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What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by badboyTee(m): 7:55am On Oct 23 |
So I apparently stay with my uncle at his flat he's not the type that really stays at home that much cause of his work which I also go to my work every 2weeks cause of my job nature also I stay home for 2 weeks and I work for 2 weeks. I'm the type of person that once there is electricity and I have my phone with me I mostly stay indoors. Anytime am outdoor to go somewhere and I see a neighbor I mostly made sure I greet everyone and relate in a good manner with them. I have this young and fine face so most people don't believe am really that old. The way the house is built it like a face me face you but all rooms are built in a room and parlour way with kitchen in them and two toilet at the backyard (Meaning it only the toilet that binds us together). There's are two apartment on each wing, the house has two wing. On this fateful day I was indoor cause once am indoor most people don't even know am inside cause I hate noise and being lousy. There's this woman which my uncle mostly relates with cause she's still the oldest among the other neighbors after him I so much respect this woman since have been here. A disagreement occured between my uncle and this woman which my uncle explained to me that the woman just all of a sudden made accusation against him to the landlord behind his back that he broke a pipe which it wasn't him. Later on it was discovered that it was the landlord's son that broke the pipe. My uncle told me how amazed he was that the woman could have done that rubbish to him behind his back. Take note this same woman is a single mom and most times comes to beg for funds in my presence from my uncle which if he has he mostly gives her. Before all that, if am going to work I drop the key with this same woman. My uncle then discovered that each time I drop the key with the woman items mostly go missing in his apartment then he told me to stop dropping the key with her again he let that one slide and didn't confront her. Day before yesterday while I was indoor this woman was literally belittling my uncle to a very young girl that lives with her BF in the compound saying all manner of Ill things; that he his single and dating multiple women and bringing them home in my mind am like how does that concerns this woman, (My uncle has been married before since his wife was late he decided not to remarry since his kids are grown enough).They didn't even stop there the same girl which am sure shouldn't be older than 20years was also saying Ill things about me also that I don't sweep the toilet floor I repeat clothing 🤣 that she can never repeat clothing, she can never date me all in my mind was like when have I ever asked this girl out? Or even think of having her contact me and this girl don't even talk except good morning what could be the reason for all this then I noticed it was the woman pushing the agenda. The woman also saying my uncle doesn't have taste blah blah blah that she also can never date him. I wanted to go out while they were talking and give them a piece of my mind and show them I ain't cool for nothing but I let it slide. I haven't even told my uncle yet about the fracade and I don't feel like telling him.I want to treat this women Bleep up myself what the best option to treat her Bleep up, P.s this same woman has sent her child to knock my door this early morning to borrow gas. 7 Likes |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by illicit(m): 8:06am On Oct 23 |
Don't say anything Just walk out and let them see u, now or another time Never bring the issue up with anyone of them at anytime Just don't share food with them. Women gossip a lot it still doesn't mean they don't or can't like u Try dey change wears too 👍 29 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by themainman600(m): 8:07am On Oct 23 |
Make it known with your character you already know the shot they discuss 2 Likes |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by Anijay1212(m): 8:12am On Oct 23 |
Keep ignoring them and i assure you it will pain them more. That's how to show them your class and good breeding. 7 Likes |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by SamuraiXXX: 8:32am On Oct 23 |
Next time there's woman starts talking shit about you and your uncle make sure you confront her 3 Likes |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by Down2earth101: 8:51am On Oct 23 |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by Blackmoran(m): 9:38am On Oct 23 |
My childhood, I grew up in a face me and face you house. Then growing up it was fun and sometimes it can be toxic,. One of the disadvantages is that you hardly have privacy, Neighbors compete on frivolous things that doesn't make sense, such as who have the loudest home theater, who send there kids to the most expensive school. Who Cook the best pot of soup. Etc . But it was fun though the advantages out weigh the disadvantages . Which is you can never get bored in a face me and face you environment. And 80percent of the time you need help, you will get it... In retrospect I can't go back staying in that kind of environment... Because am a very private person, my personality has changed from that adventures upbringing... Where am staying now if you are been robbed or in danger no body will send you.... Every body they mind there business. . That's the only thing I miss about me growing up.. 8 Likes |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by Uchenna10(m): 9:44am On Oct 23 |
