Good day fams. I have a girl which we have dated for almost 5 years now. She had a baby boy for me but I don't love her and I know she truly loves me she's even thinking that I may marry her in future because she doesn't flirt she don't have a boyfriend if not me. But the truth is that I don't love her and I'm not going to marry her when the time comes. But I didn't promise her that I will marry her but the love she has for me can move a mountain but I don't just love her. Please what can I do so she can forget about me. Because I know I will not marry her. I don't even call her just for her to get upset and move on with her life but she keep on calling my line all d time. Some times when I don't pick her calls she will be crying. I'm just afraid that she may end her life if I open up to her dat I don't wan d friendship anymore. and my main problem there is dat she no go school. i wil love to marry a graduate because i no go school

What were you doing with her for five years?
What did you discuss with her for good five years? Or you spent five years drowning in fornication?
At what point did you realize that you did not love her?
How have you impacted in her her for the past five years?
What is she to you?
What are you to her?
What happened to the son you both had?
How old are you?
How old is she?
How old is your son?
Pls supply the answers so I can better advise you

Sonofgod1990:
Good day fams. I have a girl which we have dated for almost 5 years now. She had a baby boy for me but I don't love her and I know she truly loves me she's even thinking that I may marry her in future because she doesn't flirt she don't have a boyfriend if not me. But the truth is that I don't love her and I'm not going to marry her when the time comes. But I didn't promise her that I will marry her but the love she has for me can move a mountain but I don't just love her. Please what can I do so she can forget about me. Because I know I will not marry her. I don't even call her just for her to get upset and move on with her life but she keep on calling my line all d time. Some times when I don't pick her calls she will be crying. I'm just afraid that she may end her life if I open up to her dat I don't wan d friendship anymore

If the lady was the one who fell out of love with you, she won't even think twice before she dumps you.
You need to see how ladies treat men that they don't love.
Women are as unpredictable as the weather. She maybe madly in love with you today and tomorrow she's madly inlove with another.
Your babe may appear like she loves you like mad because she's thinking of the years she's invested.
OG. Do not marry out of pity

Op, you're the most wicked soul I've seen so far this year 2024 . You don't want to marry her but still had the effrontery to put her on the family way and been wasting her time for the past 5 years . Do you think meno-stop is a joke to women? . Why didn't/Don't you just tell the innocent girl so that she can move on with her life........See wetin most men dey find nai this native fowl just dey toss around like a coin..

Omoh,your heartlessness too carry weight abeg.....

If you have sense you'll marry her and enjoy peace for the rest of your life but obviously you are destined not to enjoy marital life.

Mark my words you'll regret it when she finally gets over you and move on with her life.

Keep wasting her time and watch your back because you'll definitely regret it. She sef she's not wise else she should have known when to stop wasting her time loving someone who isn't reciprocating the love.

Sonnobax15:

Op, you're the most wicked soul I've seen so far this year 2024 . You don't want to marry her but still had the effrontery to put her on the family way and been wasting her time for the past 5 years . Do you think meno-stop is a joke to women? . Why didn't/Don't you just tell the innocent girl so that she can move on with her life........See wetin most men dey find nai this native fowl just dey toss around like a coin..

Omoh,your heartlessness too carry weight abeg.....

This same you making sense here now will see her on the street and babymamashame her. Stop condemning all babymamas, this is what made some of them babymamas.

EreluRoz:
This same you making sense here now will see her on the street and babymamashame her. Stop condemning all babymamas, this is what made some of them babymamas.

. She on her own part ain't innocent.....She also deserve the kinda treatment she's getting from the native fowl too cuz if she didn't open her legs like Onana,she wouldn't have been passing through this kinda predicament she's been subjected to Right now

Sonnobax15:
. She on her own part ain't innocent.....She also deserve the kinda treatment she's getting from the native fowl too cuz if she didn't open her legs like Onana,she wouldn't have been passing through this kinda predicament she's been subjected to Right now

What's Onana?

