Kulas:

Very Terrible.All these Moslem sef,how can a married woman be living in one place and the husband in another place.No thanks to Moslem polygamous ethics.Being a topshot in NNPC,i think she has all it takes to relocate her family to Abuja and offset the accomodation expenses.Also,she stays alone,yet with a male help,male security and male driver(not staying with her),does a lonely woman like this suppose to stay in the midst of these young men?,this can create room for intimacy which produces over trust.Lets try to give marriage its necessary ingredients irrespective of material things of the world.Its very unfortunate and very bad to the men that carried out this evil act.

Kulas:

Very Terrible.All these Moslem sef,how can a married woman be living in one place and the husband in another place.No thanks to Moslem polygamous ethics.Being a topshot in NNPC,i think she has all it takes to relocate her family to Abuja and offset the accomodation expenses.Also,she stays alone,yet with a male help,male security and male driver(not staying with her),does a lonely woman like this suppose to stay in the midst of these young men?,this can create room for intimacy which produces over trust.Lets try to give marriage its necessary ingredients irrespective of material things of the world.Its very unfortunate and very bad to the men that carried out this evil act.

mustspin:

^^^^^, the murder was motivated by greed and nothing more. the same way an armed robber caught will have stories to tell about how harsh economic conditions had made them to go into the business but does that justify the various killings he'had been engaged in?
killed her and stuffed her in the freezer? how much more wicked can someone be. do you think the dead woman was more wicked than him? anyway, atleast she didnt kill him, he killed her so think about that

Nashville:

I can't believe what I am reading on Nairaland. A hardworking and good member of the society has been murdered and people are blaming her or insinuating it serves her right for reasons including:

1. She leaves alone
2. Polygamy
3. She was rude to a car washer

Does anyone of you know that could have been you? It shows how wicked our society is and how envious people are of successful people. This woman has done nothing wrong and does not in anyway deserve what has happened. Her reasons for leaving alone are best know to her and her family and is not for anyone to judge her and if a useless car washer bashes her car, he should fix it in my opinion.

We are not even thinking about her and the family she left behind and what pain they are going through. It is really sad for our country and government should find a way of improving safety and security of lives and property in Nigeria. The culprits should NEVER see the light of day again! PLEASE STOP JUDGING cos it could have been anyone!

tiwiex:

It won't have cost her muchg to fix it. I won't be surprised if she had insurance. Let us all make an effort to be nice and show mercy. All na vanity. She probably would be alive if she had. Like I said we don't know the extent of her actions and the eventual repercussion. I do support her killing oh. May the perpetrators be brought to book.

Nashville:

I can't believe what I am reading on Nairaland. A hardworking and good member of the society has been murdered and people are blaming her or insinuating it serves her right for reasons including:

1. She leaves alone
2. Polygamy
3. She was rude to a car washer

Does anyone of you know that could have been you? It shows how wicked our society is and how envious people are of successful people. This woman has done nothing wrong and does not in anyway deserve what has happened. Her reasons for leaving alone are best know to her and her family and is not for anyone to judge her and if a useless car washer bashes her car, he should fix it in my opinion.

We are not even thinking about her and the family she left behind and what pain they are going through. It is really sad for our country and government should find a way of improving safety and security of lives and property in Nigeria. The culprits should NEVER see the light of day again! PLEASE STOP JUDGING cos it could have been anyone!

Bo-large:

Human being cannot be trusted on this mother earth.

What kid of life is this? how can you a WOMAN be staying alone without any of your relative members staying with you.

NL want to tell me this late woman with her calibre in NNPC cannot help any of her family members to accommodate and train them under her roof?.


Men and Women especially in Nigeria should extend ther wealth to the upbringing of less previlegde family members.

I want to beleive this late woman has a skeleton in her cupboard. Her GSM calls and text messages should be investigated. Somebody must have been sneeking in late in the night to satisfy Madam.

To heal with FAME.

Husband and Wife should learn to work and stay in the same environment.

Many marriages, home and families are now in shamble in the quest for money, fame and power.

A lesson for all.

Bo-large:

Human being cannot be trusted on this mother earth.

What kid of life is this? how can you a WOMAN be staying alone without any of your relative members staying with you.

NL want to tell me this late woman with her calibre in NNPC cannot help any of her family members to accommodate and train them under her roof?.


Men and Women especially in Nigeria should extend ther wealth to the upbringing of less previlegde family members.

I want to beleive this late woman has a skeleton in her cupboard. Her GSM calls and text messages should be investigated. Somebody must have been sneeking in late in the night to satisfy Madam.

To heal with FAME.

Husband and Wife should learn to work and stay in the same environment.

Many marriages, home and families are now in shamble in the quest for money, fame and power.

A lesson for all.

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I share in the grief and sadness of the bereaved and just wish it didn't go this way. While I read through the responses I observe certain similarities to other posts and make one important observation.

It is okay to cast blame on the perps be it robbers, rapists, murdering policemen, etc but you cannot succeed in life if you learn no lessons.

Accidents will always happen. It is our responsibility to prepare, prevent and insure. [b]Fact is if you live a carefree, unwise life your chances of coming to grief are high.

I'm sorry to say this but a woman living alone with three male servants in a city without a soul is suicidal.

The very reason she's there is why they are there. Desperate search for the golden fleece.

She made very poor choices and has paid for it badly. A man surrounded by 3 female staff alone in Abuja will equally lose his life.[/b]I seriously doubt if this arrangement was acceptable to her husband or family but I guess she probably was the bread winner, leaned over too far and toppled in the issues of life.

Pity. For our women there are some things not really worth it.

femionasan:

Hmmm na wa o! So to live alone is a bad thing?

Bo-large:

Human being cannot be trusted on this mother earth.

What kid of life is this? how can you a WOMAN be staying alone without any of your relative members staying with you.

NL want to tell me this late woman with her calibre in NNPC cannot help any of her family members to accommodate and train them under her roof?.


Men and Women especially in Nigeria should extend ther wealth to the upbringing of less previlegde family members.

To heal with FAME.

Husband and Wife should learn to work and stay in the same environment.

Many marriages, home and families are now in shamble in the quest for money, fame and power.

A lesson for all.

Bo-large:

A similar crime is all over the world. Even in the bible crimes were committed.

Life is full of lessons. Who ever cares learn from them.

it is a pity NNPC  and her family have lost a GEM.

But what lessons can we learn to prevent reoccurance.

That's what majority have been contributing on since.

Even Jesus Christ the son of God never leaved alone. A whole 12 disciples. You won try?

catso:

As far as I am concern, living alone either married or single is not a good idea.
I use to have an uncle, married with kids but working in another state from the family.
His friends and neighbor just discover that they did not see him for 3days, never showed up in the office and not seen in the neighborhood.
Only to discover his dead body inside his house.
He slept and never woke up.
Only God knows what happened, but i want to believe if someone were with him, it would have been a different story.