This is not just in a relationship as it happens to marriage also. We think we are through with our partner, however, we just started falling deeply in the love.

This is for those that feels they are the victim of the breakup and the decision maker of the divorce process.

Here are some signs you are still deep in love with your ex and you will be more than happy if the come back:

1. You never want to erase the memory

Once in a while the memory of things you do come back playing in your head. Instead of getting them off you begin to really make it linger more than expected which makes the feelings come back to you and you start wishing it never ended.

2. You do things you usually do together

There are some things we do in relationship that serves as things we remember when we have gone our separate destinations till the next time you meet.

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Also in marriage, there are some activities you do with your partner that you are used to and when you have divorced, you start picking some of them to keep the void without trying to fight them off.

This is a big sign you still want your ex.

3. You always want to hear from them

It is so easy to contact each others now-a-days with the advent of social media.

The moment you keep dragging with your head to say hi or to hear from your ex intermittently, you really want that ex back because on a normal day when you separate from your ex you rarely want to contact them as you will not want them to know much about you.

4. You keep tab on their social profile

Like i said earlier, social media has made things much easier unlike before its existence.

The moment you start searching and toiling their profile on their social networks to know what they are up to, where they have being or where they are planning to be, it means you still care for them and you want him/her back desperately.

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5. You mention about them to friends simultaneously

You think you really want them to go but you cannot do without mentioning about them in discussions with friend or those around.

This is to show that it was tough for you to have made that decision to path ways.

When you say you don't want someone you once loved it means everything associated with that person has become ex, hence, your memory should reset to delete major things about them because love is powerful that the effect of sin by the one you claim to love is severe hatred.

This is why I think we need to think deeply before we make some huge decisions as some decisions may not be reversed as the shame that will be attached alone will not allow you even if you want to.

It is good to have calmed down before making decisions that can be detrimental to one's existence, love forgives you know. But don't think of forgiveness when it is about physical, emotional or mental abuse.

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