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Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by TheSuperX(m): 4:52am On Jun 29 |
Biglittlelois:It's called cheating only if he slept with the sidechic before marrying her, but from the look of things, he didn't, he just want to marry another wife, there's nothing wrong in that. 3 Likes |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by TheSuperX(m): 4:54am On Jun 29 |
descarado:You must be a female from your post, don't worry let your husband marry another wife and you do anyhow, you will get series of slaps, lol. 😂 |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by TheSuperX(m): 4:58am On Jun 29 |
Beremx:Let him marry another wife if he can cater for her, the woman is just being too greedy, she just want all the attention and money for herself. 1 Like |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by TheSuperX(m): 5:00am On Jun 29 |
ThierryJay:Actually I'm pissed that he had to admit to that, dude should have kept quiet instead. 4 Likes |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by 1Sharon(f): 5:05am On Jun 29 |
TheSuperX: Yes he did! There was posts of him flirting with her on twitter. His wife would complain that he would talk to her late into the night. He had already married her in secret. He wanted to make it proper by bringing her into the home. 3 Likes |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by TheSuperX(m): 5:08am On Jun 29 |
ednut1:Nothing will happen |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by cococandy(f): 5:09am On Jun 29 |
The govt are the same men who want 5 wives and 10 concubines. They’ll never prioritize anything that’s not solely geared towards getting them more personal wealth and access to more women. Thoroughly and utterly rotten to the core. shaybebaby: 2 Likes |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by TheSuperX(m): 5:09am On Jun 29 |
TheChameleon:You go wicked 😂 1 Like |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by shaybebaby(f): 5:13am On Jun 29 |
cococandy:One can dream. I think the tide will turn soon as the world is more connected therefore these younger generation are more aware of what goes on outside their immediate environment. 2 Likes |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by 1Sharon(f): 5:18am On Jun 29 |
TheSuperX: Lol. She's not stupid. She knows she's about to be relegated to a side-chick in her own home. In a polygamous home, the oldest wife is rarely ever the favourite. Ask Ned Nwoko's first wife how far? Who knows what she looks like? But all you pro- polygamists don't care, as long you get your dićk wet. You don't care about the mess you're going to cause because polygamy is simply an avenue for men to have multiple women on rotation with a religious justification and backing. Before you start and say she should just divorce him, in Islam, the man has the ultimate say on divorce. How convenient huh? 5 Likes |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by cococandy(f): 5:23am On Jun 29 |
shaybebaby: Amen. That’s why the role of internet social justice warriors is very important. Don’t let anyone say otherwise 😉 3 Likes |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by TheSuperX(m): 5:24am On Jun 29 |
1Sharon:Okay let's say he flirted, but I doubt if he'd slept with her. JARUS is a Muslim and he knows what is good and bad in Islam. My problem is with the wife not agreeing to his wants/demands, she's so greedy that she wants everything for herself. she's lucky some Muslim men won't even inform their wife before they marry second wife. 1 Like |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by cococandy(f): 5:26am On Jun 29 |
1Sharon: Extremely convenient. As with all the other religious laws they hide behind to be heinous human beings. God just casually signed off on them being absolute jerks because they’re his favorites. Women just don’t count 🫠 1 Like |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by 1Sharon(f): 5:27am On Jun 29 |
TheSuperX: He flirted with her and slept with her. He remembered his religion when it comes to shirk, but not when it comes to zina. Stop justifying nonsense. 3 Likes |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by TheSuperX(m): 5:28am On Jun 29 |
1Sharon:I guess that's her greatest fear, but she should have known better because she's a Muslim and she knows herself that Islam permits polygamy. 2 Likes |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by cococandy(f): 5:29am On Jun 29 |
TheSuperX: Christianity also makes light of slavery in some texts. Does that make it okay? |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by shaybebaby(f): 5:31am On Jun 29 |
cococandy:💯 |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by 1Sharon(f): 5:35am On Jun 29 |
TheSuperX: Most Muslim women don't agree with polygamy. But they don't come out to say it for fear of being called an apostate but they show it in their actions. The rule states that the first wife has to consent and the man has to love all the wives equally but in reality where have you ever seen that happen? Even biological parents have their favourite children. 5 Likes |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by 1Sharon(f): 5:37am On Jun 29 |
cococandy: Exactly. A religion by men, of men, for men. 2 Likes |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by cococandy(f): 5:43am On Jun 29 |
1Sharon:and the church said amen 3 Likes |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by 1Sharon(f): 5:53am On Jun 29 |
cococandy: Bars 🤣 3 Likes |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by LagosSuperStar: 6:10am On Jun 29 |
I Last I remember, as a Muslim, your faith permits you to have more than 2 wives if you chose to. There is no issue here just some meddlesome interlopers |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by 1Sharon(f): 6:22am On Jun 29 |
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Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by absoluteSuccess: 6:34am On Jun 29 |
