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A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by iLegendd(m): 5:23pm On Oct 08
A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity

Here is why a man remains a woman's slave for eternity.

1. A woman will use you sexually when you're broke.

How does she use you sexually? You're the one doing 80% of the work (body movements) to prove you're worthy of her staying. No Woman can stay with a poor man who's bad in bed or has a small pleasuring tool.

This means the man is responsible for 80% or more of the pleasure-giving, which is both physically and mentally exhausting. But because he's financially disadvantaged, he has no choice but to do it, or else she'l leave.

If you're skeptical, try lying still like a log in bed and wait for her to do the work every single time and see how quickly she leaves you for another man while branding you as a lazy man.

2. When you become successful, she will still exploit you sexually-this time, also financially.

Even with all these, she might deceive you into raising another man's child without your knowledge. If you catch her, she will twist the narrative, claiming it's your fault for reducing your sexual efforts from 80% to 50%, which, according to her, forced her to cheat.

If you choose to leave her for her infidelity, whether it happened years ago when you were broke (and she thought you didn't know) or recently after you became successful, or due to her newly developed toxic behavior, she will manipulate the situation by guilt-tripping you.

She will tell the world how she "built" you, how she was there when you had nothing, and now, after you've made it, you want to abandon her.

She conveniently forgets that men
seldom forgive infidelity, regardless of their financial status, unless they are SIMPs.

3. Once she has your child, she
will shower more love and affection on the child than on you, the slave she used to secure her offspring.

If she doesn't have a child by age 40, the society will label her a failure or an irresponsible woman. To avoid this shame, she uses you, her slave, to achieve her goal of motherhood.

Whenever a woman visits you, you are expected to cover her transport, all the meals she consumes during her stay, the TV subscription, data, pad, should her period come, contraception, etc. and still expend 80% of the energy in the bedroom to arouse and satisfy her.

If you fail to do so, she'll tell her friends you're inadequate in bed, unromantic and nonchalant. Does this not make the man a slave?

Perhaps we should call him a provider. She's only with him because of what he can provide: great sex, money, romance, sperm for a child, security, etc.

Oyibo people worsened the men's slavery to women by weakening the men even more by telling them to go on their knees to appease their master "women" when it's time to propose for marriage.

Something a man will be the one to sacrifice 98% of this wealth and strength, yet his still going on his knees begging for it — total slavery for the man.

Real ancient African men don't do this, but we've all been westernised and it's hard to escape the matrix.

4. When children arrive, the little attention she previously gave you, her slave, diminishes even further or disappears totally.

As the children grow, they'lIl devote 80% of their affection and love to her, constantly wishing her a happy Mother's Day, while you might be acknowledged once or twice a year, if at all.

If they ever decide to buy a house or car for their parents, they will prioritize her, and may not even consider you.

Yet, you were the one who shouldered 95% of the expenses from conception to birth, feeding, education, clothing, maintaining the household, killing rodents and confronting intruders.

You are likely the one who owns or rented the expensive home they grew up in.

5. In most cases, you, the slave,
will die first, leaving her and the children to enjoy the fruits of your labor.

Your only legacy as a man is your "surname." She and the children will carry it forward, but nothing more.

Understanding that you are simply a slave, a tool women use to fulfill their desires for pleasure and offspring (while making it look like you're the one who needs it), you should never settle for a low-quality woman.

Since you're already a slave to women, choose wisely and never tolerate disrespect or infidelity from her.

It is far better to be a slave to a good woman than to a cheating, condescending, nagging, arrogant, unapologetic, unloving, treacherous woman or deluded feminist who preaches equality, but will still treat you like a slave as always.

6. She can destroy you at her
discretion.

If she chooses to ruin your life, she can do so within seconds by accusing you of rape if you're unmarried to her yet, or by falsely claiming domestic violence.

She might even hurt herself to create evidence of abuse, then record a tearful video and call the authorities to come to her "rescue" from a monster.

Worse, she could accuse you of molesting or raping your own child, and the world will believe her without question. If she slaps you, it's seen as affection; if you retaliate, it's viewed as violence.