illicit: Ur last sentence sef....be like people never gossip u or lie against u b4. 4 Likes |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by Uchenna10(m): 9:46am On Oct 23 |
That's how it is in my street sha,one particular woman spreading false rumors about me.... anytime I confront her, she'd deny it, telling people that im mad....and people in the neighborhood supports her...na to just vacate from here de my mind. 6 Likes |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by badboyTee(m): 9:54am On Oct 23 |
Uchenna10:thank you bro, the funny thing is since am mostly indoor I do repeat clothes like two or three times if am going out of course I change wears it just funny how the idiots are saying shit that doesn't concern them 5 Likes |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by Meteng: 9:55am On Oct 23 |
Just find way knack the two of them. Dem go dey fight amongst themselves 8 Likes |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by illicit(m): 10:03am On Oct 23 |
Uchenna10: Gossip is not necessarily false |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by Sammy101111(m): 10:22am On Oct 23 |
Na woman thing If a woman telling you 100 %word I doubt if 30% of her word is real 2 Likes |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by Sucre6: 10:29am On Oct 23 |
illicit: You be real G, if I was the one, will walk out and don't talk to them, go outside the gate and come back In just to let them know I heard all the rubbish they saying, shame go too catch them. 😂😂 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by ObalendeCMS: 10:36am On Oct 23 |
Nigerian women are so useless! Why minding them? 2 Likes |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by DiskJokeyManic: 11:04am On Oct 23 |
Mm |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by badboyTee(m): 11:07am On Oct 23 |
Sucre6:🤣🤣 2 Likes |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by Rexymania(m): 11:29am On Oct 23 |
badboyTee: 🤣🤣🦠🤣 Na poor people dey gossip pass 2 Likes |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by JONSYN7154: 11:56am On Oct 23 |
I have one woman from Anambra state doing the gossip in my compound 6 units of 2 bedroom flats. The woman and gossip are like beans and rice. Everybody in the compound have quarrelled with her. The entire compound have abandoned her. If you see her she's a ghost 👻 to herself. 3 Likes |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by Uchenna10(m): 1:21pm On Oct 23 |
illicit: You're a gossiper. |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by Verydarkhearted: 2:07pm On Oct 23 |
Nah familiarity cause this one.. if your uncle didn’t go close to that woman and even give her access to his flat all this wouldn’t happen.. that’s why I only greet my neighbors and pass I don’t talk to them or want to have anything to do with them. I live my private life and I love it. So any day I hear you taking shiit about me I burst out and give you a run for your money.. las las nah for police we go settle am come back house.. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by Uchenna10(m): 2:36pm On Oct 23 |
badboyTee: Na so all these local areas de be ...most times they spread false rumors. 5 Likes |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by purples25(f): 2:58pm On Oct 23 |
Uchenna10: If you live in a local neighborhood you will regret your life because they can not mind their business, they gossip and are highly competitive. They are fetish too and wicked and they want to destroy anyone who has a hint of difference in their neighborhood. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by Uchenna10(m): 3:22pm On Oct 23 |
purples25: You're talking from experience bro....they don't mind their business,and they're not better off ... their life is even worse,most of them can't afford 2 square meal...but yet they know how tk talk. 6 Likes |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by josh123(m): 3:33pm On Oct 23 |
Same thing with me, I work indoors and they gossip around that I behave like a woman because I don't go out and I don't entertain many friends like a normal guy would do.... The other day I heard one of the women gossiping about me that I carry women alot the other day I heard the same woman gossiping that I am gay. I just laugh 🤣 pass. Just ignore them and don't lend any of your properties or money to them. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by Slydan204: 3:50pm On Oct 23 |
Say nothing bro. I hv heard my neighbors' wives saying shit about me and others around. I said nothing and would continue to say nothing. Just changed attitude towards them because I know am better than they are hence their cho cho cho. Silence is golden 5 Likes |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by Baronthecelebri: 4:03pm On Oct 23 |
Why not report the matter to your uncle, if you see something say something. Foolish man |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by OlaDavid2012: 4:15pm On Oct 23 |
Meteng: 1 Like |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by badboyTee(m): 4:16pm On Oct 23 |
Baronthecelebri:Don't call me foolish respect yourself 3 Likes |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by 2RightHands1Coc(m): 4:30pm On Oct 23 |
So so true. The hint of difference,they will beef u cha purples25: 3 Likes |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by purples25(f): 5:24pm On Oct 23 |
