting to make big money before marriage. Don't worry I wish u guys the best in

But stop disparaging and embarrassing women just because u don't have confident in ur yourselves nor respect ur sisters at home and u come up here to embarrass them online.

Marriage is not for broke men who can't feed themselves,even gamblers and cashless men will also come to talk about marriage. If u think u are a smart guy without money,first enter marriage and see how useless u will be in just a matter months.

Whether u want to marry later or u think age is just a number...no wahala but one thing is sure,u will always regret not marrying early...whether u are a macho man or flat chested man,u will see the consequences.

U can't marry at 50 and expect anyone to eulogise u. At that age,u will be buying pampers,staying late night to care for the baby or even carrying a new born when ur mates are nearing retirements(with due respect to those who had children late as a result of delay in child birth) and seeing their children graduating.

Last advice.

Allow men who matters dabble into marriage and leave out the chaff men to keep bragging about not marrying early as, time waits for no one.

my brother let me tell you , any man that speaks this way has no sense at all, Do you know that most Nigerian girls are not marriageable currently? Let me let you know the issue here, this problem runs in circles. Have you ever wondered why Nigerian men are the most preferred in most African and European countries ? Is because we know how to love . Now let’s see this from the negative point of view. Have you ever wondered how most of these yahoo boys make it in romance scam ? (Which I totally condemn) . Is simply because of there projection of character with a negative intention , which is to say that they know how to make a woman feel loved and win her heart. An average Nigerian male youth grew up loving our girls only to find out the opposite later on. The same measure they used to like the ladies is equal to they measure the use in hating them .Most guys did not start cheating on there first dates until they were heart broken , then it became a pay back agenda. Today our girls, or most and not all are currently not desirable for marriage .promiscuous and entitlement mentality has engulfed them. I will tell you that some guys are not getting married, is simply because of fear and not money. What most girls do this days would make you give up totally on marriage. I have seen liquid money gees say that they can’t marry a Nigerian girl . In fact I just came back from a marriage ceremony in Rwanda, a friend got married to a Rwandan girl, very pretty and very humble and respectful. I know of friends that married to ladies from other African countries and I will tell you , they are not complaining at all. So back home where did we get it wrong . What is wrong with our ladies . You don’t just assume and talk, do your research and study the statistics . Our ladies are lacking a lot that makes marriage horrible hearing . I know there are still good ladies out there , they should fight against or try correcting these bad eggs , because they way I see it in future a lot of guys from naija would not marry Nigerian ladies, it has started already. So after suffering the hardship of this country you would want to settle with someone that would give you an untimely death ? The answer is No. And check the statistics , married men in Nigeria die more than they women . So use your brain and figure out the rest .

Micromaker23:
my brother let me tell you , any man that speaks this way has no sense at all, Do you know that most Nigerian girls are not marriageable currently? Let me let you know the issue here, this problem runs in circles. Have you ever wondered why Nigerian men are the most preferred in most African and European countries ? Is because we know how to love . Now let’s see this from the negative point of view. Have you ever wondered how most of these yahoo boys make it in romance scam ? (Which I totally condemn) . Is simply because of there projection of character with a negative intention , which is to say that they know how to make a woman feel loved and win her heart. An average Nigerian male youth grew up loving our girls only to find out the opposite later on. The same measure they used to like the ladies is equal to they measure the use in hating them .Most guys did not start cheating on there first dates until they were heart broken , then it became a pay back agenda. Today our girls, or most and not all are currently not desirable for marriage .promiscuous and entitlement mentality has engulfed them. I will tell you that some guys are not getting married, is simply because of fear and not money. What most girls do this days would make you give up totally on marriage. I have seen liquid money gees say that they can’t marry a Nigerian girl . In fact I just came back from a marriage ceremony in Rwanda, a friend got married to a Rwandan girl, very pretty and very humble and respectful. I know of friends that married to ladies from other African countries and I will tell you , they are not complaining at all. So back home where did we get it wrong . What is wrong with our ladies . You don’t just assume and talk, do your research and study the statistics . Our ladies are lacking a lot that makes marriage horrible hearing . I know there are still good ladies out there , they should fight against or try correcting these bad eggs , because they way I see it in future a lot of guys from naija would not marry Nigerian ladies, it has started already. So after suffering the hardship of this country you would want to settle with someone that would give you an untimely death ? The answer is No. And check the statistics , married men in Nigeria die more than they women . So use your brain and figure out the rest .

Omo you said it all. A friend of my sister (A Hausa Guy) is currently doing well in life. He is old enough to get married but don't want to.

He has stopped going to their family house because they must bring marriage talk.

What's his reason for not getting married? It's because what women are doing this days have been discouraging him. The said him dey fear

Marriage is like this newly released product that hit the market , promising the whole universe on the label.
Alas ,you open the packet and the contents are completely different from the endorsement on the label.

If you marry do your best to do so without any expectations or you might be disappointed.

Una don come with this nonsense again.

Imagine someone saying "a man of 50yrs still changing diapers", seriously what the blithering fXXXk has that got to do with anything?, so fugging what?? Have you not seen grandparents caring for their children's children? Well I have!! plenty, in fact.

Like I would strongly encourage people to be careful of the arrant nonsense you read online.

I'm in my forties, not married, not particularly handsome , yet I I cannot count the long list of potential wife materials literally begging to attach my surname to theirs. When a call is made for people "who will find a partner this year", among those that rush out, which gender is the majority? Yes, you know the answer. So why keep deceiving ourselves online. why WHY WHY??

FYI, as man born by a woman and also with sisters, I would never condone mindless bashing of our dear female folks; however what I would also never condone is fake, twisted narrative just to sooth the ego of your online followers with the pink "f" after their names. Truth is, it doesn't help them.

So why have I not married? Well its complex, and a story for another day.

Just suffice to say, its a man's world, has been and always will be. Deal with it.

Because they marry for something else not you.