LVStone:
Dears,

I am married to a wonderful woman indeed, beautiful in and out and I have no regrets.

However recently I noticed strange body odour from her, the first day I came in and observed mild strange smell, without being malicious I said just blatantly said "what is smelling in this house" , while trying to check around I moved closed to the chair she was sitting and it became stronger then I told her maybe she needed to bath because I noticed she hasn't.

She cried heavily saying I now refer to her as a smelling wife. I begged her that that wasn't my intention, I observed and spoke on what could be done. That issue passed.

But I still perceives it from her, she doesn't bath early most times because she works remotely and she wakes up seeing piled work so she starts working immediately on her laptop.

Every marriage has issues I know, one of her's is that she doesn't like correction she sees it as if one is trying to make her inferior.

Please how can I correct her to bath early no matter the work.

Please I need honest counsel and not abuse, if you are not married please don't respond to this, thank you.

poshestmina:
Working remotely shouldn't be a reason to be unkempt,some remote workers I know dress up like they're going to an actual office to get into that "work mode"mental zone.


Get her new toiletries especially Men's Deodorant, Spray and all then talk to her about it again as calmly and sweet as you can and try to make her shower anytime you want to...

Hope you or someone has being assisting with some chores ?
I can't imagine her working small ,go wash plate ,work small ,go wash toilet .
You should help her do better.


Thanks for you submittion, in our family we don't have chores for any sex we both cook,clean and all, anything we can do we do so no one is on permanent routine but all must be done

Shinjawestern:
Guess you will need a nose mask anytime you r home...

God bless the good people of Southsouth and Southwest

Balablue64:
Na yoruba na so dem dey smell, op you better do something now before she go use smell kpai u, mandate her to every 30 mins bath and using roll on for now.

Stevenbright:


Make her bath daily and early.

How?

Lovely make it a duty to make sure you guys bathe together every morning before you go out to work. Do same in the evening before going to bed.

Also ask her if there is anyway you can help her in her work to reduce her workload. If it is not possible, you can some times find a way to stay around her while she works, gist with her, and occasionally take her out. All these can help increase her productivity, emotional balance and state to of hygiene.

LVStone:
Dears,

I am married to a wonderful woman indeed, beautiful in and out and I have no regrets.

However recently I noticed strange body odour from her, the first day I came in and observed mild strange smell, without being malicious I said just blatantly said "what is smelling in this house" , while trying to check around I moved closed to the chair she was sitting and it became stronger then I told her maybe she needed to bath because I noticed she hasn't.

She cried heavily saying I now refer to her as a smelling wife. I begged her that that wasn't my intention, I observed and spoke on what could be done. That issue passed.

But I still perceives it from her, she doesn't bath early most times because she works remotely and she wakes up seeing piled work so she starts working immediately on her laptop.

Every marriage has issues I know, one of her's is that she doesn't like correction she sees it as if one is trying to make her inferior.

Please how can I correct her to bath early no matter the work.

Please I need honest counsel and not abuse, if you are not married please don't respond to this, thank you.

LVStone:
∆ But I still perceives it from her, she doesn't bath early most times because she works remotely and she wakes up seeing piled work so she starts working immediately on her laptop.
Every marriage has issues I know, one of her's is that she doesn't like correction she sees it as if one is trying to make her inferior.
Please how can I correct her to bath early no matter the work.
Please I need honest counsel and not abuse, if you are not married please don't respond to this, thank you.

safarifarms:
Maybe you can just start a new habit of taking her along with you to bath together when you are preparing for work.

LVStone:
Dears,

I am married to a wonderful woman indeed, beautiful in and out and I have no regrets.

However recently I noticed strange body odour from her, the first day I came in and observed mild strange smell, without being malicious I said just blatantly said "what is smelling in this house" , while trying to check around I moved closed to the chair she was sitting and it became stronger then I told her maybe she needed to bath because I noticed she hasn't.

She cried heavily saying I now refer to her as a smelling wife. I begged her that that wasn't my intention, I observed and spoke on what could be done. That issue passed.

But I still perceives it from her, she doesn't bath early most times because she works remotely and she wakes up seeing piled work so she starts working immediately on her laptop.

