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Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by IamHonourable1: 5:16pm On Apr 30 |
Anytime a woman threatens you with leaving a marriage when you didn't do anything to her that would warrant her leaving, just know that her mind is not in the marriage and she's just looking for a slightest opportunity to leave.Don't try to persuade her to stay because she's definitely gonna leave someday, when this happens,the funny thing is that you would think your world has ended,but I bet you, you would end up getting someone better than her in character and beauty. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by anonimi: 5:20pm On Apr 30 |
Valoromega: Based on your previous threads below, are you sure you really have a wife/marriage Valoromega: Valoromega: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Exceed15: 5:23pm On Apr 30 |
She's in charge. Two captains can't be in a ship. Next time she threaten u with that, tell her the door is open. |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by poseidon12: 5:33pm On Apr 30 |
JayEdm: The guy should follow her go? |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by sinola(m): 6:04pm On Apr 30 |
my dear , you are marrying to yourself in that marriage.....have a plan B |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Psoul(m): 6:07pm On Apr 30 |
Valoromega: I dislike martial problems. If it can be avoided, try to do so. In this your matter, the Bible says, out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. Your wife believed that there's a better place outside than in the home two of you are supposed to build. She will get disappointed. Maybe there are men out there hyping her. Telling her sweet things and she is believing those words. By the time they get what they want, she'll be shocked at the speed they'll drop her as a piece of hot coal. I believe you've shown her much love than she has for you and she believe she's doing you favor by marrying you. She is delusional. My advice to you. Put more effort in building yourself. Do whatever you can do for her as a wife, but focus more on building yourself. Hustle for more money. Get established. Next time she threaten to leave you, summon the courage to tell her that she's very free to leave. I know you may be scared of doing that. I bet you, telling her that she's free to go will fold her ego. One day, she will make up her mind to leave. Do not drag the child with her. When she leaves, she will regret her decision. She will realize that non of those men hyping her will be willing to help her like a husband will. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Abee79(m): 6:20pm On Apr 30 |
I've learned from experience that anyone who threatens to leave you (even as a joke) has already left you a long time ago. You've just not yet realized it. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by opera1(m): 6:20pm On Apr 30 |
Valoromega: She didn't love you truly coz IF she does, she won't even joke with such things. Is like she's doing you favour marrying you. If you want to enjoy life and peace of mind, stop begging her so that you won't continue to beg for the rest of your life. If she threatened you with such joke, threatened her too. |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Donald7610: 6:28pm On Apr 30 |
Just tell her, when next she threaten you of leaving again, you will let her go. But if she repeats it again Still don't let her go. Now look for what could cause her to leave you. Try and work on it Except you can't handle it Find someone to help you talk her on that issue If all options no work Bible doesn't forbid divorce You can let her go 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Donald7610: 6:35pm On Apr 30 |
anonimi:Very good of you Investigative journalist I like that 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Babaken(m): 6:55pm On Apr 30 |
For how long are you going to beg. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by god2good: 7:05pm On Apr 30 |
Valoromega: Please if possible, call her parents and some of her friends and informed them about her actions anytime you both have issues and also tell them of what you will do if she try that again because people that doesn't know the whole story may till be blaming you after your action of letting her go |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by demoBaba: 7:28pm On Apr 30 |
thesicilian: Real man way Sabi....... 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Nedstar: 7:34pm On Apr 30 |
Don’t let go with your child, stand your ground. Anytime she threathens you with leaving let her go, but tell she’s not taking your child anywhere. Take your child to your mother or sister. I hope your child is above breast feeding age though, would be more easier. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by galadima77(m): 7:36pm On Apr 30 |
Society has overtamed men aswear! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by nedekid: 7:40pm On Apr 30 |
Oga, let her leave, and with the child, abi can you take care of a little child? Better move ahead. You will not be the first baby daddy neither she, the first baby mama. |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by alizma: 7:41pm On Apr 30 |
Valoromega:If you don't want to die by poison, stop begging her to stay. It may sound awkward to you but if you allow her build strength on that threat, she will always have this mentality that she has better options outside and one day she may have to take you out by all means so that she can meet the better options. She may ended up regretting when that better option is not forthcoming but by then, someone could be 6ft below the surface of the earth, I pray that will not be your portion |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by yewawa: 7:51pm On Apr 30 |
Pls let her goooooo!....So that you can have peace!....I repeat,pls let her goooo.and once she go pls do not take her back ooooo!... |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Elonmuzk(m): 8:19pm On Apr 30 |
Then leave the marriage first and she will come back to her senses! Unless she's the one feeding you though! |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by kunlay4me(m): 8:28pm On Apr 30 |
Chai. Me wey i dey look for way which my wife go pack her load and go. I want to enjoy my small change alone but she no gree go. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by goldmatrix(m): 8:28pm On Apr 30 |
Go for DNA test, once you know it's your baby just wait for her to try it again then allow her to leave immediately even with the baby. Thanks me later |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by benuejosh: 8:40pm On Apr 30 |
Desusi:I have been reading through to see a Christian and godly comment like this. Thanks for saying it as it is. God bless you. |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by raystanley(m): 8:42pm On Apr 30 |
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Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by dejolly(m): 9:01pm On Apr 30 |
If this has been happening as you said then she is not tolerant. Make up your mind that she will leave one day. Don’t send her away and never raise your hands on her. As a father and husband always be apologetic even though you are right just for the purpose of your child. I wish you best of luck! |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by prizeless(m): 9:06pm On Apr 30 |
She should go now |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Desusi: 9:29pm On Apr 30 |
benuejosh:Thanks lam encouraged by your comment sir. |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by MightySparrow: 9:42pm On Apr 30 |
Valoromega: It is an empty threat. Knack her three more children, when you talk of divorce, she will be shivering. My own wife did more than that in the beginning of our marriage. 23 three years on, she wouldn't make such threats. |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Olumaeme: 9:49pm On Apr 30 |
Help her to arrange her bag next time and move it to the door so she can leave. You see, as a man, you have to take some risk in order to ensure your leadership, if not she will trample on you. When I was dating my wife, she was like that. Whenever we have issues and she come visiting, if there's small issue, she'll treathen to leave and I will be apologizing. Untill I said enough is enough. She was shocked when she left and I didn't even bulge, she had to get to the park and came back home come on her knees to apologize. This may also be a way to know if she really loves you or her ex that was shinning her Congo before you came into the picture is entering her head. Let her go if she want or continue to beg for the rest of your life. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by Godson4live: 9:57pm On Apr 30 |
Honestly, this is exactly what I am going through. |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by OCHKESTINE(m): 10:17pm On Apr 30 |
My mom has that same behaviour for 46 years. My Dad is aged now and she is angry with at him for existing. My advise is, the sooner you clear her, the better for you. She won't stop that behaviour of you don't stop it for her. |
Re: My Wife Always Threatens To Leave Our Marriage Anytime We Have Issues by jessylaurel(f): 11:23pm On Apr 30 |
Valoromega: You obviously married a “baby” 😂probably a last born. |
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