"I love you" is easy to say. But will they choose you when it’s hard?

Four years ago a guy sent me a message and requested to book a session with me. During my session with him, he shared how he had been together with his wife for five years before they got married. Their love was strong, the chemistry undeniable. But after their wedding, reality hit.

The late-night calls turned into short, distracted conversations.
The long, heartfelt messages became dry "Hope your day is fine" texts.
The effort that once came naturally started feeling like an obligation.

One day, he asked her wife, "Do you still love me the way you used to?"

She looked up, confused. "Of course! We’re married now. You already know I love you."

But here’s the truth: Love isn’t something you say once and expect it to last forever. It’s a choice you make daily.

Marriage isn’t just about the wedding day. It’s about the days when:

✅ You’re both stressed, and choosing patience feels impossible.
✅ They annoy you, and choosing kindness takes extra effort.
✅ Life gets busy, but you still make time for each other.

Choosing someone daily means:

💙 Prioritizing them, even when work, kids, and responsibilities pile up.
💙 Keeping the romance alive, even when routine threatens to kill the spark.
💙 Communicating, listening, and growing together—every single day.
💙 Resisting the temptation to cheat on the one you have vowed will be only one for you.

So, don’t just marry for love. Marry someone who will choose you over and over again.

Hope you got value

Now, let’s talk! What does ‘choosing your partner daily’ look like to you?

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He be like marriage is the only thing we know in this country

Wow.. very insightful..

Someone who chooses you EVERYDAY?

That's a DOG!
Get a dog.

Lol true words

My dog’s love for me is constant, all day everyday.

Namaster:
Someone who chooses you EVERYDAY?

That's a DOG!
Get a dog.

@ Op

Shey you know that love dies off?

A girl that is madly into you may start loosing feelings in future