Enemyofpeace:
you were learning how to post a new thread and your first topic was on sex abi? Continue you hear? Na you get your borehole and na you go tire

You don't have to be vulgar and uncouth to pass your message across. But who knows! That may be all you are capable of

GreatResearcher:
We've currently put a pause to sex in my marriage.

Why??

Cutehector:
you don tey for this Nairaland o since 2011

Yeah that's why the immaturity of the new ones here irks me.

CanadaOrBust:


U have to define marriage. You can be said to be married during the duration u r having the sex.

rosalieene:

this is the dumbest comment I have read on this thread. so you mean if you sleep with 5 people, you're automatically married to them lwkmd.

World people......
with the way guys are clamouring for sex, its same guys that will insult single mums and girls that have done abortions....... and this two scenarios occur as a result of sex.

Every girl, Lady out there, be wise.... learn to say no irrespective of what they think. you're the one to suffer the repercussions of the act.

YES,if you have sex with 100 people you are technically married to them,if you like believe it or not the truth will always be bitter and "dumb".

Jewessgratitude:


The best!

Sex is not a guarantee it will work rather it will cause more pain and sorrow if the relationship doesn't work out in the end. It may also lead to rejected pregnancy. Like the case of the girl held hostage by her Ghanian boyfriend and is being tormented.

Anyone who comes my way and says he can't do without sex, to hell!!!!!!!!! Not with all the disease this " sex in a relationship " kind of people are spreading all over the place with their stupid principles.

I can't come risk my health because of one "sleep around" dog.

It's now part of relationships. It's worse if a girl who is not a virgin says she doesn't want sex. Many theories will surface.

ImaIma1:


Friendship is key for marriage.

Am.amazed ! What a reply ... Thumbs up#

ImaIma1:


You don't have to be vulgar and uncouth to pass your message across. But who knows! That may be all you are capable of

you were learning how to post a new thread and your first topic was on sex abi? Continue you hear? Na you get your borehole and na you go tire

kunleweb:


I also checked and laughed. I'm sure this was the scenario that led to your current marriage madam

Naaah.

Got married same year we started dating...not as far back as 2011.

Barristter07:


Am.amazed ! What a reply ... Thumbs up#

Lol... one of the things I am enjoying now. I guess I took my own words/advice

ImaIma1:


Lol... one of the things I am enjoying now. I guess I took my own words/advice

So u Get married to man who shared your standard, am I right ?

mathew247:

I'm not wicked dear,you girls are more wicked.

Nevertheless have you resolved the issue with lynx electronics, if No then you have to involve CBN.

The police are demanding for too much, I just have to forget about it
I only posted it for people to be aware so as not to fall victim
I pray he is caught soon

ImaIma1:

One definition could be: once two people agree to have sex they are married for the duration of the sex, regardless of what happens after the sex

pocohantas:


We are used to hearing this. Just stick to your own standard- don't use it for everyone.

Okay?

Beautiful

mathew247:
Just put rophynol on her drink when next she come,she go sleep tire & you do whatever you want to do with her body. She won't be upset.

This is exactly why Bill Cosby is currently in jail. They call it r-a-p-e

ImaIma1:
True. More babes seem 2 be able 2 cope wit it but as for men, I cnt say d same

Story... And they will be banging ur frenz or other guys.. Calling you mumu... From my own experience
It's not a bad idea but the persons involved most be faithful to themselves

Barristter07:


So u Get married to man who shared your standard, am I right ?

Let's just say I got married to a man I am happy to see everyday.

ImaIma1:


Let's just say I got married to a man I am happy to see everyday.

Beautiful . I could see the wait was worth it

sexy74:
That's not possible its one of those things that spice up a relationship.
If a lady tell you no sex until marriage she should not expect any thing from you until marriage too.

Most times she might be double dating on you..

pocohantas:
Excellent.

Any man that can keep himself till marriage is a wonder of the world. I will cross seven seas for him...

As in! Such self control is commendable and hard to find in men these days

bashtee09:
Post of 2011 now making front page


Nairaland is now turning a joke


Even the OP of this thread might have forgotten their is a site named nairaland

Nope.

Still here. Seun needs to give me a gold star.

sharone21:

Sure.....but come to think of it, seriously what do average Nigerian men give to ladies to warrant the sex they so crave for( even without giving her anything) before marriage?

Good question, most provide for the girls one way or the other , most women are not ready to bring anything since sex cost them nothing they freely give for material things they can’t get.

Balenciagabrain:
Lol.
You can still build better life for yourself n loved ones if u have sex with ur partner. But for friendship, sex can cause a lot of distractions.

Smiles, if you say so

Annie001:

The police are demanding for too much, I just have to forget about it
I only posted it for people to be aware so as not to fall victim
I pray he is caught soon

There's a way they use to do it,so you need to Google about it, send an email about the transaction with the peoples details then to CBN and tag both the CBN and your bank on the same email. It'll be returned. I'll get back to you if I see it again.

nextstep:
Old thread, but still useful to reply anyways, so let me add my two cents.

For men, a relationship without physical (body) intimacy is not fulfilling; likewise a relationship without psychological (mind) intimacy is not fulfilling to women. Both are valuable, but generally men would be OK without mental commitment, and women would be OK without physical commitment, at least initially.

I'm paraphrasing from maniac_high (don't ask me how I know him) who once wrote this gem about "diamonds and gold" that I've always appreciated:



So in conclusion, my summary is that physical and psychological intimacy are both needed and complement each other, for that's what makes relationships strong. Denying the validity of either is not going to undo millions of years of evolution that require these two complementary aspects to a relationship: you can't make babies if you're not physically intimate, and you can't raise that baby to maturity unless you're mentally committed to each other*

*of course in today's world, a woman can raise a child without the father, but in aeons past, she was setting herself up for disaster if she got pregnant without a committed mate to go and hunt that nutritious antelope or kill that dangerous tiger.

did he write a book... Can i get... I love the illustration

empress101:
So,how will you know she is a Virgin

I be yeye person oooo seen is believing or waitn i wan talk na i go try am first to see what do i know self?

Some girls will tell you no sex but she's having sex with her neighbor or her boss or her ex or her colleague.
Imagine someone that told me no sex one year later got pregnant for another guy.

195:
OP

Whats your stake on buying a car without fuel/gas in it to move it around

That means it's a loss

Yigiyaga:
Nonsense!

The truth is always nonsense to the unwise!

emddi:
sex and marriage are not different things.Forget that public show called "wedding ceremony",the real wedding is through sexual intercourse.
sex and marriage are not different,if you don't know you don't know.

The sexual intercourse should happen after being official joined as man and wife..

therajah:

The truth is always nonsense to the unwise!

wise one indeed.

Adaeze003:
people now see love as sex. What a pity!!!!

As if you are not part of those people