Oga Jarus, no offense meant. But I wish to to say "what will you do with multiple wives?" I can tell you that you know its useless at the end of the day. If you have to, in this age and time I think it would be crazy to bring the two together in one place as it seems you want to do. I don't understand how Allah enjoy this but its very troublesome and hard choice for anyone. I don't blame your wife brother. You don't own a woman, especially in Yorubaland. Moreso, a woman is not a "sub-creation" as far as you never created her. Don't be so "powerful" in your home that you are at ease beating the ones you call your children, not to talk of your wife. Don't take to heart some of the trash that some strangers posts here every now and then either as "feminists" or "redpillers". Your home is a sacred-safe-place from the crazy stuffs going around in the world, you are on your own if you start "experimenting". I've lost my first child trying to play to the church and the society, I never recover from the loss. I never play to expectations again. Accept the uniqueness of your family as a unit of the larger society and make the best of it. Train your children, don't derail your home. Is the new wife coming to give you "the promised child" that none of the children you presently have can be compared with? And don't get me wrong sir, if you want polygamy it must be acceptable yo your wife, otherwise, things like this would be. in the end, religion will not solve this problem it has caused. Eventually, you will settle how she want it. You can't always get away with just everything you want in this life. Polygamy is a race to the bottom. 7 Likes |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by CHoccolaTE: 6:35am On Jun 29 |
cococandy: Imagine how selfish these men have to be for them to hate a movement that teaches women to leave terrible marriages. I keep saying it that many women are just living in denial about the true nature of males, men innately do not like women and want to keep women subjugated and oppressed but Nigerian women don't understand this. They watch their silly Telemundo series and Korean movies and also read silly romance novels and then they start assuming that men in real life are like their fairy tale men. 3 Likes |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by CHoccolaTE: 6:38am On Jun 29 |
1Sharon: cococandy:Omoh.. ![]() 👏👏👏 🙌 1 Like |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by Kingri: 6:56am On Jun 29 |
We4all: Listen to yourself |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by descarado: 7:05am On Jun 29 |
Nobody has come with the answer why a great Islamic nation Turkey made polygamy a crime? You see intelligent quotient, that's what makes great men and women then a great nation. Intelligence is knowing when to let go of some old practices that were there for a reason and served its purpose which is no longer needed. You know why I love uk despite their being our coloniser? They keep on amending their constitutions when they know it does not serve its purpose anymore. That is what development is all about. An Islamic country Tajikistan recently banned jihad. That is reformation and curbing extremism. Saudi Arabia recently did swim suit fashion show. But my dear country with its men of extremely low intelligent quotient always think about themselves. What benefits only them and how they are doing the world of favour to their children and women. I have never seen men with so much little self worth. They need to validate their actions to show they are the men. If our upbringing produced men like this day in day out, the family failed woefully. U see all the beating,screaming and shouting by parents and who should not put mouth in children's upbringing, the effect is what we witness daily in Nigeria and why Nigeria is where it is. Don't let me start with Christianity ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by jaybee3(m): 7:08am On Jun 29 |
Muslims are only allowed to marry up to 4 wives if they can afford it AND love them equally Most selfish muslims ignore the loving them equally condition because it’s almost impossible to satisfy them equally. You will almost certainly be unjust to the other three thereby committing a sin which is frowned upon by Allah There is a reason why some northern muslims prefer to divorce first before taking on another wife “Marry women of your choice, Two or three or four; but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one, or (a captive) that your right hands possess, that will be more suitable, to prevent you from doing injustice.” — Qur'an, Sura 4 (An-Nisa) |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by absoluteSuccess: 7:23am On Jun 29 |
jaybee3: What will multiple wife afford you, why is it necessary? if God have to wait till AD 500 to promulgate this into law, I mean a lot of generation of mankind have to be appeased. |
Re: Popular Nairalander Sir Jarus Admits To Domestic Violence On Twitter by absoluteSuccess: 7:31am On Jun 29 |
women are about the strongest of our kind, their vulnerability is not because they are weak somehow, no. For a woman to carry a pregnancy to term, I think she is the one who does a lot of the work of procreation, and as a family, man is to fend for and defend the house. There are crazy things we say every now and then to relegate one another, but we are equal before God originally. Yes the woman must be obedient to her husband, that is absolute. But for that to be, the husband must be a source of peace and provision for the home. Marriage is a contract, I can't ask my neighbour's wife to be obedient to me because she is a woman. Respect is not for a given, it is earned even in a marriage. If you have a wife that respects you in spite of your shortcomings, she is a kind person by nature. It doesn't mean that's the standard and don't use it as standard. Instead, be responsible and considerate with yours. 6 Likes 1 Share |
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