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Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Padipadi: 12:49pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
It's pathetic and hurting. |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by TheDemola: 12:49pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Infolenka: E no easy o |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Epistasis(m): 12:50pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
I lost my dad in 2012, that was the worst thing I have ever experienced in my entire life. Still hurts me till date. 1 Like |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by TheDemola: 12:51pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Lovemeharder: I could relate sis. I lost my mum when I was about 10years old. It was as if the whole was crumbling. Sometimes, I wished she was alive 3 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Achor1111(m): 12:52pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Since 011 l lost my snr bro, my paddy guy. I'm yet to recover. 3 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by toprealman: 12:52pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Infolenka:Go read about Amor Fati |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Jogideen: 12:52pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
The lost of my Grandmother which i lost this month is a shock that touches my soul because i can't reason well for some weeks it touches me a lot because the pain is still there 1 Like |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by TheDemola: 12:54pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
ebijimi7: Oh! Wow!! Just within a year. Sorry bro. Thoughts and prayers are with you. May God comfort you Love ❤ and light 🕯 |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Enemyofpeace: 12:54pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
This is the reason I’m not emotionally attached to anyone on earth. Not even any of my parents. Love is for weak people 3 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Kingozymandias(m): 12:54pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
As a Muslim asking Allah (SWT) for forgiveness for the loved one , for protection from the grave and humiliation of the Day Of Judgement, and for Jannah (heaven) 3 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by ehikwe22: 12:55pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
It was a walk over for me but this is because I have the mindset that death is inevitable and everyone should expect their turn any moment. 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by SIXTEENTH(m): 12:55pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Lost my biological daughter last year July 27 just a week to her birthday, unfortunately I'm not in the state at moment and she's buried before I could reached home one mouth interval. I knew how it's feels during my trying days but hopefully she's in a better place. Rest with the Lord my dear Violet (Angel 😇) 4 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by taju4free(m): 12:56pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
I lost my Dad in the 2020 during covid-19 era it was devastating because the death was avoidable if medical check-up had been done to know his blood pressure, but thank God his gone to Heaven so there is no need to worry too much. 4 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by taju4free(m): 12:59pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
What! how can? bro you are human you will definately feel it if you loss someone close to you. Enemyofpeace: |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Oritna94(m): 1:00pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Hmmm, the thread brings a lot of memories. I lost my younger brother in 2009. It was a shock when I got the phone call. I had always feared for him because of his life style. We had been best of pals. I really miss him. I lost my Dad in 2011. Poor Dad, he was alone when he died. He just went to sleep and did not wake up. Continue to rest my dear pals. Till we meet again. 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Oritna94(m): 1:02pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Enemyofpeace: Lol. You are first human. No matter what you do, you are going to feel it. |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by optionalY09: 1:03pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Infolenka: go to jw.org 1 Like |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Addme: 1:06pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Very terrible experience though it's tough but will go off as times comes by. I barely knew my Dad but lost my dearest mum who laboured so well to see me through school. And it was at the time I was having the roughest part of my life. Also lost one of my twin kids not long ago. Those two experiences especially that of my mom really got me devastated and to make the matter worse,she was remembered and buried in my absence. Rest On Dearest Mum 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by oriakuuzoma: 1:06pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Mennnnn.... I lost my mum 2019..... it hurts like mad..... Everything in me change. Sometimes I felt so bad each time I remember it..... It hurts to lose a love 💓 one. She really suffer to put food on our table..... When things,.... is about to change she die. It hurts somuch 5 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by youngrichnigga: 1:07pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Congratulations as you've not lost anyone dear to you but let me tell you for certain that it will surely happen, it's just that you don't know when or how. Also note that there is no amount of preparation that can prepare you for the shock of losing a loved one. I've lost both parents, friends, relatives etc and none was I prepared for especially my mother when I was just growing into a man. My dad died in 2021, just hours after I had spoken to him; it was so shocking because his carer said she had fed him and he was relaxing at about 5 p.m. only for me to be called some minutes to 7pm that he was not responding on his seat and the doctor later certified him dead. So you see, you cannot prepare for it and neither can you foretell your reaction when it eventually happens. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by adedayourt(m): 1:07pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Move on with your life |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Unlettered: 1:07pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
I lost my father in 98’. At the age of 11. It made me the strongest person i can imagine. I strived for success in all i do, last month i participated as a panelist at the highest point in my career. Missed him so much that i have never saved a number with father, dad, baba or mentor. So i created a random number and saved it as father. I’m sad because he didnt take part in anything success in my life but 10years of birthday celebration. I was the best graduating role model in my sec sch. I was a panelist in the minds of industry professionals. I have travelled to 4 continents for business trip invitations and its heart breaking that i didnt get that “i’m proud of you” validation from my father. Value a loved one regardless of who that person is. Still feels like a dream after all these years. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Nobody: 1:08pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
pansophist: I wish I could upvote this 1000 times. I became deeply philosophical after losing both my parents in the past 6 years. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by EleventhWeirdo: 1:08pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
oluwaseyi0: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by TheGiftedOne(m): 1:10pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
The bible offers hope. If you're bereaved, please find some comfort in God's promises from the following scriptures... John 5:28,29, Acts 24:15, Revelation 21:4,5. 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Enemyofpeace: 1:10pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Oritna94:who told you that I’m human? So you think everyone walking on this surface of the earth and on nairaland is human? You have a long way to go spiritually 1 Like |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Banter1(m): 1:10pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Infolenka:Grace of God and prayers. It's never easy |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Father4all: 1:11pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Sorry for your lose. But TIME will heal you |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by ugodson(m): 1:13pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
When i lost my son, i only cried when am alone so i dont appear weak to my wife who cried hell. Well i got through it by looking back and remembering the time we had together (just got a flash of his smiling face) i also did this when my dad died. Just keep remembering the times you spent together i assure you it would Light up your face with smiles. Rest in peace to all our lost loved ones 5 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by talk2hb1(m): 1:16pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
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Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by captainking(m): 1:17pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
Just lost my dad this morning Slipped and hit head on the floor..did brain surgery but still did not make it. Such sad day for me.. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by IkeGod9891(m): 1:17pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
ecstasy37: So sorry bro |
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