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Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by dkidd: 10:00pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
ahnie:I hope u will also agree when I advise a wife to keep tolerating her cheating philandering husband because "men are polygamous in nature and she should always keep that in mind". Imagine advise. When u keep correcting an adult over and over on the same issues it doesn't mean they're dull, it means ur stupid and being taken for granted because they will never change. It's only wise to correct those willing to take it. Stop trying to cook pebbles and expect them to get soft. U go old there 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by searchlight: 10:01pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
layzuedd:Lol that will still need to quarrel |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by ahnie: 10:06pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
Lolz mariahAngel: 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by BrightShine: 10:22pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
Thegoodone13: Op, This is the situation, take this comment seriously and deal with it!!!! She has met another man already, just End the marriage in your heart, don't date anyone else for now, just make up your mind to sink the boat, See her as just room mate, harden your heart like it is over.... Then watch what happens, She will think, She might move on with the new man, or turn back to her sense, trust me both decision will favor you... 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by Autobot05: 10:25pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
Sleekfingers: Ok since you mentioned kids But if no kids then it’s not too much And once I find out she’s cheating it’s an automatic ticket to the court for a divorce |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by Sleekfingers: 10:40pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
Autobot05: Of course, Na divorce straight. |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by Nobody: 10:51pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
Thief when are you going to pay my money?you sold a faulty car to me since august and still organized your gangs of thieves to rob me. tojahh: 5 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by Xylon: 10:52pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
ahnie:You know the funny part? 45 year old man go carry issue come, na 16 year old boy go dey give advice ![]() ![]() 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by EMILO2STAY(m): 10:57pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
nairalanduser23:mr man let me tell you your problem.... and that is " you have failed to man up" your wife is the troublesome type. trust me, I have seen and know her type.she is the kind of woman loves to make trouble and quarrels at the slightest opportunity. that is because it is in th fibre of her beign. also she sees you as less of a man because it seems you are too soft on her and she feels no fear nor threat from you so she has lost regard and respect for you this is what you need to do. never ever give her the chance to start a quarrel with you for flimsy reason ever again. once she starts that warn her seriously about it with a very serious and angry face. if she tries is again without concenting to the first warning. teach her a lesson by refusing to provide as you normally would, and this includes recharging of cable tv, buying fuel for gen, even provinding for food in the house or giving her any money for up keep . you have to stamp your feet down as the man of the house and let her know that you are in charge and should not be toyed with or treated like an idiot. in marriages, men should have the mentality that they are doing the women a huge favour by marrying them literally taking care of them for the rest of their misrable lifes. and as such the women should stay humble and respectful. if you paid her bride price, if you funded the wedding why should the woman come into your own house to talk to you any how. a house where she is beeing fed and taken care of like a baby and she will be talking to you anyhow even looking for trouble?' the average nigerian man is a sissy and weakling. men should learn that a woman should be kept under control and subdued. our forefathers did this, thats how they where able to marry four five wives and still comtrol all of them even without much wealth. today the men are busy seeking for how they will please the woman instead of controlling them. 4 Likes |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by pansophist(m): 10:59pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
Peace usually reigns between two entities (eg between couples, friends, countries, companies, etc) when both have an equal monopoly of violence. To sharpen your sword is not because you want to hurt others, but to send a clear message that you can respond if they plan to hurt you. Your wife is quarrelsome to you because you accepted it, and you also don't have any madness in you. That's a recipe for suffering, and you will always be at the mercy of those who have only madness in them. So your wife has to know for sure that your calmness is not you being afraid to be mad, or that you can't be mad, but because you are disciplined, and would rather be at peace than blows up the whole damn place. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by BluntCrazeMan: 11:08pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