EreluRoz:
What's Onana?

. Ask Manchester United fans...They know better

Sonnobax15:
. Ask Manchester United fans...They know better

I don't know any of their fans

EreluRoz:
I don't know any of their fans

. Are you a she-male?

If you loose that woman ehn, you go regret am. She fit move mountains for you, and you wan leave am?

You see love like that, you wan let am go? Na when you enter street come see the witches wey full ground, you go appreciate wetin you get.

You go learn, I just hope she is there waiting after your mistakes.

FRANCISTOWN:

If the lady was the one who fell out of love with you, she won't even think twice before she dumps you.
You need to see how ladies treat men that they don't love.
Women are as unpredictable as the weather. She maybe madly in love with you today and tomorrow she's madly inlove with another.
Your babe may appear like she loves you like mad because she's thinking of the years she's invested.
OG. Do not marry out of pity

Shush it please mtcheww but he can get her pregnant out of pity abi?

Sonofgod1990:
Good day fams. I have a girl which we have dated for almost 5 years now. She had a baby boy for me but I don't love her and I know she truly loves me she's even thinking that I may marry her in future because she doesn't flirt she don't have a boyfriend if not me. But the truth is that I don't love her and I'm not going to marry her when the time comes. But I didn't promise her that I will marry her but the love she has for me can move a mountain but I don't just love her. Please what can I do so she can forget about me. Because I know I will not marry her. I don't even call her just for her to get upset and move on with her life but she keep on calling my line all d time. Some times when I don't pick her calls she will be crying. I'm just afraid that she may end her life if I open up to her dat I don't wan d friendship anymore

How are you a son of god with all the stuff you have done above

By the way, did you get the hookup girl? How did it go

Sonofgod1990:
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pansophist:
If you loose that woman ehn, you go regret am. She fit move mountains for you, and you wan leave am?

You see love like that, you wan let am go? Na when you enter street come see the witches wey full ground, you go appreciate wetin you get.

You go learn, I just hope she is there waiting after your mistakes.

Why are we wired to always have a dislike for those people who truly express their love for us?

The moment I'm aware a girl likes me, I begin to despise her, the moment I express love to a girl, she begins to reduce communication.

But we're more comfortable with playing games: a girl will know that I do not have great feelings for her or anything serious but will still find it very comfortable to remain in the fake relationship.

But when it's obvious that you like them, they'll run away.

Is this some sort of error in our engineering?

seguno2:
By the way, did you get the hookup girl? How did it go

d girl was good shaa. it went well

Sonofgod1990:
Good day fams. I have a girl which we have dated for almost 5 years now. She had a baby boy for me but I don't love her and I know she truly loves me she's even thinking that I may marry her in future because she doesn't flirt she don't have a boyfriend if not me. But the truth is that I don't love her and I'm not going to marry her when the time comes. But I didn't promise her that I will marry her but the love she has for me can move a mountain but I don't just love her. Please what can I do so she can forget about me. Because I know I will not marry her. I don't even call her just for her to get upset and move on with her life but she keep on calling my line all d time. Some times when I don't pick her calls she will be crying. I'm just afraid that she may end her life if I open up to her dat I don't wan d friendship anymore

It can be very difficult to get yourself to love someone that you really don't like.

But you've wasted 5 years of her life why trying to chase you.

You've got a son from her, If she's ready to move mountains for you, and she's a woman that's serious about her development and also yours while still feminine, then I'll advise you by all means, make her your woman.

Nothing dey for street. That fine girl that you've got your eyes on, that's making you think twice might just be another cock sucking Gen Z.

Onyenku3:
What were you doing with her for five years?
What did you discuss with her for good five years? Or you spent five years drowning in fornication?
At what point did you realize that you did not love her?
How have you impacted in her her for the past five years?
What is she to you?
What are you to her?
What happened to the son you both had?
How old are you?
How old is she?
How old is your son?
Pls supply the answers so I can better advise you

I'm 34. she is 29. d baby is 1year and 3months

PinkNature:


Why are we wired to always have a dislike for those people who truly express their love for us?

