You are just fighting frustration, mr man..

Wotowotoman:


If you read your comment that I quoted and you don’t think you need to improve your grammar, then you need to be flogged mercilessly. Lazy youth like you. Tueh!

talented321:
You are just fighting frustration, mr man..

You better humble yourself and go and buy that book called Brighter Grammar. Lazy youth!

Not trying to justify cheating, but the thing is that some of these sidechicks know their onions, they know how to seduce and massage a man's ego where he needs it. Many women loose their sexual appeal as they grow older, most become "stiff", sluggish, narrow minded, and worse, unattractive when they become wives and mothers.

Seeing marriage as a secured ground, many women stop making effort to turn on their man, the only spice they add to the marriage is to nag and complain as if they're the only ones experiencing hiccups in marriage.

A sidechick would call to thank you with sweet words for buying her a gift, but some wives, if you like buy her latest Benz it'll be like as if she's doing you a favour by accepting it - and will still complain.

Sidechicks will dress seductively and spread their legs per your command but some wives would have to be begged to put her in the "mood", and any style outside missionary is like a blatant insult to her.

I hate it when men cheat on their spouses but ladies if your man has a side chick, you'll have to level up because she probably has something you don't have or have lost.

LordIsaac:

It’s because he who pays the piper dictates the tune! And there’s a huge difference between a stud and a slut, even though they do the same thing.

But when a woman is the breadwinner or has more money. Men still want to treated with respect and love and not cheated on?


Funny set of people

Festflor:
Men don't actually cheat.
It's a man's prerogative to acquire as many women as he can take care of; that includes wives, concubines/or mistresses, including slaves.
Conversely, a woman is tied to a man in a lifetime, except in the event of divorce or death of her husband.
The cycle continues endlessly!

It seems you do not know WOMEN CAN BE
VERY DEADLY. And a man that rotates them in bundles without fear IS NOT AN ORDINARY MAN SPIRITUALLY


I PITY YOUR LIFE BECAUSE YOU ARE A VERY ORDINARY MAN WISHING FOR THE REWARDS OF EXTRAORDINARY MEN


This is the Prophecy for your life from I got from a Falseprophet1 consultation earlier



*You will make 50 Million Naira this year

*You will buy a car of 6million and rent a duplex of 4million

*You will sleep with and rotate 15 poor women with your new found ‘wealth’ in that duplex

*5 will destroy you spiritually (Long Term Effect)

*5 will will get pregnant at the same time

*5 will give you curable stds


You will discharge them all at the end of the year
when you have just 5million in your account and
beat yourself up for spending your year using
your dick to reduce your life force


You will get determined to marry next year to save money on pussy and pick a colossal mumu from the village because all the girls around have traumatized you and now you
think every city woman is a prostitute

You will marry the mumu and still cheat on her with 7 of those 15 girls from last year, some you will even carry in her presence

Your money will finish, they will all run

Your previously mumu wife will gain exposure with your money, hate you because you are now broke and eventually turn your kids against you

You will die an old lonely man after getting your bank account cleared by a 26 year old woman you thought genuinely ‘loved’ you for you


THIS I HAVE SEEN

More grease to ur elbow my bro

SultanOfAbia:


At least when War start
They will first carry you women and children to safety first before Men.
If bandit attack village, na Men Dem dey first kill
If arm robber enter house, Na the man go protect both wife and pikin

You don't hear us complain about it


See, it's not only women that have privelege in this world ooo

Men get their own privelege too
we are allowed to flex many women
It is our privelege

The heavy responsibility on Men today is enough to kill 2 elephants.
1 wife cannot solve this kind problem
You need wife and side chick to join hands inorder to keep Men sane in this Hard times

So lock up and get back to the kitchen..
Allow Men to Enjoy

Danisaint112:
This one (wife) is a little bit wise, unlike some that will go on an all out attack on the lady leaving the husband who is the major cause.

Women should know how to respect boundaries, dating multiple men is already a sin against God and man let alone dating someone's husband.

Funny thing is you will still see this women luckily get married tomorrow and be hoping that no one dates their husband. Ridiculous.

The very reason I don't take this things serious anymore because you can't even tell if karma is what's playing out here.

You are very right. Thank God the way your daughter will have to share her husband too

DiskJokeyManic:
See as thread scarce,,,, no insult on de man or anytin but should it be the oda way round....we would have been seeing comments like “Shameless woman” “Women are useless” “Once a hoe alwsys a hoe” dis dat..... Instead, dey decided to turn marriage councillors and motivational speakers to de woman

The truth is dat Nairaland has alot of misogynists who hide unda de guise of Redpill to spew rubbish😐

Una mind go soon touch ground for dis forum😐😐

They are mentally unstable. I will take them serious if they also wish their daughter or future daughter will share men too

SultanOfAbia:


At least when War start
They will first carry you women and children to safety first before Men.
If bandit attack village, na Men Dem dey first kill
If arm robber enter house, Na the man go protect both wife and pikin

You don't hear us complain about it


See, it's not only women that have privelege in this world ooo

Men get their own privelege too
we are allowed to flex many women
It is our privelege

The heavy responsibility on Men today is enough to kill 2 elephants.
1 wife cannot solve this kind problem
You need wife and side chick to join hands inorder to keep Men sane in this Hard times

So lock up and get back to the kitchen..
Allow Men to Enjoy

U nailed it bro... 💯

Maysdevices:
But when a woman is the breadwinner or has more money. Men still want to treated with respect and love and not cheated on?


