A friend of mine just called me that he will be ending his relationship with his fiancee this coming week. Though they have been together for 3 years with the hope of getting married but unfortunately the whole thing seems one sided.

Some of the issues listed by my friend are: they are not communicating effectively. They saw only 6 times out of the 3 years and It's been more of an e-relationship. The girl is a bit slow and more of an introvert. A Christian to a fault!

Though the girl is falling head over heels, my friend tried to love back but it's not just working.

Closer friends are saying he should not quit because the girl is of good character and both families are already involved.


Dude wants a final advice from me . . . . ,

how can they see each other six times in three years and claim they are in a relationship?which good character?the one he's observed only six times??SMH.
Wonder how some pple think sha.distant relationships HARDLY work.tell your friend to break off the damned thing and get a real relationship.

broken engagement is by afr better than getting divorced.i think the problem is the communication gap  and seeing
each other 6 times in 3years and planning on getting married cant work.Also having a e-relationship with ur fiance is a no-no

Advice - tell him to rough it out 1-2 more months, he should  reach out to her more and  discuss his concerns with her,
if it doesn't not work out after then , happily tell him to find someone else.

[size=19pt]Tell your friend to marry a CONGO instead of her [/size]

[size=18pt]^Most Nairaland girls are CONGO MEAT so he would find a CONGO here on nairaland [/size]

w.t.f!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! six times!!!!

Six times in 3 years?!?! Is dis wat passes for a r/ship nowadays? And 2 tink he was going 2 marry her! Let ur frnd and his whatever stop decieving demselves n get real r/ships. Sum pple r funny o!

[size=19pt]CONGO MEAT . 2GO i shall dy [/size]

Are you the next Mr-cork and MMM?
Stick to topic,will you! Tellsenseless.

Is your friend getting cold feet? Maybe he doesn't want to tied down yet.

Best let him talk to the girl about his feelings with the marriage.

tellwisdom:

[size=19pt]CONGO MEAT . 2GO i shall dy [/size]

Ask your friend this questions, How many times did he Bleep her pussy?
and if the girl have ever done abortion to him?

tellwisdom:

Codineluks, can i buy u A yourghourt?? So you have enuff milk for me to drink when i see u??