Godoverevery:


From Jewessgratitud3 AKA Mercychen who almost settled for a widower with 6 kids.

Men outside nairaland......why you never see one marry you grandma.

Godoverevery:


From someone who almost settled for a widower with 6 kids.

Men outside nairaland......why you never see one marry you grandma.

DonBenny77:
I won't marry a lady that can't afford her body cream.
Most ladies do contribution without earnings from any job.
Pure magic!

Godoverevery:
Note- this not a post to bash ladies.

A pattern I noticed with most working class ladies have dated from 27yrs old upward.
At the earliest stage, they claim to be tired of relationship, they are fine without a man.
They are doing fine without a man and in fact if not for pressure they don't mind not getting married...(mostly lies)

They say am financially ok without a man, i bought my phone, paid house rent etc without any man and i can never depend on any man hence why they can never be liability since they are working..(mostly lies)

Most claim to be doing fine during the wooing stage but immediately we start dating things turn out differently from what they claim.

Am dating a lady currently who works for a fashion house on the island...During the wooing stage we actually spoke alot for about 2 months and she claimed to be financially ok and doesn't need a man money. Infact she told me how much she paid weekly which is very decent with free accommodation and feeding.

We just started dating not up to 3weeks and this lady have been making demands which I find very childish and too disgraceful for an adult working.
She always complaining of money despite earning above minimum wage weekly.

This morning she called and i didn't pick........I chatted her up and she telling me her cream have finished and i replied hmmmm.
This a pattern have noticed with most working class ladies have dated......they tell you am an independent woman during wooing stage but once relationship start it just seems they are working and not earning with the way they demand and still be pressuring you with marriage talks.

(just want to know if am the only experiencing this or is just normal)

Note: this the fourth time this lady is demanding from me in 3 weeks and they are embarrassing to me for someone who earns.

michlins:
As the man, ask for the price of the cream and tell her how much you can provide. Now here's where you will know if she's worth her salt, if she insists on you providing all

luminouz:

You are disappointing me biko.

Shey with all the redpill on this forum, you still can't decipher a leech from a real G? Haba.... It's easy to spot that girl ain't what she claims na...

Soap and cream don finish, she billed you. Her birthday never reach oh ..house rent nko?

I don taya to talk. Men dey fall my hand biko

Jewessgratitud3:


Is that all?. Shior!

With your type, it's better one remains single because You're only going to make life miserable for any one who ends up with you like you're doing to her. Just ordinary money for cream, the whole world don hear am. Tufia! Instead of your type make she remain forever single. Thats why they cheat on you men and bring another man's seed to your house to train. If you can't buy a woman her basic needs another man go do am for am give am belle dump for una.

Marriage is not my problem and I will definitely marry when I find me the sensible one. Not efulefus that can't take care of themselves looking for who will join in their suffering.

Now I know why girls are marrying Grandpas cos their future is more secured with them. Is it not a shame for the young ladies to be choosing old men over you?

Regina Daniels made the best decision. At least she gets whatever she wants and Ned can never lament whenever she makes a request or take to social media for the world to judge her.

Marry marry marry... Na this type. Ta!

descarado:

See what I talked about.
This mentality will make ladies continue to ask and expect. That is enabling.

dominique:


So a man's inability to provide is a justification for cheating and paternity fraud?

@op every woman you date dey get one comma or the other, you sef get your own for body jare.

dominique:


So a man's inability to provide is a justification for cheating and paternity fraud?

@op every woman you date dey get one comma or the other, you sef get your own for body jare.

descarado:

Actually, you all here don't know the real meaning of alpha male you claim to be. Alpha male is a traditionalist and insist on providing for his woman always. Alpha male came from romance novels coined by female romance writers and is the most selling among all genres of novel. They are possessive and can do anything for their women.
Example of an alpha male is Christian in fifty shades of grey.
When I see you guys make this mistakes often and on, I come to the conclusion you don't read or research.