Funny set of people

Because they paid for her; not the other way round!

nairalanda1:


OKay, don't fight your wife's boyfriends, and your side chick's boyfriend...good behaviour.

PLus it is possible side chick does not know he was married. Now she does...and is walking away while the going is good.

Pls don't get me wrong. This is not me supporting cheating by either sex or making this a woman/man battle..I am simply saying the wife should face her husband who swore for better or worse on the altar before man and God to love and cherish her.

How about if the girl fights back and injure or do worse to her? What is the use? In a nutshell, let's not always give a pass to the one who is cheating in a relationship or marriage while only blaming the third party..

Karma. She did same to other people's husbands when she was single.

KarinaSlim:
If I was the one, I will walk over there and greet both of them.

Then go home, cook food and pretend like it never happened.

I will teach u the true meaning of hell has no fury like a woman scorned.

My silence go make u commit suicide later.

If it were the other way round where it was the husband that caught his wife with a side guy, what will he do?

What some cheating men want their wives to accept from them will never be accepted by them if the tables were turned.

We are men! you can't take that away.

PlanetZero:


You are very right. Thank God the way your daughter will have to share her husband too

And you made absolutely no sense. If my daughter happens to date a married man tomorrow, then she has no right to complain if another lady happens to date hers too in as much as it is not right. That's my point.

Danisaint112:


And you made absolutely no sense. If my daughter happens to date a married man tomorrow, then she has no right to complain if another lady happens to date hers too in as much as it is not right. That's my point.

Listen to me clearly. Whatever u think u are doing to spite females will always bounce back on ones daughter. If your daughter happened to date a guy who due to social media believed he is free as a man do anyhow. This thing is a circle

What many men wish females today, when it happens to their daughter tomorrow they will fume

Both boys and girls need to be taught the right mindset and not what society is becoming today in the name of gender war. No one wins. It will only create a chaotic and failed society

KarinaSlim:
If I was the one, I will walk over there and greet both of them.

Then go home, cook food and pretend like it never happened.

I will teach u the true meaning of hell has no fury like a woman scorned.

My silence go make u commit suicide later.

If it were the other way round where it was the husband that caught his wife with a side guy, what will he do?

What some cheating men want their wives to accept from them will never be accepted by them if the tables were turned.

it won't change anything, if I'm your husband I will ignore you too.

VeryKindHearted:
I read in a book written by a woman that women would continue fighting one another over a man.

Despite the fact that many people believe that the wife suppose to fight her husband, but according to the woman, it will not be possible for the wife or girlfriend to leave the other woman and fight her man.

She said women will continue fighting the other woman due to the following reasons:

(1) The man is the price. You cannot leave your opponent and fight the price.

You can only fight or compete with your opponent for the price.

(2) In childhood, it is more common for someone to fight with the members of his or her own gender.

Boys fight mostly with boys and girls fight mostly with girls.

It is ingrained in us to spare the opposite gender the blows but rather direct the blows to our own gender.

(3) Vengeance: A woman wants to take vengeance against a woman who also shares her man.

She believes that the other woman supposed to have made proper enquiry to know that the man belongs to her.

Some believe that the other woman already knows that the man belongs to another woman and suppose to have turned down the man when he approached her.


(4) She believes that the other woman is making herself cheap. If her husband or boyfriend finds it so easy to get another woman thereby making her(the wife or girlfriend) to be expendable, it is reasonable to fight her because if she(the side chick) was not so easy to get, her husband would not have left her(the wife or girlfriend) to go to her(the side chick).

She believes that the presence of many women is making men have choices.

So why must she leave the other woman to fight her husband?

(5) She believes that the other woman is after her husband.

Every woman finds a man with a girlfriend or wife to be more attractive than men without wives or girlfriends.

So she believes that the other woman had found her husband or boyfriend attractive that is why she came for him.

(6) Many women do not believe that a woman should fight or beat up a man.

Many women hate to hear that a woman beat or assault a man.

Many women believe that it is unthinkable for a woman to attack a man.

So she rather take out her anger on a fellow woman.

Personally, I have heard from many women that a woman is not suppose to beat a man. Some women can tolerate a man beating a woman but not the other way round.

Although many women believe it is unmanly for a man to beat a woman.

(7) The element of sex: Many women believe that men are sex and love objects. You cannot fight your love objects.

( She wants to get even with the other woman even if she breaks up with the cheating husband or boyfriend.

She believes she has to get even with the other woman to feel satisfied.

Mehn, you need write a book about Men and Women

LordIsaac:

Because they paid for her; not the other way round!

So when a woman takes care and pays for a man

Can she cheat and do as she likes?

It’s this mentality that are killing Black American women right now, because they have money, they act irresponsibly like men and do not listen to anyone

It’s never a good thing, it is only right to irresponsible people