Most men use money/wealth to attract or get a woman's attention without realizing that same set of women, have in the past dated someone with less, little or nothing.
Some of these women are wise to collect from them, and then pass it over to that guy who has little or nothing.
The truth is that if you attract a woman with wealth and material possession, you may need to sustain her and the relationship with that same picture of what you showed her in the first place else, there is a problem.
Ordinarily, on a scale of 1 to 10 women, you will attract 2 to 3 women by just being yourself and being you; but because you have used material possession, you may attract even 7 yet, you won't be fulfilled because all they want is the picture you have played and shown to them from the beginning.
What am i trying to say?
Be yourself
Don't try to convince a woman into starting a relationship with you by floanting your wealth to gain attention.
Not every woman is carried away by that.
A woman who knows what she wants, knows that wealth or money in a relationship is good, but shouldn't be the standard.
The standard would be Are you a committed person?
Do you keep to your words?
Are you God fearing and do you respect her?
Every other thing is important but secondary.
I'll end with a short story of a medical student who invited a lady he was interested in to his place on campus and in the process of entertaining her with Bole and fish (Roasted Plantain and fish meal) oil from the meal splashed and poured on her beautifully well ironed gown.
He took her out, did some expensive shopping worth over half a million Naira but that relationship never lasted why?
He was arrogant and full of pride, was always insecure especially;
Checks her phone on interval to find out if she's cheating etc... All that didn't go well with the young lady before she called off the relationship.
So here, money or wealth meant nothing to her but her peace.
You can use wealth to attract a woman,but in the long run, wealth or money won't be what would sustain that relationship.

Pastor Kosi Ebirim is the Lead Pastor of The Maker's House International Abuja. He is the founder of My Set time for Marriage with Pk; a singles and Married Ministry.
For counseling, call 07012004217

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Nothing else attracts a Nigerian woman into relationship with a man than money...a lot of it!

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Nothing else attracts a Nigerian woman into relationship with a man than money...a lot of it!