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Re: Marriage Benefits Women More Than Men — Lady Says (video) by Zooposki(f): 3:55pm On Apr 05 |
2braithe: Nobody dey beg una for marriage na. The man controls marriage, yet na una dey rush/fight to marry multiple women. Abeg carry your hypocrisy dey go, biko. You can as well remain a bachelor so as not carry that woman/family burden. |
Re: Marriage Benefits Women More Than Men — Lady Says (video) by coronavirus19: 4:51pm On Apr 05 |
bonechamberlain: 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Benefits Women More Than Men — Lady Says (video) by rapheal5(m): 4:56pm On Apr 05 |
bonechamberlain:Even marlians and cultist do |
Re: Marriage Benefits Women More Than Men — Lady Says (video) by bonechamberlain(m): 5:04pm On Apr 05 |
coronavirus19:👍🏾 |
Re: Marriage Benefits Women More Than Men — Lady Says (video) by kellexnuel(m): 10:11pm On Apr 05 |
Marriage benefits women. It's God's grace that strengthens us to fulfill our role as husbands |
Re: Marriage Benefits Women More Than Men — Lady Says (video) by flokii: 10:19pm On Apr 05 |
That's the bitter truth.. the life of a man no easy atal, struggle, struggle and more struggles. This is why I shake head when I see silly females call young guys broke.. like wetin your own papa don achieve in life? |
Re: Marriage Benefits Women More Than Men — Lady Says (video) by pansophist(m): 10:23pm On Apr 05 |
If a woman is not traditional, then yes, she benefits from marriage more. It's like buying a man's husband's duties and lifestyle with fake currency. The juice is not worth the squeeze. If her traditionalism is based on subscription, when it only applies when you have money, are loyal to her emotions, and are a repentant street girl, then you should marry a man because at least both of you will pay during the date. Otherwise, men and women benefit from marriage, if done rightly. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Benefits Women More Than Men — Lady Says (video) by Boldideas: 11:05pm On Apr 05 |
officialwdhtv: Before we did not take cognizance of that, so we felt love was enough. But now we know, yeah am gonna love you, but you've got to have both class and morals. No more pity loving... |
Re: Marriage Benefits Women More Than Men — Lady Says (video) by Kelklein(m): 5:52am On Apr 06 |
Paramount01: When you are looking for a partner, do you go seek her or she comes seek you?! Do you pay her bride price or she pays your groom price?! When you have a family, is it you or your wife that provide for the family?! When you have séx, do you release inside of her or she release inside of you?! It's nature, brother. It is designed to put you at the giving end, and she at the receiving end.. |
Re: Marriage Benefits Women More Than Men — Lady Says (video) by Psoul(m): 9:45am On Apr 06 |
In ideal state, that's what it seems. In reality, marriage benefits both in almost equal rate. There are men making money and their money kept going to what they do not even know. Once some of them got married to good women, their lives got a shape and everything started falling in the right places. Some women will start giving you advice to buy land, build house, make this investment and the other. Stop following so so persons. Most of these pieces of advise do shape the man to be greater in life and even make him live better and longer. Many good women are out there helping their husbands make and preserve wealth. So, my dear sister, your analysis is incomplete. |
Re: Marriage Benefits Women More Than Men — Lady Says (video) by naijapikin2(m): 11:46am On Apr 06 |
43Ronin:My brother person drown for water no mean say another person no go drink water again. I still believe in the beauty of marriage. |
Re: Marriage Benefits Women More Than Men — Lady Says (video) by Gerrard59(m): 12:41pm On Apr 06 |
Zooposki: Only happening in Korea, and very little of such in Japan or other Asian countries. Although all East Asian societies are suffering from low birth and marriage rates, their causes vary. Korea's issue is multifaceted and terrible as it imbibes Confucian and Western cultures and practices both to the extreme. Well, the future of the country will be seen in the coming decades as the population reduces, the pension system begins to crack, immigrants with varying cultures are invited, and a roaring North Korea is abut them. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Benefits Women More Than Men — Lady Says (video) by Gerrard59(m): 12:44pm On Apr 06 |
Zooposki: That is the problem I have with Nigerian men - they are the ones who complain that marriage largely benefits women, which I agree with. But they are same persons who are itching or rushing to get married EVEN more than women. See the ones who japa'd recently, all are whining of kini kon kini kon how women there are not interested in them. Apparently, it looks like Nigerian men desire marriage more than their women, but shame no gree them accept. 4 Likes |
