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Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by atobs4real(m): 9:07pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
UncleKoboko:Confirm. Stamped. 1 Like |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Erikposi(m): 9:22pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense: You as a boy should not go into the marriage not for your own sake but for the safety and peace of mind of the lady. Please this kind of question only break relationship for those unserious fellows. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by jojothaiv(m): 10:03pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
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Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by thesmallgod(m): 10:09pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
I will advise you to first allow her to cohabitate with you for awhile before even thinking of planning any marriage. There might be more things you still do not know about her |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by omotayocaleb(m): 10:49pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
you too why you no call her? i dont think that is all the reason? have you also been faithful to the relationship? if you love her you will accept her and the 2 of you can turn to God as one for help. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by johnlegend01: 10:51pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Only God can answer your question. HE created us and gave us different natures. You can try it on your BF or husband, just to check if nature will take its course. Jeon: |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by johnlegend01: 11:09pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
Don't bother! But if you want to punish her and yourself in the future, go ahead with the wedding. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Bloomfrancs03(m): 11:45pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
God it is your son here. I am asking you to please take this OP and give us Mohbad. In Jesus name I pray. Amen. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Darkestking: 12:31am On Dec 28, 2023 |
letstalksense: She cheated on you and blamed you by saying that you weren't giving her enough attention. If she truly thought you had found another woman she should have spoken about it with you, not jumped to cheating. If she's done this once then who's to say she won't do it again during the marriage. Break things off and save yourself from heartache down the road. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Darkestking: 12:32am On Dec 28, 2023 |
Jeon: Cheating is different from ethical polygamy. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Darkestking: 12:34am On Dec 28, 2023 |
jamesversion: You're stupid as Bleep. If you pay groom or bride price that doesn't justify cheating. Why even pay to marry someone in 2023? |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Dshocker(m): 3:19am On Dec 28, 2023 |
letstalksense: Na you go dey find wetin no loss. Seek & you shall find. 🤧 Why ask her, when you cannot digest it. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by livebullet(m): 3:42am On Dec 28, 2023 |
payaseriy: Imagine , imagine , imagine and if you still accept, you be mumu of the century... Na here we go sti come see how Musa your gate man run her in ur absence few years ahead. Trust me |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Fujiyama: 5:32am On Dec 28, 2023 |
Chioma1989: ^^^ No...it doesn't 'just happen'. And...not everyone 'moves on'. Chioma1989: ^^^ Some 'personal' questions need to be asked...even if the answers are hard to take. He now has the information he needs to take the right decision. And if the shoe was on the other foot and he was the guilty party, she would also be justified if she made the decision to call off the relationship. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by femi4: 5:35am On Dec 28, 2023 |
letstalksense:Do you think the next girl will be better or worse than her |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Double0h7(f): 5:58am On Dec 28, 2023 |
Yes, she’s honest and for that you should reward her with a wedding fit for a queen! In the future, when you ignore her calls, or she has the slightest suspicion about your fidelity, she will also do her own cheating, but don’t worry she’ll be honest with you! When the conception of the middle child collides with one those pesky times you ignored her, and she did what she had to do, which she told you about, by the way, she’ll again be honest with you and you’ll be able to do periodic DNA testing. See, a house built on honesty is an honourable home. So, I wish you an honest, truthful, and transparent relationship with your future wife. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by excellentj4teal(m): 7:00am On Dec 28, 2023 |
Because you're gonna marry her doesn't make you own her. You're going through life challenges and you ghosted her. Who does that? You gave her space and you expect her to cry over split milk without moving on. What kind of relattare you leading? The truth is you cant move on and you're still imagining the sex style she had with the other guy. I'd advice you take a break becauseyoure not matured to see sex as an activity and not the way you're seeing it. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by v2: 7:04am On Dec 28, 2023 |
Jeon: Is anyone stopping you from being polygamous? How many pregnancy can you carry in 9months? One How many women can man impregnate in 9months? As many as he wants Doesn't that tell you a women is designed to be with one man at a time? Let's keep deceiving ourselves, Awon what a man can do... Go and explore. Last last na your body go tell you. 1 Like |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by darealez(m): 7:09am On Dec 28, 2023 |
Jeon:I don't engage is sexual exploration, so address whatever shaped you. Asides this, I won't allow a LovePeddler raise my kids. Those great gems deserve a queen, so anyone can do whatever they want with their life, but I will decide who to be with. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by OLOKOESHIN: 7:24am On Dec 28, 2023 |
letstalksense:Shift abeg.b4 you forgive her ehn Know that he had her like this 1 Like
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Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Fujiyama: 7:24am On Dec 28, 2023 |
SAMBARRY: ^^^ I have seen this happen to people. That's why I don't dismiss every story or thread I come across here as made up nonsense. So many people (male and female) walk around and they seem normal...until the circumstances are right and the madness within boils over. Relationships (and marriages in particular) are hard. Very hard. 1 Like |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by geffymoore: 7:28am On Dec 28, 2023 |
The lady in question is a worthy to be your wife because she will do more harm than good and still give excuses. Ladies of nowadays have lost morals. They think having sex with any man means nothing but will continue to hunt them down. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Fujiyama: 7:33am On Dec 28, 2023 |
creepsyme: ^^^ It isn't about whether he can handle the truth. Its about a woman who clearly doesn't know what she's doing. At least he now knows. What he does next is entirely up to him. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Fujiyama: 7:36am On Dec 28, 2023 |
Double0h7: ^^^ You are not a nice person. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by NokiaN8(m): 7:58am On Dec 28, 2023 |
Jeon:Becos most leadies are dependent .. |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by NokiaN8(m): 7:59am On Dec 28, 2023 |
Jeon: Becos most leadies are dependent,they see sex as all they can offer, so that is why men don't tolerate a cheating lady .. 1 Like |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by sandygechy(f): 8:05am On Dec 28, 2023 |
So those prostitutes in brothels that sleep with multiple men daily attach emotions when having sex with all of them abi? Dey play.. rapheal5: |
Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Fujiyama: 8:15am On Dec 28, 2023 |
ucheuzor1: ^^^ And what are these qualities? Are loyalty and patience anywhere on the list? ucheuzor1: ^^^ Unbelievable. This has got to be some sort of cosmic grade sarcasm. What other observation does he need? ucheuzor1: ^^^ This is very, very sad. It is one thing to accept a reality because you have no choice (even though you are uncomfortable with it)...its quite another thing to proclaim that reality loudly and proudly from the rooftops...instead of leaving it unsaid - the way it should be left unsaid. You appear very comfortable (giddy with joy even ) with the knowledge that another man deflowered your wife and initiated her into sex. It seems it isn't a big deal for you when other men know the contours of your wife's body - and her bedroom preferences - perhaps even more intimately than you do. When the strain and stress of married life begins to take its toll, and your 'wife' begins to long for the carefree affairs of times past - then don't blame her or complain if she rekindles those relationships. After all, those other 'dudes' got approved 'drilling' rights before you...and every well can be re-prospected and mined again (and again and again!) by the original 'owners'. |
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