Every marriage has issues I know, one of her's is that she doesn't like correction she sees it as if one is trying to make her inferior.

Please how can I correct her to bath early no matter the work.

Please I need honest counsel and not abuse, if you are not married please don't respond to this, thank you.

frozen70:


I think you have to let her know the truth about her hygiene and your observation

The smell could come from her ampite or panties

If she wears pants to sleep then drops of urine after night pee can be on the pants hence she should stop wearing pants to sleep and learn to use tissue after each we if the day

If she doesn't take her bath at night before sleeping, then her sweat during the say for stored in her ampit and that's part of where the odours are coming out from

Correct her in a polite manner and do so with high decorum

Very soon she may start irritating you at home and the affection will drop

Most people with body odour are not perceiving the odour they have and as such are not even aware

Let her feel bad but you have to achieve success

Fahvvy:
"Babe...

I love you so much, you know that right?

Well, there's this thing I've noticed and I didn't know how to bring it up, because I didn't want to upset you...

But it's imperative I do so because I don't want it to be a wedge between - I sincerely hope you don't take this the wrong way...

There's this mild odour I've perceived around you. I don't know why and I can't explain the odour, but it's there and it's bad and so I'd like us to deal with it...

Which is why I bought this product (any beauty care product out there), so you and I will give this a try later this night, okay?"

The above is exactly what I would say to my wife if I was in your shoe ...

This way, you're not accusing her or insulting her that she's smelling, you're only stating your observations...

Secondly, you're providing a solution to the problem and not just leaving her to figure things out...

I believe any reasonable woman would appreciate this gesture ...

Kobojunkie:
Bathing early has nothing to do with odour. In fact, in hospitals, adult patients are not required to have a bath everyday. Some only get baths twice a week. So, forget using her bathing culture against her.

Since she works from home, she probably wouldn't need more than a shower a day -- does not really matter what time of day she takes it. Additionally, making sure to wear clean clothes is another way to combat BO of most kinds. Using the right laundry detergent, knowing to combat mildew when it shows up, etc. all necessary. .

But more importantly,that crying leads me to believe that she may not be doing well emotionally, and emotional problems tend to lead to such issues. So, OP, can you describe --- not make excuses for -- your wife's emotional health? Is she happy (genuinely) or frustrated a lot of the times,maybe even anxious or does she seem to be more depressed and what not?

Ofcourse, all of this assumes the smell is in fact from BO problems and maybe even mildew issues.

LVStone:
I am very grateful for your submission

safarifarms:
Maybe you can just start a new habit of taking her along with you to bath together when you are preparing for work.

LVStone:
Dears,

I am married to a wonderful woman indeed, beautiful in and out and I have no regrets.

However recently I noticed strange body odour from her, the first day I came in and observed mild strange smell, without being malicious I said just blatantly said "what is smelling in this house" , while trying to check around I moved closed to the chair she was sitting and it became stronger then I told her maybe she needed to bath because I noticed she hasn't.

Please I need honest counsel and not abuse, if you are not married please don't respond to this, thank you.

Jewessgratitud3:
This is not a marital issue but hygiene so any body can contribute and give helpful tips of proper hygiene to tackle the issue..

One thing that could alter your skins pH and cause body odour suddenly is the kind of soap and cream you' start using.. if you use highly acidic soap or cream it will cause body odour so if she changed her soap and cream recently, it may be the cause. She may have to go back to normal mositurisng soap and cream.

If the above is not the case, and this only happens when she has not taken her bath, then she needs to add antiperspirants deodorant like roll-on to her body care routine. That way Even if she doesn't bathe in time, the antiperspirant will not allow her to sweat and therefore will remain fresh all day.

Most importantly, let her get a very good bathing soap like dove mositurisng soap and avoid any soap with acids.

Get sure or rexona roll-on they keep the armpit dry and fresh for days. The pink and cotton dry Blue Rexona smell very nice. .

Legalese:
If it's from her vagina, it may be an infection; maybe toilet.

Take her to run a swab test and if anything is found, treat immediately.
You guys are married and if you cannot tell yourselves the truth and save each other from public embarassment, the ya'll are not ready.