The moment I'm aware a girl likes me, I begin to despise her, the moment I express love to a girl, she begins to reduce communication.

But we're more comfortable with playing games: a girl will know that I do not have great feelings for her or anything serious but will still find it very comfortable to remain in the fake relationship.

But when it's obvious that you like them, they'll run away.

Is this some sort of error in our engineering?

Yes, you might call it an error, or a glitch. But it's a thing out there.

If you're properly grounded, you'll know that goodness from someone is the most important thing.

When you've met, experienced, and see the damages wrong women (or men) causes, you'll appreciate the one that will not stress you, gives you peace, and just loves you genuinely.

You'll acknowledge that it's your fault for taking them for granted, and you need some healing. To be attracted to people that stresses you is a defect.

But again, we only appreciate those that loves us without making us suffer only in situations where others have made us suffer.

Also, make sure you're not rejecting a girl (or a man) for something trivial. Dressing like a villager is trivial, but a rotten character is not, and a very valid reason for an unforgiving rejection.

Be easy on people. All of us no perfect. If I lock you with the most beautiful woman on earth for a month, you'll be so tired of her, that the average babe selling oranges becomes the desired.

Sonofgod1990:

I'm 34. she is 29. d baby is 1year and 3months

you better stick with your woman. You think say beta girls dey outside?

I pity you

Sonofgod1990:
Good day fams. I have a girl which we have dated for almost 5 years now. She had a baby boy for me but I don't love her and I know she truly loves me she's even thinking that I may marry her in future because she doesn't flirt she don't have a boyfriend if not me. But the truth is that I don't love her and I'm not going to marry her when the time comes. But I didn't promise her that I will marry her but the love she has for me can move a mountain but I don't just love her. Please what can I do so she can forget about me. Because I know I will not marry her. I don't even call her just for her to get upset and move on with her life but she keep on calling my line all d time. Some times when I don't pick her calls she will be crying. I'm just afraid that she may end her life if I open up to her dat I don't wan d friendship anymore. and my main problem there is dat she no go school. i wil love to marry a graduate because i no go school

You're seriously playing.... So you want to dump her now and come and marry who These Jezebels wey full street😆😆😆

If we wey never find wife use our mouth tell you wetin we dey see for street ehhh you go just kukuma dey where you dey o

She doesn't cheat, she loves you which you have confirmed and she doesn't stress you⚠️
My brother that's the basic for real happiness and peace of mind if you want to live long. Many men are training bastards in their home,and you're here contemplating on leaving a woman you should have married a long time ago.

Bleep love oga!!!! you can't have it all in life... If you find a graduate tomorrow who knows she might still give you a bastard and ruin your life. The devil you know is better than an angel you don't know. And never forget you can still train her to your taste and as you like.... That's one good thing about loyal women❤️❤️

You don't need advice finally, nah experience you need.... Leave her and you will see for yourself🤦🏾‍♂️

Dey play ▶️

Dont marry out of pity.....cuz she wouldn't marry u out of pity either....

EreluRoz:
Shush it please mtcheww but he can get her pregnant out of pity abi?

Everyone offered a piece of advice according to their own opinion which they are entitled to individually. It was extremely unreasonable and unethical of you to "shush" me up with a hiss. If not that I'm feeling fulfilled today. I would have made you known what's up.

Now, @SonofGod.
Marriage is too complex to build it on something as fickle as love.
"Love" is an emotion, a feeling. Just like pain and happiness, that doesn't last forever, such is love.
The same way people recover from sickness is the same people recover from love.
There was a time you really loved that lady too but what happened? You recovered from the love.
Now! What makes you think that she will not recover from the love as well?
Today someone may love you unto death and by tomorrow they may not even send your papa. It happens all the time in this reality.