2RightHands1Coc: Moved in two years ago or so. My first time of living in a neighborhood like that. Me and hubby trying to sit tight until things got better. I came in right after having my baby and looked like shit with my natural hair. I relaxed the hair next month and it was very long. I also lost weight and started dressing nice. They weren't laughing anymore. I spoke good English. They looked depressed and intimidated. All the girlfriends of drunks in the area, all the market women wearing wrappers around and some even refused to greet me, that is they refused to respond to my greetings. My first few days there I was passing with my baby and attempted to greet a guy, he muttered that I should dey my dey while he dey on his own, with so much malice and contempt. I made hair after hair. I used a baby carrier, I never really backed my baby. First day I did that, a drunk passed us and set his red eyes on my baby with such a glare that I was wondering what the little child did to him, is it his fault that his mom got something different to carry him with? My child was fair and cute at that point. People said I was fine and my baby was fine, some kids said when they grow up they want to have my style, some people came up to me and praised me. I didn't know the fire I was lighting up under my own ass ... I saw a lot of things from those people. I was mocked, they sent their kids to ridicule me in the market, their kids on their own started insulting me and my child. Once I couldn't make that hair again it was a great victory for them, the boys from the betting shop close by will actually call their friends to where i am, point at me and laugh. They observed me very closely and mocked me anytime I wasn't able to keep to the former standard of nice dressing and hair, and dressing up my kid. They started loudly complaining that I never allow my child to walk even if he was just a year plus and walked well at home. Some people will even come up to me and tell me to allow the boy to walk. Someone directly told me it's because I use a baby carrier and not what Is common to the neighborhood, which is backing babies with wrapper. When that mockery with intensity set up on making me an object of ridicule started, even aboki join in o. When the kids were following me with songs and the women and drunks in the area that I never greet were sated, aboki sef start to dey feel important, they will pass and look me up and down slowly, they would laugh. I had ignited so much hatred by suddenly moving in looking nice and being different with my baby. A woman dropped a fetish substance of boiled eggs and God knows what at my door to scare me or anything else. A line of women sat in the narrow path we cross every day observing me and my son. They didn't stop observing until when after things got bad, my son turned dark in complexion then they stopped their close up mockery and left in smiles. I cut my long hair to get them off, if that was the thing that made them angry. They didn't stop, they mocked me more. They started saying I looked like a man, some people will loudly comment to my face when their friends point me out. The stupid drunks in the area felt important, the cowards now felt confident that they now swerve when I pass, idiots. Who should be swerving for who. The same drinks that start playing abusive music about cheating wives and saying all sorts of things to make themselves feel ok because I don't greet them, they said I'm old, they said I've given birth, they said I used to sleep with senators and later they said na me go dey look for senators. I started speaking pidgin because of the hostility and angry claims that I'm just a poor person who was forming, but that changed nothing. I can't say all but it really affected me, I went down to feeling like nothing. Leaving for a while never stopped them , when I came back they resumed mockery and monitoring. I left again and now it seems they are sated because they have ridiculed me to a point when they can now take their eyes off me and afford not to care. I now don't dare to do any hair style that the old women in the neighborhood don't do again, nothing flashy. I don't have that self esteem again, I became hard towards my son, I frown whenever I'm out because I wake up every day remembering my 'downfall' in the neighborhood. I don't know if I will regain my former softness or self esteem, right now I'm like whatever. Sometimes I hit my kid In public, I found myself acting just like those women tying wrapper, those old unfashionable women with hairstyles that make them look even older. I decided today that I'll try and mend my relationship with my son because he no longer looks sad when I hit him, he just got home today and started smashing his most loved toy on the wall. That's anger issues starting because of me, so I'll try to heal and fix things with him. There are many animalistic people and most, not all, people in the hood are of that type. They can't see you shine and not make you miserable. I'm glad we may be moving out soon. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Can I Do To This Gossiping Neighbor? by Kaido: 5:50pm On Oct 23 |
Where I live currently, I never knew that the landlord, his wife & children were gossiping about me. When a good Samaritan leaked the info to me, I was so happy. I had to withdraw the greetings, upgraded my lifestyle a little just to hurt em haters. I noticed they don't come around to ask for little favours. It is good to stay on wicked mode, when living in any hood. Mou'fvckers in the hood also castigate and hate me. Found out the hate spread from where I lived. Their females want me to fvxk em but unfortunately I don't do hoodrats. Niggaz be hating, hissing whenever they see me. They hate me cuz I am what they ain't. I have never looked down while walking...my head is always up, as I walked like a gangsta from Compton. Nigga, you don't have to do shit. Just ignore em and live your life. 10 Likes 1 Share |
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