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Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Carcholce: 5:27pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
AishaDant: God bless you. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Nobody: 5:31pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Carcholce:So true... |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Johilo(m): 5:32pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Op/og sorry o.. But na u start dis rubb'sh too.. Watin u dey expect to hear frm her before... Its just like asking ur bae for her facebook password and wen u finally login to her account u come dey vex... Guy wise up and move on wit her 1 Like |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by onadana: 5:46pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Carcholce: No mind the mu...mu.....man.....all this stories are mostly write-up's. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Mac2016(m): 5:47pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
If she was truthful then it's so dangerous to go ahead with her. For few weeks (2 or 3 weeks) in camp to open her legs. Now think about having to travel for months to hustle after marriage. You will doubt her so much and be filled with undue panics. Please free her and get another woman. 1 Like |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by lomprico(m): 5:50pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense: Why ask her when last she had sex? You swear with your life that you dint knack when she was serving. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by deavicky(m): 5:55pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense:even if u leave her for another lady, there is no guarantee that u will see a better one. For her to even tell u she had sex with someone, tells u she is not a hardened person.(some will keep denying even if u put a knife to their throat). My advice to u is, if u want to stay in todays relationship, do not try to know too much. The little and important things u know about ur spouse it's just enough. Do not try to know all. The new lady u may want to go for may probably be have sex with another person as u are reading this. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by ItisWell22(f): 6:01pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Carcholce: 🙌 |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by IfnobeGod20: 6:09pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
You're even wrong to have asked her if she had sex with another man. It would be difficult for any man to live with that because it would surely be flashing back at odd times. Meanwhile, I give it to the lady for owning up to you because the last time I checked, nobody write I had sex on their foreheads. Surprisingly the thing doesn't read meter because no meter attached to it. The lady has a prospect of being faithful in any relationship. Truly speaking it is not easy to own up like that in such sensitive issue of love life. If you are a real man, I would advise you go on with your marriage with her because the lady will surely make a good wife for being open minded after committing such act but if you're not a real man, please don't try it and layer put the lady in a regret mode. You have the hake now, slice it the way you want it to be. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Mcslize: 6:09pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Stevenbright: This is one aspect majority of ladies always get it all wrong. They are mostly after their own self. A lady didn't hear from a guy, if she is truly interested in the guy, what's the right thing to do? Is it not by calling the guy to find out what must have been going on with him? But no, when they don't hear from a guy, they will just quickly start seeing another man immediately without even finding out from the other guy if he is still alive or not or something happened to him. To be frank, I won't say such ladies genuinely care. A lady that truly cares about a guy will call the guy if she doesn't hear from the guy for a period of time. But this isn't always the case. Majority will rather just walk away to the next available man. I don't see such ladies being loyal cuz any little challenge from the man, they will start looking outside for the next available man. What stops a lady from reaching out to a guy she is planning something serious with if she doesn't hear from the guy for a period of time is what baffles me. That's one area a handful of ladies really need to work on. They believe that the man should always be the one checking up on them without them checking up on the man. So, if the man is sick and failed to reach out, they will just come up with assumptions and move to the next man without even reaching out to him to find out what could be wrong. That attitude is very bad of majority of ladies I must say. cc: letstalksense 2 Likes |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Magnoliaa(f): 6:09pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Carcholce: May your newfound sense fall on Zonefree as well, IJN 🙏🏾 . I pray life is kind and beautiful to him so much so that he find reasons to be happy, and it radiates to his online persona. It'll do him a world/wealth of good the most. 1 Like |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by soccerlite: 6:10pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Why's she not continuing her sexual relationship? What's she telling the man Is it because she met you again You have to pause the marriage plans seek a Christian marriage advice |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Druss(m): 6:11pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense: Up to you mate. Each of us have different interests. A few items of interest 1. Do you have peace of mind when you think about her having sex in camp? Can you forgive her? 2. She isn't taking responsibility for her actions. She is somewhat pining it on you still. 3. How are you sure she was only in that sexual activity? Sex in camp tbh is something that I believe is for indisciplined people to do i.e., people without self control and respect. 4. He without sin should throw the first stone. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by FireKing: 6:13pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense Firstly give her credit for owning up to her mistakes cos isn't easy to confess such act if u were in her shoes |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Ebymyk(m): 6:15pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