With all these considerations and more I didn't say, a man is indeed a woman's slave, a woman's toy and the only way to escape this fate is if he is gay. But, it's better to be her slave, the alpha male version, than gay.

At least, even though she's using you, you'll find a way to use her back by making sure she can cook, she's respectful, faithful, she can wash your clothes...

She can handle a business, she can raise a good home, she can defend you in your absence, she can also learn to satisfy you in bed, she can dress hot and sexy so that you don't look outside, she can bring peace into the house, she's presentable, etc.

As she's using you, be in charge of how she uses you and set a boundary of the usage.

A woman can guy a guy, but she can't guy a guy-yoyo.

Bro to bro.
Legend to legendary.

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Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by Damian911: 5:46pm On Oct 08
Toh I learned another thing from my virtual boss today.
But why people make it seems not being in a relationship at 21 is a curse or not having sex as a terrible omen undecided
Well I don't follow others and I don't have horde mentality. I do things when I feel like or when I'm ready.

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Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by Adasun(m): 5:47pm On Oct 08
core truth

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Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by illicit(m): 5:49pm On Oct 08
Wow
Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by Lurdd: 7:23pm On Oct 08
I've not read something as truthful as this before, this dropped my jaw and made me think hard, truly women are terrible people

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Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by Talkisneeded: 7:39pm On Oct 08
Nothing new,but I've learnt never to deprive myself just to please a woman..
Before you eat 5 out of my money,I must have eaten 22...



I sell herbs tho

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Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by iLegendd(m): 8:16pm On Oct 08
Lurdd:
I've not read something as truthful as this before, this dropped my jaw and made me think hard, truly women are terrible people
They are, but they have a way of making you feel it's your fault.

Even if she doesn't know you, the moment she likes you and you refuse to approach her, she's already abusing you in her mind and cussing you for not being man enough.

She doesn't care if the feeling is mutual. All she knows is, you're a fool and a loser filled with pride for not approaching her, a girl every man wants.

Despite saying all these in her mind, she might still reject you to make herself feel better and manipulate you into chasing or thinking she's classy. If you refuse to SIMP or chase, she'll say men have become too weak for her and she prefers a bear over a man. cheesy

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Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by LIVINGICONREBOR: 9:08pm On Oct 08
I feel like giving you my right bicep but nah him I dey use kpokpo stupid folks. This is the truth as real as it can get.👌

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Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by abba190: 9:21pm On Oct 08
iLegendd:
A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity

cut the long story short and tell us the name of the new book u wrote about lasting long in bed.
if you like last long and dont cum till eternity she will steal cheat, if your dick is bigger than iroko tree she will want to taste a small dick.

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Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by iLegendd(m): 9:36pm On Oct 08
LIVINGICONREBOR:
I feel like giving you my right bicep but nah him I dey use kpokpo stupid folks. This is the truth as real as it can get.👌
Lol

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Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by maestro299: 4:22am On Oct 09
A woman once told me, " Men are stupid. They go out and work like donkeys to get money. What then do they spend that money on? Waste it on women."

I thought she was just being snarky until I sat down and reasoned through her words. It was true. At least, a good 99% of our efforts and struggles to improve our finances and make money is to implicitly or explicitly impress a woman. Whether it's our wives, girlfriends, mother's, those random chicks, that prospective romantic interest, we labor to get money to get those luxuries, comforts and 'accessories' that entice ladies.

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Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by luminouz(m): 5:16am On Oct 09
maestro299:
A woman once told me, " Men are stupid. They go out and work like donkeys to get money. What then do they spend that money on? Waste it on women."

I thought she was just being snarky until I sat down and reasoned through her words. It was true. At least, a good 99% of our efforts and struggles to improve our finances and make money is to implicitly or explicitly impress a woman. Whether it's our wives, girlfriends, mother's, those random chicks, that prospective romantic interest, we labor to get money to get those luxuries, comforts and 'accessories' that entice ladies.
Not all men. I can proudly tell you no woman has ever been wooed with money but me. I don't work for them, but ME

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Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by DeeScan: 5:42am On Oct 09
Talkisneeded:
Nothing new,but I've learnt never to deprive myself just to please a woman..
Before you eat 5 out of my money,I must have eaten 22...