Re: Marriage Benefits Women More Than Men — Lady Says (video) by Gerrard59(m): 12:54pm On Apr 06 |
Well, the OP is largely correct as modern-day women are still hypergamous even though they now earn good money and have greater freedoms. The benefits most men would get have been reduced, with nothing to replace those lost benefits. You compete with women in the same school admissions and labour market, etc. There are some industries and roles men cannot even break into simply because women have occupied everywhere. So, women have reaped these benefits WHILE maintaining hypergamy - where as the man, you still have to be at the top of your game financially and societal status. One would then ask himself, what is the benefit of being a man? Only wealthy men benefit from being men; other men don't share whatever so-called patriarchal benefits feminazis claim male folks enjoy. In conclusion, the only benefit men derive from marriage is having children within a two-parent household, as wedlock does more harm to both genders and the greater society. Also, having children from different women whom you as the man are not married to is absolutely nonsensical and financially draining. No one should mention sex, as many married men don't even get sex from their wives, and when they do, it is timetable-based. Who makes this timetable? The woman. The reason married men patronise sex workers more than even single men, and I am willing to bet that sexually active married men get less sex while being married than single men who are equally sexually active. So, where is the benefit? ![]() 7 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Marriage Benefits Women More Than Men — Lady Says (video) by Free2Fly: 1:59pm On Apr 06 |
Zooposki: This is far from the truth. African men treat women far better than Asian men do to their own females |
Re: Marriage Benefits Women More Than Men — Lady Says (video) by anonimi: 2:06pm On Apr 06 |
Gerrard59: Quite interesting that wedlock can be broken down into two words- wed AND lock. Quite interesting! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Benefits Women More Than Men — Lady Says (video) by bukatyne(f): 3:57pm On Apr 06 |
Re: Marriage Benefits Women More Than Men — Lady Says (video) by bukatyne(f): 4:02pm On Apr 06 |
anungangampu: @Bold: So it is 'catch 22' suitation? ![]() |
Re: Marriage Benefits Women More Than Men — Lady Says (video) by anungangampu: 5:22pm On Apr 06 |
bukatyne:It's a hard sitiaution. Some girls are so matured in that age, some are still waiting to hit it big in their hoe stage. But then I prefer older ladies, the problem is they are always marriage focused |
Re: Marriage Benefits Women More Than Men — Lady Says (video) by Kelechi009: 5:22pm On Apr 06 |
oliverwrites: I was waiting for a good response for this, so I scrolled through all the pages but none from @zooposki I recently engaged in an argument with a woman who vehemently opposed my viewpoint. Following the disagreement, she harbored resentment towards me because I presented clear and compelling reasons to support my stance. Before marriage - Man pays bride price - Man pays for the wedding (Traditional & Church) After marriage: - Man pays rent? - Man pays School fees? - Man pays for Feeding you, the kids and himself? - Man still buys her luxuries for her on her Birthday, Valentines day, Mother's Day, Christmas Day & other occasions across the year. - Man buys her a car All of this is done is Nigerian families (home & abroad), then @zooposki calls it unpaid labour. So I asked further: Would you consider switching roles, taking on the responsibility of paying all the bills while your husband relaxes and offers occasional support? Typically, the response to this proposition is negative. In conclusion: Women often become displeased upon realizing that their husbands are cognizant of this reality. Some may even develop animosity towards their spouses, akin to what @zooposki expressed, or you may begin to encounter microaggressions within the household. I sincerely hope this isn't your situation, Mr. @oliverwrites. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Benefits Women More Than Men — Lady Says (video) by pansophist(m): 9:55pm On Apr 06 |
PHIPEX: He has a choice to refuse, reject, eject, dismiss, and abandon such responsibility. No man should take up such responsibility, and if the fam will dislike him because he refused to be a donkey, so be it. 4 Likes |
Re: Marriage Benefits Women More Than Men — Lady Says (video) by oliverwrites: 12:25pm On Apr 07 |
Kelechi009:I doubt she will ever reply. They prefer to believe their narrative. 1 Like |
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