What happened to communication? Isn't communication key anymore in any relationship? So because I didn't call you, you will have sex with another man... To prove what exactly? Abi to make me adjust to call you more.....indeed she's insecure and loosed...our mothers generation weren't loose... She obviously doesn't know her values as a woman... Continuing with wedding plans despite this... Good she opened up... If you eventually marry her, will you ever trust her? Ask your self this questions... Seek God on this... Marriage isn't enter and come out anytime... Can you live with this for the rest of your life? Brother... Let God lead you... But in my opinion, i can't marry a woman that gives in easily because i wasn't there @ the time...what happened to communication? Some ladies needs to take relationship classes before they start dating, honestly... |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by FireKing: 6:16pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Firstly give her credit for owning up to her mistakes cos isn't easy to confess such act if u were in her shoes . Please forgive her and if you still love her go ahead with the plan. We all make mistake at some point 1 Like |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by edunaragold(f): 6:17pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense:oga marry her ,na who no dey have sex in one secret way or another,see what happens in mangu stays in mangu,after all na pikin woman go give us,sex with another man did not take her Yash and breat away,that's her past life , telling it to u self she was honest,if u are not ready that guy they had sex may be ready and better than u in future ,one can't predict,na who never had sex because,na make we see our children make me wan marry. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Rexymania(m): 6:20pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
If you're a fool, you can continue Stupidity |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Rinoxy: 6:23pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:Your second paragraph is baseless. Man/woman view to infidelity has no preference to geographical locations. The way it's seen in Lesotho is how it's seen in Chicago. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by nedekid: 6:24pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Carcholce:I concur |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Afodot0022(m): 6:30pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Such girl is a woman of easy virtue, someone that went for nysc camp and within that short period of time, she had been laid, that speaks a lot about her morals and discipline. If am yourself, i wont marry her cos she hasn't proven to me that she can be trustworthy and dependable which are core traits needed in a marriage 1 Like |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Originalsly: 6:30pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Trust is the foundation of a relationship. You failed to communicate ... she moved on ... now you're back. If you accepted your shortcoming ... accepted her confession anf forgave her ... then you wouldn't be here seeking advice. You no longer trust her .... move on. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Godsonkemz(m): 6:31pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Ladies tend to Bleep around during NYSC. You'll be in a relationship with a lady but immediately she's called for service, she would change just because you are not there to monitor her. How much more when you travel out for business after marriage. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by justking(m): 6:36pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
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Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by CloudKnight: 6:38pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
they ended the sexual relationship in the camp. I was there when they ended it. Continue with your wedding plan, good boy |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by modskiller(m): 6:42pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense: For the sake of your sanity, don’t do it, walk away as far and fast as your leg can carry you. If you ignore this type of red flag, it will cost you in the future. A word is enough for the wise! |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by GreatOchuks: 6:43pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
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Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Sweetvie: 6:55pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Carcholce:You said it all. It's really exhausting. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by jamesversion: 6:55pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
BloomingDale: A woman is born to be submissive and loyal to her husband. Sorry if that reality bothers you. But it is what it is. How many years does she stay with her parents before marriage. And from then henceforth, her husband shoulders her needs, until death. It is expected that she be understanding, submissive, loyal and supportive at all times. Emphasis on all times. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by UnfairLife7(m): 6:57pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Rinoxy:The person i mentioned in his tiny brain believe as an African man, he has the liberty to cheat and sleep around freely without anybody questioning him simply because he paid his wife bride price. While his wife on the other hand doesn't have the right or liberty to cheat or sleep around. Then i told him, same you, once you cross murtala international airport, your crass and backward mentality disappear immediately would you attempt that or dare say that rubbish to your wife in a developed nation? you dare not. you will obviously end up in the street empty. very simple and short Now tell me how infidelity or immorality amongst couples doesn't differ across geographical location school me I'm listening |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by UnfairLife7(m): 7:00pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
jamesversion:your responsibility as a man is even difficult than women. A man is expected to Love his wife unconditionally while women should respect and be submissive i hope you know LOVE SUPERCEDE and much more supervisor than respect and submission |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Stevenbright(m): 7:00pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Mcslize: Ya, that is just it. |
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