Wives who ended up killing, divorcing and cheating on their husbands were once madly in love with them. Women change drastically once they spend few years on marriage. Women also change when they get comfortable.

I say this again. If your woman stopped loving you today, I dare say to you that she will not consider whether you've spent five or fifty years together. She will drop you faster than a hot coal.
Do not confuse the length of the relationship for the strength of the relationship.

And about the child. I see some deranged earthly bastards tried to guilt trip you. Lemme tell you something, a woman only gives birth to a child she wants. She allowed the sex, not like you raped her. It was consensual. You haven't done anything wrong.

A child is not a worthy reason to marry an unworthy woman.

Normal normal, i love this.

FRANCISTOWN:

If the lady was the one who fell out of love with you, she won't even think twice before she dumps you.
You need to see how ladies treat men that they don't love.
Women are as unpredictable as the weather. She maybe madly in love with you today and tomorrow she's madly inlove with another.
Your babe may appear like she loves you like mad because she's thinking of the years she's invested.
OG. Do not marry out of pity

Did you also ask same question when the bleeding gender take on their actions or you think men don't have blood or feelings..
We always blame men when they are been betrayed by women, we also blame men when they make their decisions, so you think men are iron that don't deserve pity.

Onyenku3:
What were you doing with her for five years?
What did you discuss with her for good five years? Or you spent five years drowning in fornication?
At what point did you realize that you did not love her?
How have you impacted in her her for the past five years?
What is she to you?
What are you to her?
What happened to the son you both had?
How old are you?
How old is she?
How old is your son?
Pls supply the answers so I can better advise you

Tell her already and stop wasting someone's daughter time.

Men were told to marry the one that loves them and not the one we love. Reason it..

Sonofgod1990:
Good day fams. I have a girl which we have dated for almost 5 years now. She had a baby boy for me but I don't love her and I know she truly loves me she's even thinking that I may marry her in future because she doesn't flirt she don't have a boyfriend if not me. But the truth is that I don't love her and I'm not going to marry her when the time comes. But I didn't promise her that I will marry her but the love she has for me can move a mountain but I don't just love her. Please what can I do so she can forget about me. Because I know I will not marry her. I don't even call her just for her to get upset and move on with her life but she keep on calling my line all d time. Some times when I don't pick her calls she will be crying. I'm just afraid that she may end her life if I open up to her.

Marry a lady that loves you.

You want to marry a graduate, but the five years you spent with her is enough for someone to even graduate from Engineering Course.

Your ambition to marry a graduate maybe the blindfold that stops you from seeing how good she is.

Certificate doesn't equate to successful marriage, we also have bunch of unproductive, unreasonable, unintelligent, purposeless and toxic graduates roaming around in this country.

As far as your woman is ready for self development like starting a business, learning a trade, going to part time or weekend program, she is good to go.

I am a graduate but I won't make that certificate the only criteria for marriage.

When you see beyond the graduate status, you may be surprised that you actually love this woman.

EreluRoz:
If you have sense you'll marry her and enjoy peace for the rest of your life but obviously you are destined not to enjoy marital life.

Mark my words you'll regret it when she finally gets over you and move on with her life.

Keep wasting her time and watch your back because you'll definitely regret it. She sef she's not wise else she should have known when to stop wasting her time loving someone who isn't reciprocating the love.

Story. He won't regret shid... There's always someone to replace u and life will go on. She will eventually meet the person who will love her like she wants and he will meet the one he loves like he wants to. The only clause in both journey is if the love can and will be returned. The only way regret can come in is if both truly love each other but pride and ego comes in between. If it's one sided they'll both get over it. And the regret will be felt by both of them. Stop trying to paint the op as a bad person. U can't force love

It is such a pity that she, or u both hv invested so much time together, even having a son together. Your both age matters though. Secondly, its not good to marry out of pity. I pray, that somehow, "MAY HER WAITING TIME, NOT BE WASTING TIME."