Emu4u2c:
I'm in one currently.. I love the girl but she is all shade of wrong and every Day I see reasons why everyone is against single mothers...One thing I observed about the single mother in my care..She fights me and disrespects me but you should see the respect she gives to the baby daddy...gets me confused then Why didn't he cope with her bad character..And believe me sometimes I feel like I'm her dump load where she off-loads all her rubbish...Why am I still in such relationship?.. Well I have access to free kitten why it last....I won't say I'm a Red piller..no.. but at least I'm not mentally and emotionally locked to her...so I'm taking advantage of the situation...Are we getting married?.... That's Left for God to decide and well I'm awaiting his direction but I will enjoy the moment while it last

mamaafrik:
90% of of guys in marriage with one will tell him these.

*Most of these ladies are only pretending .
*you and your kids will be her sub_priorities.
*most are after seeking beast of burden and screw drivers not love.
*The kids and his dad will be 50% of the causes of your fight.
Ask people who had experienced it one on one ;your eye go open

nkemjacob2:
Pls i need an advice I am in love with a girl she is a baby mama. But I am finding hard to battle the metal stress of her been a baby mama of a boy. Pls I need your advice to over come this. I truly love her and I want to marry her. Pls no jokes

nkemjacob2:
Pls i need an advice I am in love with a girl she is a baby mama. But I am finding hard to battle the metal stress of her been a baby mama of a boy. Pls I need your advice to over come this. I truly love her and I want to marry her. Pls no jokes

RevenuesBoost:





It's possible

I know someone that went through similar issue.
She was lied to by the guy that he got a job and a car and he is ready to settle down.
Meanwhile, the car belonged to his uncle and he was jobless and lived with his uncle.
He even spends money on her like he isn't broke. As soon as she got pregnant, he told her to abort the baby, she refused, so the truth came out.


She got pregnant at 23 now married to another man.
Any man that loves you wouldn't care if you got a kid or not.

luminouz:

So you are still waiting for God's direction with all these red flags about her?

You are worse than a simp...you are fly that follows the dead body inside the grave. Thank God you said you are not a redpillers, I for wooze you.

NB: so you still need God's direction when commiting fornication? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Emu4u2c:
I'm in one currently.. I love the girl but she is all shade of wrong and every Day I see reasons why everyone is against single mothers...One thing I observed about the single mother in my care..She fights me and disrespects me but you should see the respect she gives to the baby daddy...gets me confused then Why didn't he cope with her bad character..And believe me sometimes I feel like I'm her dump load where she off-loads all her rubbish...Why am I still in such relationship?.. Well I have access to free kitten why it last....I won't say I'm a Red piller..no.. but at least I'm not mentally and emotionally locked to her...so I'm taking advantage of the situation...Are we getting married?.... That's Left for God to decide and well I'm awaiting his direction but I will enjoy the moment while it last

immortalcrown:
How old was she when it happened?

She was not deceived. She is not a rational adult. If you don't mind having an irrational wife, go ahead to marry her. The choice is yours but be ready for the consequences of your choices.

I am not saying she is evil or wicked. My point is that she is an irrational adult. Stop believing that she was deceived. I can bet that she was not deceived. But if you think she was actually deceived, tell us the full story of how the deception happened.

Dizzyyish:
1. Her baby daddy has imprinted on her. As a woman, she is more invested in him as she has his baby but you'll be invested in her going forward:
Baby Daddy < Her < You.

2. Baggage.

3. Her child will ALWAYS have a higher priority than you.

4. You're simply there to provide for the child and herself. You'll know this someday when you try to discipline the child.

Women do not love, but your love has a sedative and blinding effect. Once it clears hope you won't see yourself lying wrapped up on a spider's web.

immortalcrown:
Some baby mamas are good, some are bad. All baby mamas are not the same because not the same situation made them baby mamas.

My advice to you will be based on the situation that made your crush a baby mama. How and at what age did she become a baby mama?

nkemjacob2:
Pls i need an advice I am in love with a girl she is a baby mama. But I am finding hard to battle the metal stress of her been a baby mama of a boy. Pls I need your advice to over come this. I truly love her and I want to marry her. Pls no jokes

Ficeo:
We already have a lot of things to think about rather than this.
Try and send in something that is more reasonable than this.

techub:


Let me help you clone her WhatsApp messages to your phone first.. that way you can know where you stand

nkemjacob2:
Pls i need an advice I am in love with a girl she is a baby mama. But I am finding hard to battle the metal stress of her been a baby mama of a boy. Pls I need your advice to over come this. I truly love her and I want to marry her. Pls no jokes

Wittydreh:
Last year God really save me, i was in love with a babe mama, eventually I imprenated her without my family consent.we were really in 😍 love. Before the pregnant happen, one of my clerics told me that one lady will be pregnant for me but I didn't believe him until the pregnant happened. After she told me she was pregnant,I went back to the clerics to inform him that it has happen oooo, I ask, am I really thee owner. Omo kasala boast as the cleric man ask for her name and confirm am the owner of the babe. Nah beg I beg am and scope am make I give her money to remove it. Till now I still love her but we don fight.

EmperorCaesar:
This life is too short for humans to go about seeking for advice on what they plan to do
Gen engaged with her, if u fail, u learn and if it goes well,you will be happy....either way it ends, the joy and sorrow that comes with wont last that long except say u wan marry her

We cant be too sure of how it might turn out to be in the end

I like to make stereotypic statements alot, its either blue or black for me and if i were in your shoes, I'd never go for her

No match starts at 0-1 no matter the sound reason u tryna use justify that abnormality

BarrElChapo:

Feelings79:
I'm 44 years old and it's been my experience having married a baby mama for 8 years before it collapsed.The most pain is that the relationship between them and their kids daddy never ends, to the point the man keep fucking her before meeting any obligation to the baby

immortalcrown:
How old was she when it happened?

She was not deceived. She is not a rational adult. If you don't mind having an irrational wife, go ahead to marry her. The choice is yours but be ready for the consequences of your choices.

I am not saying she is evil or wicked. My point is that she is an irrational adult. Stop believing that she was deceived. I can bet that she was not deceived. But if you think she was actually deceived, tell us the full story of how the deception happened.

nkemjacob2:
Pls i need an advice I am in love with a girl she is a baby mama. But I am finding hard to battle the metal stress of her been a baby mama of a boy. Pls I need your advice to over come this. I truly love her and I want to marry her. Pls no jokes

BarrElChapo:


Sorry for your experience. Hope you’re doing better now?

nkemjacob2:
Pls i need an advice I am in love with a girl she is a baby mama. But I am finding hard to battle the metal stress of her been a baby mama of a boy. Pls I need your advice to over come this. I truly love her and I want to marry her. Pls no jokes

elbulk:


He can't use his experience as a blanket conclusion, I know some that have worked.

nkemjacob2:
Pls i need an advice I am in love with a girl she is a baby mama. But I am finding hard to battle the metal stress of her been a baby mama of a boy. Pls I need your advice to over come this. I truly love her and I want to marry her. Pls no jokes