I sell herbs tho
22 of her own money or yours
Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by DeeScan: 5:46am On Oct 09
maestro299:
A woman once told me, " Men are stupid. They go out and work like donkeys to get money. What then do they spend that money on? Waste it on women."

I thought she was just being snarky until I sat down and reasoned through her words. It was true. At least, a good 99% of our efforts and struggles to improve our finances and make money is to implicitly or explicitly impress a woman. Whether it's our wives, girlfriends, mother's, those random chicks, that prospective romantic interest, we labor to get money to get those luxuries, comforts and 'accessories' that entice ladies.
I have resetted my mentality since I learnt about this which was when I was a teenager. Now I make money for me and me only ... Maybe my mom is the exception cause she basically hustled to splurge her money on me..

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Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by Talkisneeded: 9:52am On Oct 09
DeeScan:
22 of her own money or yours
My own money
Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by LordIsaac(m): 10:19am On Oct 09
iLegendd:
A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity

Adapted from "The Manipulated Man" and "The Polygamous Sex," both by Esther Vilar. grin

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Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by verdade00: 10:37am On Oct 09
This is for idiots and fools that don't believe in God.
Because if you do, you won't be posting this nonsense. Think of what to do with your time.

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Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by iLegendd(m): 12:38pm On Oct 09
LordIsaac:

Adapted from "The Manipulated Man" and "The Polygamous Sex," both by Esther Vilar. grin
Never read the book, but heard about it. So, it'll be bad giving the glory of my personal observation to a white man, whose book I haven't read.

Modified: A lot of things were invented by black men in the olden days, but white people took the glory because they refused to allow us have patents in those days.

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Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by iLegendd(m): 12:40pm On Oct 09
verdade00:
This is for idiots and fools that don't believe in God.
Because if you do, you won't be posting this nonsense. Think of what to do with your time.
If you believe in God, you won't call anyone an idiot. Your words would be guided.

It's either you lack food at home or money to buy food and it's affecting you mentally and you decided to pour your anger and frustration on us instead of the government. You never see anything. It gets worse. grin

Your account is even new, registered last month. So, comment with your main account. You're facing hunger and instead of getting busy with your life, you're getting busy with multiple accounts. This is the same person telling us to think of what to do with our lives. cheesy What an irony.

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Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by LordIsaac(m): 1:15pm On Oct 09
iLegendd:
Never read the book, but heard about it. So, it'll be bad giving the glory of my personal observation to a white man, whose book I haven't read.
Good job then. It's a White woman.
Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by Starz825(m): 1:19pm On Oct 09
Lurdd:
I've not read something as truthful as this before, this dropped my jaw and made me think hard, truly women are terrible people

Women aren't terrible...they just can be 2-faced, sometimes

It's just the nature of life....Men na head..so he does most of the hard work for his woman and children.

Meanwhile, Good women are empathetic ,supportive and kind towards their man. They do not forget the good you do.

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Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by iLegendd(m): 1:35pm On Oct 09
Starz825:


Women aren't terrible...they just can be 2-faced, sometimes

It's just the nature of life....Men na head..so he does most of the hard work for his woman and children.

Meanwhile, Good women are empathetic ,supportive and kind towards their man. They do not forget the good you do.

Politicians are 2-faced and based on what you said, being 2-faced isn't terrible when it involves women, but it's terrible when it involves a politician, right?

Buhari said he'll kill Boko Haram within 100 days in office, but when he joined, he knew all the people that sponsor Boko Haram and he dined with them without doing anything. Isn't this terrible? Oh, if he was a woman, it wouldn't be considered terrible.

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Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by verdade00: 2:47pm On Oct 09
Lol rich people don't make noise .Even if my account is new its none of your business . Send your account let me send you 100k cause am not as poor as you . Test and see that am bigger than you

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Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by iLegendd(m): 3:03pm On Oct 09
verdade00:
Lol rich people don't make noise .Even if my account is new its none of your business . Send your account let me send you 100k cause am not as poor as you . Test and see that am bigger than you
Wow! I have finally made it. Crypto or bank account?

