^^try to be more specific when you post.

cowards get on my nerves, that's all.

tpia@:

^^try to be more specific when you post.

cowards get on my nerves, that's all.

i gues not cos u sound pathetic.somoda tym perhabz.go get som sleep

A bad mother will definitely breed a bad daughter , same for a woman that failed to keep her home and has her daughter seen her with another man sleeping with her, that daughter will never value the sacredness of the institution called marriage, that daughter will even be worse than her mother.

my advise, never marry a woman from a broken home, her mother will ruin your home and her daughter will never value marriage. HEED THIS WARNING OOOO. worse still is if that daughter has seen another man climb her mother,that daughter will never respect her home unless there is a divine intervention somewhere.

sunky644:

I totally disagree with u cos I ve a living example of someone I know not to be a Good wife but I can also testify to the fact that she's a very good mother, infact a mother any responsible child even me will dream to ve. But, I don't wish she should be my wife for 24hrs not to talk of lifetime.

mmmm

ajalaolanr:

A bad mother will definitely breed a bad daughter , same for a woman that failed to keep her home and has her daughter seen her with another man sleeping with her, that daughter will never value the sacredness of the institution called marriage, that daughter will even be worse than her mother.

my advise, never marry a woman from a broken home, her mother will ruin your home and her daughter will never value marriage. HEED THIS WARNING OOOO. worse still is if that daughter has seen another man climb her mother,that daughter will never respect her home unless there is a divine intervention somewhere.

Theblessed:

[size=16pt]Ahrrrrrrh, so does a bad husband and those part-time dads, too!

Are you one of them? Check and see!  Perhaps, I'm talking to someone here!

You see, there's no guarantee in marriage.  You might think you'd got it right today and wake up the next day with a shock, beware!!!

As we all know, it takes two to make a marriage, and it takes two to break it, you mustn't forget that! 

And for those who won't marry a woman from a broken home, I say too bad!  The world is full of them, what are you going to do about it??

What about a guy from a broken home? Is he also included in this assertion or?  And may I ask, would he ever marry someone? 

I could hear some unfair people on here, saying why not?  Ahrrrrrrrr, double-standard stairing up once again! 

What a fair world we live in?

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[size=20pt]My Brother you are good. You are talking from experience i guess[/size].

what about s.perm donors aka donate and run.

being MIA surely doesnt make them bad fathers, does it?

at least the bad wife is still there for somebody to point crooked fingers at - do the offspring of absentee dads even know what the fellow looks like talkless assess his character for signs of goodness or badness.

dont you have to throw a rope around the man in order to drag him to the altar and call him husband before you can find out what sort of husband or father he is?

does being invisible make someone bad or good.

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Re: A Bad Wife Makes A Bad Mother

Not so strue! Bad trees yield bad fruits, yeah, I know, but hey. . . Not in the case of some bad wives!

I disagree. some children see in their parents what they dont want to be in the future and do everything possible to keep that in mind.

not very true from my own view.

a wife might love a man less (reason, maybe when she agreed to marry the man, there was so much money, and when the money is gone, love and feelings for sure will reduce)

but she wount hate or treat her children bad cos of the same reason, so she will still show the children love and care and that is wat will be transfered to the children.

moral, a bad wife can still be a good Mother.

Very likely

kayalla:

not very true from my own view.

a wife might love a man less (reason, maybe when she agreed to marry the man, there was so much money, and when the money is gone, love and feelings for sure will reduce)

but she wount hate or treat her children bad cos of the same reason, so she will still show the children love and care and that is wat will be transfered to the children.

moral, a bad wife can still be a good Mother.

I disagree with you blindly.

did you forget this Naija Proverb easily . .

Good child is for the father while the bad one is from the mother.

The first teacher of a child na hin mama. The actions of a mother speak faster than her word to her children.

What a child learns in the initial years from her mother (right from the day she stop Giving Oyo'n) are known to have a lasting

impression on the mind of the child.

Note: Children look at actions and see through empty words very quickly.

I strongly agreed! Bad wife,bad mother.

I totally disagree.

A bad wife lays bad examples to her children, especially the female. Therfore, a bad wife= a bad mother

Firstly i think we should ask ourselves, can u be a good woman and be a bad wife? if ur answer is yes, then U can definitely be a bad wife but a good mother.

Being a good or bad wife is restricted strictly to ur r/ship with ur husband. and if ur relationship with ur husband is bad(remember it takes two to tango) den u are labelled a bad wife.
However being a mother whether good or bad depends strictly on ur relationship with your kids.

In essence, u can fail in ur relationship with ur husband who is just one person and still succeed in training ur children rightly in the fear of the Lord. and also succeed in your dealings with ur colleagues, friends etc
Saying all bad wives are bad mothers is like saying all single mother and divorced parents are bad parents because they failed in their relationship.
I know a woman plays a very important role in keeping her family togeda, and is to blame most times when it falls apart. However i dont believe it affects her bringing up her children in the right path.


That you fail in one area/aspect of your life does not make u a total failure.

@Topic; true dat: if d mommah a b!tch, d daughter is bound to be a superb!tch

Snake remain snake if short or long or longer.Bad manner lead to crime.If a woman is bad she wil be bad as wife and mother.Watch before you marry a woman to make a good home.

Emigration has totally damaged the psyche of many nigerian men.

If you tell them travelling is not for everybody they'll say you dont want their progress.

Is this type of life they're displaying progress?