Kipaji:


In my household, each wife will cook for everybody: me, her co-wife, and all the kids. I impose this to foster unity among the children and collaboration with the wives.
For example, let's say today it is wife2's turn to cook. Then, she will cook for the whole family, not only her kids. We will all eat her food that day. And I forbid the other wife to cook something else for her kids and have her kids eat something else. No. This would create "clans" within my household, which I do not want. I want all of my kids to see themselves as brothers and sisters not as step-brothers and step-sisters.

All this is empty talk.

You really have delusions. Maybe if you marry docile women direct from village sha. But you will always want to eat your cake and have it

Practically everyone I have known or met who married second wife was thoroughly pus-sy whipped by the new wife - usually to the point of giving the new wife official status over the first wife

Also as a husband and a child and a sibling - women are extremely territorial about kitchens. A wife can assert ownership of kitchen to her husband - will do same to her in laws

You really want to go through with your polygamous fantasy then build seperate houses in the compound.

I hope you actually have the time to raise your children and not follow the usual path if outsourcing the raising to the wives - because that is where the damage starts. The women will be in competition to 'raise the better kids' and will fudge or hide any bad behavior as this will reflect badly on them

NOETHNICITY:
making meaningless joke over everything is the very reason I know how childish you are.

You are just senile!

Women of nowadays are too jealous of themselves I wonder why the unnecessary competition

Kipaji:


As far as I am concerned a woman that refuses to see her co-wife is a bad wife. Each wife will have her quarters but they don't mind seeing each other around.