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Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by CaveAdullam: 3:54pm On Oct 09
If the human species just lived like animals in the wild concerning their mating strategies, there wouldn't be much back and forth concerning marriage, sex, and reproduction.

But that's impossible. Why? Human intelligence.

The basics of sex and reproduction are for the male and female to pass their genes and stay eternally in the genetic pool. Other things are just icing. Of course, both have their sexual mechanism in making that biological imperative possible.

Logically, long-term marriage or relationship is detrimental to men. In order not to make it seem like a wrong investment, the raising of a strong family legacy to pass his genes becomes an expedient factor that a man puts into thought.

If he should think outside that family legacy box, he wouldn't ever move an inch to give a woman his commitment. Because he can get all that he desires in marriage outside marriage, except for a solid family structure. If it's the woman per se, she's always replaceable as per the counting of minutes and hours.

Marriage and relationships are important and sought-after phases for women. Because it guarantees their safety, it doesn't matter if they are useful or useless. If a woman can hoodwink a man, she has won a jackpot. This is not the same for the man.

A woman is a man's burden.
A Man is a woman's joy.

That's why women who want an equal playing field with men will lose. Feminists are a bunch of overfed, ungrateful idiots.

If there's an ideal leveled ground for males and females, women will always lose every day. Because nature is in favor of men more than women in terms of strength and adventure - these are qualities that make men rank on top always and forever.

A man should be more focused on his ambitions and family structure. And not for the woman. Otherwise, he would end up disappointed. He must only be committed to a woman who is capable of being a genuine companion.

So, it's not slavery if he desires a solid family legacy that will elongate through time and generation. That's how the game goes.

It's just like the prerequisites in other domains that necessitate success.

Whether in marriage or outside marriage, the man remains a king. He is not a slave. His dominance and performance make him reign. That's the way Kings prove themselves.

Thanks.

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Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by verdade00: 4:10pm On Oct 09
your bank Account
Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by iLegendd(m): 4:14pm On Oct 09
verdade00:
your bank Account
There you have it.

I have made a post of 1 of 4 things you'll do after sending the account detail. See screenshot below.

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Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by emmanuel0112: 4:20pm On Oct 09
CaveAdullam:
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Await ur response
Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by CaveAdullam: 4:36pm On Oct 09
emmanuel0112:

Await ur response

Modified.

Check again.
Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by pryme(m): 4:56pm On Oct 09
Nothing beats A GOOD PERSON,
Whether you are a Man or Woman.

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Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by Reggaero(m): 5:10pm On Oct 09
iLegendd:
There you have it.

I have made a post of 1 of 4 things you'll do after sending the account detail. See screenshot below.
boss abeg i fit see 1k for your hand,everywhere dry for this place, am really hungry, abeg help a brother sad
Re: A Man Is a Woman's Slave Till Eternity by iLegendd(m): 5:16pm On Oct 09
CaveAdullam:
...

A man, in the grand scheme of relational dynamics, functions as a woman's servant, though due to our egocentric inclinations and inherent thirst for dominance, we staunchly refuse to acknowledge it.

Even I, the very one penning these thoughts, would vehemently reject being labeled a woman's subordinate, as the primal "alpha" within finds such an assertion deeply demeaning. Yet, in the recesses of our consciousness, we know this sentiment holds truth.

In the next two years, neglect your intimate prowess or fail to toil relentlessly to provide sustenance, and observe how your supposed "master," woman, reacts.

Note: They are not, in the strictest sense, our masters, as they do not explicitly issue commands. We assign ourselves these roles, laden with obligations, in a relentless effort to affirm our masculinity and prove we are sufficiently "man enough." However, the moment emotions or relationships are involved, they become our true overseers.

Though I am deeply unsettled by this reality, I relish the image of myself as the master, the rightful leader of my household. Yet, the continuous striving to validate my worthiness of this leadership only binds me in servitude, even if I refuse to be identified as such.

I'm not disputing you sha, but I'm only unequivocally being honest.

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