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Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Thoughty2(m): 3:19am On Nov 26, 2023 |
Matrix137: Thank you Brother. I love this passion. I said the same thing in my mind too. |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by CarlosTheJackal: 7:57am On Nov 26, 2023 |
ilyasom:I had to go ahead with the wedding and I asked my other friends not to bother coming again. |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Southwestidiot: 7:59am On Nov 26, 2023 |
Infolenka:You never really forget the pain, you just keep going knowing ur turn dey come as well. |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by NaijaGoBetter2: 8:12am On Nov 26, 2023 |
ilyasom: No/yes It's more than 3years I set my eye on him.... |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Melonsmasher: 10:59am On Nov 26, 2023 |
Lost my mom last year 2022, I miss her every single day, past months has been very hard for me to cope |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by pansophist(m): 12:30pm On Nov 26, 2023 |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by eneazi(f): 3:09pm On Nov 26, 2023 |
Going through comments and it breaks my heart cause I have a first hand experience of loss. I made a post here three years ago on ways to cope with loss Below is the link, I hope it helps someone https://www.nairaland.com/6588595/5-ways-cope-loss-loved |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by okerekingsley90: 6:18pm On Nov 26, 2023 |
Kingozymandias: You get blood for body ![]() |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Nemesis0147(m): 6:37pm On Nov 26, 2023 |
CarlosTheJackal:baba I don’t know but yours seems like the height of it!! The guilt can drive one crazy |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Abakelawal(f): 9:08pm On Nov 26, 2023 |
First thing to do when u loose someone is to accept that yes that person is actually gone . It helps in recovery process.. I lost my twin sister when we where 10yrs but I was not told because we are living apart, but I felt it after some years I cried every night no one consoled me, no one to talk to but I finally accept and moved on i hv her in my memory always no picture of her anywhere. But sometimes I wished she is here with me |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by pansophist(m): 11:32pm On Nov 26, 2023 |
ilyasom: Thank you. Appreciate with a crate of beer na? Make I send account number? ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by OSDBLISS(m): 12:44pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
7th April 2022, the day the cold hands of death took my dad away. Till this moment, I still shed tears on the low. If humility were to be a person, then that person would be my dad. I'll forever miss you dad. Rest on. |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by princessyere1(f): 2:14pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
NaijaGoBetter2:So sorry 1 Like |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Samuel3233(m): 2:27pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
I lost my Dad at the beginning of this year and it is terrible,the more day goes the more I missed him because he his the closest person to me in this world. Rest on Dad,I prayed make my mother lives long cause after God she is the only one for me now |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by NSK4U(m): 4:23am On Nov 28, 2023 |
TheBillyonaire: That's interesting really |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by finallybusy: 7:26am On Nov 28, 2023 |
I haven’t lost anyone I’ll consider close. Many uncles have gone. I gave them distance when alive so it didn’t hit hard. The same with my grandma who departed early this year. Within my nuclear family, time will come. Everyone for now lives healthy lifestyles, pushing the inevitable as far as possible. I’ve lost acquaintances, no close friend yet. |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by Shegs105: 7:54am On Nov 28, 2023 |
This is perfectly me, I lost my kid bro a year ago, I stay a bit distance from my parent, I just can’t stopped thinking about him on daily basis, the best I could do is to relocate from my apartment and get a new apartment close to my parents hoping this would limit the depression. Overall, since I lost the guy, nothing in life matter to me again, I got more mean to people and my sense of empathy died immediately. saintbillion: |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by amadiama(m): 8:59am On Nov 28, 2023 |
I normally do ask this same question you ask OP till I Lost my Dad 29th Dec 2021. watched him sick for 12 days 17th to 29 wen he died..it isn't easy.. something you can't forget..still feels like he travelled and will be back.. |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by vilight(f): 1:16pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
nyanga dey sleep, trouble run go wake am i pray (for your sake) you dont lose any love ones soonest |
Re: Nairalanders That Have Lost Loved Ones: How Did You Cope? by dom(m): 10:01pm On Apr 16 |
Lost my Dad 3 years ago. 3 years before then, I suddenly had a realization that was advancing in age (late 70s) and could be called home at any moment. It helped me get closer to him, visit him more regularly in the family house and generally dote on him too. I even dreamt of his death on two or three occasions, and kept begging God to prolong his life. However, prostate challenges plus National Hospital's dysfunctional radiotherapy machine messed up his system.. He got worse after the radiotherapy, went into a coma and passed on from there. I developed high blood pressure from the panic attack and all after his death. The palpitation I had was almost audible. I was crying every now and then. It's still painful when I think deeply of it today. The wound may heal, but the scar remains. May the souls of the faithful departed rest in peace. Amen. |
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