Understanding the Difficulty


When you are in love with a person with whom you have never been involved, it is easy to daydream about a perfect relationship—castles in the sky. The truth is that most of these castles crumble into nothing because things may not go according to your expectations. It can be very painful to understand this. Stopping contact and taking care of one’s self is very important during this process of healing. Have supportive friends and family around you and move on from what could have been to what can be.


Unrequited Love Unpacked
Unrequited love can be observed in the following ways :


Wishful Thinking: One keeps fantasizing about the future and hence desires a turn of events to be with that person.
Overanalysis : Sifting through every conversation or act for hidden meanings or signs of interest.


Infatuation – The possessive attitude towards people, pre-occupation with impressing the significant other and visions of life being spent in their company alone are indicative of infatuation.


One-way: More caring about the person than they do for you and going out of the way to impress them.


Comparisons: Comparing one’s self to them in their life, seeking understanding into what they want.
Understanding and Dealing with Unrequited Love


It might come as news that in many instances, it’s actually hard to get over a person whom you have never dated. Breaking up with a significant other has its problems, but unrequited love definitely has its own set of emotional challenges. That can be anything from an unfulfilled crush to an uncontrollable attraction—nothing is doing right, and you get caught in a maelstrom of feelings and unanswered questions.

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