nairalanduser23: Peter-Obi type of people..!! Guy.. Don't always be predictably soft everytime. Be seriously dynamic. Don't be too predictable. |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by rumenase(m): 11:56pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
nairalanduser23:Your wife is pregnant 🤰 |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by omooba969(m): 12:06am On Nov 08, 2023 |
mariahAngel: Hehehe, 'to keep praying for an adult to come to an understanding', one who has a functioning brain to discern btw right & wrong. Some kind advice though...😒 2 Likes 1 Share
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Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by benjyyyyy07: 12:32am On Nov 08, 2023 |
Im not saying he's weak but he cares too much and she knows. Let her know she needs you Korean that's what I did. GoldenJAT: |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by ojonugba2014(m): 3:37am On Nov 08, 2023 |
I can't wait to get married one day. I just dea imagine say one lady/woman wl vow to stay under my roof ND still not give me peace of mind. Life self go tire her before she pack her load 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by Nobody: 3:46am On Nov 08, 2023 |
tojahh I m calling you out,come give me back my money you stole from me. You sold a car to me since august,40 minutes later you sent your boys to point a gun at me and stole the car. Return my 1.2 million naira. Thief No one should make the mistake of doing business with tojahh in auto section,he's a fraudster. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by cerpvad(m): 8:21am On Nov 08, 2023 |
Whenever she picks quarrel , threaten to send her away. She will humble herself at once nairalanduser23: |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by Damian911: 8:31am On Nov 08, 2023 |
mariahAngel:Imagine yourself dating a wife beater who always assault u and one idiot advise you pray for him to change how does that sound? ![]() You're not ready for the conversation are you? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by EmperorCaesar(m): 9:11am On Nov 08, 2023 |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by EmperorCaesar(m): 9:14am On Nov 08, 2023 |
OctavianAC: This your name tho Octavian Augustus Caesar |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by mariahAngel(f): 9:36am On Nov 08, 2023 |
Damian911: They're not comparable, and you know it. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by mariahAngel(f): 9:37am On Nov 08, 2023 |
omooba969: Not that I ever expected someone like you to understand. 🙄 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by amadiwati(m): 10:01am On Nov 08, 2023 |
Silence. Don't react. It get it wants to get physical walk away. Remind yourself this everyday nairalanduser23: 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by Jman06(m): 10:52am On Nov 08, 2023 |
The most annoying thing is being with an angry wife. So frustrating |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by Anfieldboss: 10:54am On Nov 08, 2023 |
mariahAngel: You women always try to lighten verbal abuse, maybe because many of you have a sharp mouth and are guilty of it. What you don't know is that verbal abuse is equally as deadly as physical abuse. Verbal abuse has both mental and psychological effects on men. Many men have been sent to their early graves because of verbal abuse. Unfortunately, the society will continue to excuse it and expect men to live with it, just as many of you are suggesting in this thread. |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by iFESTAC680(m): 12:28pm On Nov 08, 2023 |
ahnie: You need to read again ! Issues like this deserves drastic measures of which divorce is not an option. You will agree that absence makes the heart grow fonder. Omo take a chill pill, give a break she go get sense. |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by ahnie: 12:35pm On Nov 08, 2023 |
What prompted my response was....majority of them told the op to divorce his wife. This is something that can be worked on,there re far better ways of handling the issues on ground. Everything nor be divorce, divorce unfortunately this is nairaland where a teenager of 13 years will be advicing a grown man of 54yrs. iFESTAC680: |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by mariahAngel(f): 1:00pm On Nov 08, 2023 |
Anfieldboss: Op never stated that the wife verbally abuses him, but rather easily picks quarrel with him because she does not like the way he talks to her. Let us stick to the topic please. |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by mariahAngel(f): 1:07pm On Nov 08, 2023 |
ahnie: ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by ahnie: 1:09pm On Nov 08, 2023 |
I think he should cut down on how he holds conversation with her simple.its as simple as ABC. mariahAngel: |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by mariahAngel(f): 1:12pm On Nov 08, 2023 |
ahnie: If talking does not work, then maybe. ![]() |
Re: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by ahnie: 1:15pm On Nov 08, 2023 |
mariahAngel:When it comes to women talks,na then you go see them sprouting out clamouring for divorce like say divorce dey grow on trees. The simple solution be say....make the man cut down on the too much familiarity with his wife,stop engaging her in any discussion. Even people wey don shamelessly turn their wives to punching bags for house de tell op to divorce his wife. |
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