richie240:
If u can afford it, build two houses at quite a distance apart from each other.
The average woman have trouble accepting her sisters-in-law/mothers-in-law who have no romantic association with her husband how much less a woman who shares d same dick with her.

Women are fickle-minded and can easily be swayed by d devil. (if I lie, ask Eve)
Any small thing they begin to envy each other and we know what can result from there.
A's son is more brilliant than B's, beef don start be that.

Save more money and build 2 separate houses. You can then be oscillating btw the 2.


Taaa dia.
I get the sense b4 u.

Na d same tin me myself talk

Lonestar124:
Build two kitchen bro, don't listen to any advice beside this my own..

SouthSouth1914:


Oga carry the sense go deposit for bank make dem credit you!

Kipaji:
I'm building my home for me and my two wives.

Each wife will have her bedroom.
Now, I am wondering whether I should build one or two kitchen.
What do you think?
Input from (current or future) polygamists and women would be appreciated.

Kipaji:
I'm building my home for me and my two wives.

Each wife will have her bedroom.
Now, I am wondering whether I should build one or two kitchen.
What do you think?
Input from (current or future) polygamists and women would be appreciated.

Danielnicks:


By that logic you should allocate the same feeding allowance to them, stock both kitchen equally, eat the same amount of food from one kitchen in the next kitchen, so one wife won't say she cooked a lot for you that's why her stock finished faster.

You're obviously building a house not a home. And years later you will wonder why there's a wall between both factions. Yes, I called them factions, because that's what you're creating.

Konquest:

You made some valid points there but it's also good to get a second and even third opinion from folks and professionals alike in any field of human endeavor.

Then a man "walking" in his shoes can finally make up his mind (even though he already has his own initial ideas on what to do) based on thorough scrutiny of feedbacks so as NOT to get blindsided. So far, he's got a lot of good advice on this family-related issue and a significant number of men here have given very succinct feedbacks.

I can see the OP going far in his long-term polygamous relationships because he is NOT afraid to ask for feedback and he's willing to learn while not compromising the unity of his children who he wants to see grow up together as brothers and sisters.

DeGods007:


My mentor I salute you

I can't wait to be like you

Please build separate kitchen for them...if you are still willing to get a third wife later in life, please make avenue for her own space too

Na man you be 🙌🙌🙌🙌

Kipaji:
I'm building my home for me and my two wives.

Each wife will have her bedroom.
Now, I am wondering whether I should build one or two kitchen.
What do you think?
Input from (current or future) polygamists and women would be appreciated.

pocohantas:


So if you marry wife wey no sabi cook or likes too much pepper, my innocent kids go follow una dey chop am? Don't foster your unity with my kids nutrition, your Lordship.

richie240:

Haba my bloda, you don vex nau-nau?
so person cannot joke with u again ni?

Kipaji:
I'm building my home for me and my two wives.

Each wife will have her bedroom.
Now, I am wondering whether I should build one or two kitchen.
What do you think?
Input from (current or future) polygamists and women would be appreciated.

InvertedHammer:

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The best opinion he can get is from the two wives. Three of them should sit down and figure out the best way forward. With this approach, there won't be any room for surprises and denials.

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Kipaji:
I'm building my home for me and my two wives.

Each wife will have her bedroom.
Now, I am wondering whether I should build one or two kitchen.
What do you think?
Input from (current or future) polygamists and women would be appreciated.

Kipaji:
I'm building my home for me and my two wives.

Each wife will have her bedroom.
Now, I am wondering whether I should build one or two kitchen.
What do you think?
Input from (current or future) polygamists and women would be appreciated.

gbassa:
You should build 2 kitchens based on my own experience. When we had a single kitchen, there was too much quarrels from my stepmums and they were doing the cooking 2 weeks each but after giving each a separate kitchen and later a separate flat, the quarrels stopped.

garriAndsugar:
Make the kitchen 3, as you will need one more wife in the future

Hollasmall:
Na man you be! How you Dey cope with two wives

Lonestar124:
Build two kitchen bro, don't listen to any advice beside this my own..

Lonestar124:
Build two kitchen bro, don't listen to any advice beside this my own..

Kipaji:
I'm building my home for me and my two wives.

Each wife will have her bedroom.
Now, I am wondering whether I should build one or two kitchen.
What do you think?
Input from (current or future) polygamists and women would be appreciated.