Those that writes supernatural romance eg werewolves used alphamale to depict the male.
Cos the male is a provider and proctecter.

One idiot online that knows nothing will come online to talk about what he knew nothing about and people will join the train without making little research.
What you all promote, follow and practice is narcissism not alpha male.
Know the difference.

BreconHills:
It's interesting how expressions mean different things in different countries.

In the UK a working class person is at the bottom of the food chain. After working class is middle class and then upper class. Upper class is hereditary and cant be bought with money - so top class for non upper class is billionaire, super rich etc.

Here it seems to mean a completely different thing. A working class lady such as the man describes here is probably lower middle class. 😅

Godoverevery:
Note- this not a post to bash ladies.

A pattern I noticed with most working class ladies have dated from 27yrs old upward.
At the earliest stage, they claim to be tired of relationship, they are fine without a man.
They are doing fine without a man and in fact if not for pressure they don't mind not getting married...(mostly lies)

They say am financially ok without a man, i bought my phone, paid house rent etc without any man and i can never depend on any man hence why they can never be liability since they are working..(mostly lies)

Most claim to be doing fine during the wooing stage but immediately we start dating things turn out differently from what they claim.

Am dating a lady currently who works for a fashion house on the island...During the wooing stage we actually spoke alot for about 2 months and she claimed to be financially ok and doesn't need a man money. Infact she told me how much she paid weekly which is very decent with free accommodation and feeding.

We just started dating not up to 3weeks and this lady have been making demands which I find very childish and too disgraceful for an adult working.
She always complaining of money despite earning above minimum wage weekly.

This morning she called and i didn't pick........I chatted her up and she telling me her cream have finished and i replied hmmmm.
This a pattern have noticed with most working class ladies have dated......they tell you am an independent woman during wooing stage but once relationship start it just seems they are working and not earning with the way they demand and still be pressuring you with marriage talks.

(just want to know if am the only experiencing this or is just normal)

Note: this the fourth time this lady is demanding from me in 3 weeks and they are embarrassing to me for someone who earns.

Godoverevery:
Note- this not a post to bash ladies.

A pattern I noticed with most working class ladies have dated from 27yrs old upward.
At the earliest stage, they claim to be tired of relationship, they are fine without a man.
They are doing fine without a man and in fact if not for pressure they don't mind not getting married...(mostly lies)

They say am financially ok without a man, i bought my phone, paid house rent etc without any man and i can never depend on any man hence why they can never be liability since they are working..(mostly lies)

Most claim to be doing fine during the wooing stage but immediately we start dating things turn out differently from what they claim.

Am dating a lady currently who works for a fashion house on the island...During the wooing stage we actually spoke alot for about 2 months and she claimed to be financially ok and doesn't need a man money. Infact she told me how much she paid weekly which is very decent with free accommodation and feeding.

We just started dating not up to 3weeks and this lady have been making demands which I find very childish and too disgraceful for an adult working.
She always complaining of money despite earning above minimum wage weekly.

This morning she called and i didn't pick........I chatted her up and she telling me her cream have finished and i replied hmmmm.
This a pattern have noticed with most working class ladies have dated......they tell you am an independent woman during wooing stage but once relationship start it just seems they are working and not earning with the way they demand and still be pressuring you with marriage talks.

(just want to know if am the only experiencing this or is just normal)

Note: this the fourth time this lady is demanding from me in 3 weeks and they are embarrassing to me for someone who earns.

Persephone1:
I don't know why, I'm loving your comments these days... Very balanced like an elder's words of advice.

Godoverevery:


So in uk the working class ladies who are at the bottom according to you..........can't they afford to buy themselves basic things like soap and cream

Cos I don't seem to get your point??

Aaaaarghmed:
Lol..they will always need your money even though dem dey form independent. I dont have a problem helping maybe my serious gf .thats if I even have sef.but she must have proved herself overtime and earned it overtime for me to be a father Christmas to her.For now,let me be stingy abeg .I have some things to achieve, make one mumu no come draw my plans back.

pansophist:


Warming up for my pastoral career. Too much money to be made in that field.

So you want to call yourself into ministry

Abeg Mummy GO post still dey vacant? I no mind Treasurer post self

Abyounghammed:


Baba manipulation, that girl don dey game since 5AD, that statement 'what can we do',
Ómo e go far, yet she say 'her contribution' and not our contribution

NonAIWriting:
You will send away all the good wife life is sending in your direction. A man must provide, stop these macho mentality.

pansophist:


Warming up for my pastoral career. Too much money to be made in that field.

Jackanda1:
So your primary aim of going into God's work or ministry is to make money abi? No passion for winning souls at all.

Godoverevery:


From someone who almost settled for a widower with 6 kids.

Men outside nairaland......why you never see one marry you grandma.

DonBenny77:
I won't marry a lady that can't afford her body cream.
Most ladies do contribution without earnings from any job.
Pure magic!

descarado:

Actually, you all here don't know the real meaning of alpha male you claim to be. Alpha male is a traditionalist and insist on providing for his woman always. Alpha male came from romance novels coined by female romance writers and is the most selling among all genres of novel. They are possessive and can do anything for their women.

Example of an alpha male is Christian in fifty shades of grey.

When I see you guys make this mistakes often and on, I come to the conclusion you don't read or research.

Those that writes supernatural romance eg werewolves used alphamale to depict the male. Cos the male is a provider and proctecter.

One idiot online that knows nothing will come online to talk about what he knew nothing about and people will join the train without making little research.

What you all promote, follow and practice is narcissism not alpha male.

Know the difference.

BreconHills:



The point I am making is that working class in Nigeria refers to those who have jobs usually decent ones as opposed to student who depend on parents. .

However in the UK working class people are those born into the lower parts of society and who have to work two or three jobs just to stay afloat. Heredity, parents occupations, and level of education is the determinant of class not money.

Godoverevery:
Note- this not a post to bash ladies.

A pattern I noticed with most working class ladies have dated from 27yrs old upward.
At the earliest stage, they claim to be tired of relationship, they are fine without a man.
They are doing fine without a man and in fact if not for pressure they don't mind not getting married...(mostly lies)

They say am financially ok without a man, i bought my phone, paid house rent etc without any man and i can never depend on any man hence why they can never be liability since they are working..(mostly lies)

Most claim to be doing fine during the wooing stage but immediately we start dating things turn out differently from what they claim.

Am dating a lady currently who works for a fashion house on the island...During the wooing stage we actually spoke alot for about 2 months and she claimed to be financially ok and doesn't need a man money. Infact she told me how much she paid weekly which is very decent with free accommodation and feeding.

We just started dating not up to 3weeks and this lady have been making demands which I find very childish and too disgraceful for an adult working.
She always complaining of money despite earning above minimum wage weekly.

This morning she called and i didn't pick........I chatted her up and she telling me her cream have finished and i replied hmmmm.
This a pattern have noticed with most working class ladies have dated......they tell you am an independent woman during wooing stage but once relationship start it just seems they are working and not earning with the way they demand and still be pressuring you with marriage talks.

(just want to know if am the only experiencing this or is just normal)

Note: this the fourth time this lady is demanding from me in 3 weeks and they are embarrassing to me for someone who earns.

XAUBulls:

Indeed... Your perspective resonates with me. Well said.

The real meaning of alpha male has been bastardized by the younger ones here on NL since the early 2010s and I had the cause to correct some of them using an older NL moniker of mine. The term refers to even CEOs and other successful men who are strong but flexible, natural leaders and they are protective of their women and families. They are very distinct from male jerks who are verbally abusive and treat women very badly... These male jerks are NOT alpha males.

I first knew the alpha male term back in the 1990s on a men's only website and the TRUE definition is completely not the same with what is being carelessly implied by some young NL users.