She is not in the marriage and am out

NothingDoMe:
No. Nigeria is not America.

There are several precedents.

Kobojunkie:
Which courts?

The Courts of Law.

SmartyPants:
✓ The Courts of Law.

The courts of what laws?

Nawa oo

SmartyPants:


There are several precedents.

Most cases required the woman, for example, to show proof that she financially contributed to the properties.

Nigeria is not America where the woman gets compensated for years of homemaking.

Samantha125:
Someone needs to tell this man to trim his beard, because what kind of a bush is this?

But anyways, if tables were turned, they'd have said the woman is a gold digger... The husband feels emasculated simply because the wife didn't include his name as well, like no one is stopping him from also buying his own property in his name.

Learn to identify topics you chook mouth on and the ones you don't. Before you comment sit down and think first. If your husband secretly buys a property in his name alone, I'm sure you will be the first to shout that he bought it for his secret wife.

Women will be praying for marriage but when inside don't know what to do with it

NothingDoMe:
American and UK courts. Definitely not Nigeria. 🤣

Even American and UK courts don’t do that. Anybody that tells u they do, is lying.

Samantha125:
Chances are she had already emotionally left that marriage long time ago and she was planning her exit in silence.

your type.
Awon emotional blackmailers

Phut:

Even American and UK courts don’t do that. Anybody that tells u they do, is lying.

Okay.

When u don show her shege finish for the marriage, have other women outside, your family does not accept her, she need to give herself sense and plan for herself and children b4 you die tomorrow and your family will kick her and her kids out with nothing...I love smart women

The woman can not be called a wife, she is just a neighbor to the man. But this time a bad neighbor.

Helpout12345:
I support her. Everyone should keep their money and properties to themselves.

This rubbish of "marital properties" is a scam. 99pct of times don't favor men.

Women will not do "marital properties" nonsense when they have more money than the man in marriages. They only support this nonsense when it will benefit them.

Men should wake ooo. Women are always in business in relationship and marriages. AND they constantly re-evaluate the "business" relationship until death or they leave you.

Men should wake ooo. Women are always in business in relationship and marriages. AND they constantly re-evaluate the "business" relationship until death or they leave you.

Many men don't know this 👌💯

Some ladies will do anything for a man to marry them, not for love sake but for the title of MRS and to have children

Samantha125:
Someone needs to tell this man to trim his beard, because what kind of a bush is this?

But anyways, if tables were turned, they'd have said the woman is a gold digger... The husband feels emasculated simply because the wife didn't include his name as well, like no one is stopping him from also buying his own property in his name.

How can you be encouraging division in a union?

I dey pity for who go marry you
J

Samantha125:
Someone needs to tell this man to trim his beard, because what kind of a bush is this?

But anyways, if tables were turned, they'd have said the woman is a gold digger... The husband feels emasculated simply because the wife didn't include his name as well, like no one is stopping him from also buying his own property in his name.

Samantha125:
Someone needs to tell this man to trim his beard, because what kind of a bush is this?

But anyways, if tables were turned, they'd have said the woman is a gold digger... The husband feels emasculated simply because the wife didn't include his name as well, like no one is stopping him from also buying his own property in his name.

What about no one stopping him to bring in second and third wife?

NothingDoMe:
Lol.

Women believe the man's money is theirs and their money is also theirs.

Know this and know peace.

I think they should go ahead with the divorce and divide the cost of the house in 2 for the man. Afterall there is no more marriage. Women can do things when the table turns in marriage.

She thinks her husband is a pushover

Samantha125:
Someone needs to tell this man to trim his beard, because what kind of a bush is this?

But anyways, if tables were turned, they'd have said the woman is a gold digger... The husband feels emasculated simply because the wife didn't include his name as well, like no one is stopping him from also buying his own property in his name.

You wife will do it to you in this your life time. Say Amen!

The wife should have told the husband. What is marriage if you keep that kinda stuff away from each other? People just don't learn. Otherwise, she'd have known that stuff like this could end the marriage.

I met my boss where I served a single man. I initially thought the wife was late or she was away in another country. He told me when we got closer why he became a single man again. The wife built a house and only told him when she was done, and she wanted them to move together. The man refused cause they were living in his own house too. That was how the marriage ended!

The earlier women realize that you don't just wake up and manipulate a full-grown adult, the better.

You work on the Mainland. You live on the mainland. Suddenly., your wife buys a house she didn't discuss with you, and wants you to move to the Island and live there! As what? Just like that? Live on the Island but work on the mainland. Hmmm

Hellisreal70:
The woman can not be called a wife, she is just a neighbor to the man. But this time a bad neighbor.

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Bullet4thiefnub:
She is not in the marriage and am out

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Lamasta:
The two shall become one after marriage, I see no reason why the wife will go ahead and buy a property without first seeking the advice and consent of the husband

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Mitsurugi:
➜I don't blame the guy. She'll use the ownership as a weapon in every fight and worse, tomorrow she fit vex tell the guy to move out.

What you all are saying is that if the wife had simply pocketed the money — maybe stored it away in her bank account —and not purchased any property with it, you all would have been fine, right?

Samantha125:
Someone needs to tell this man to trim his beard, because what kind of a bush is this?

But anyways, if tables were turned, they'd have said the woman is a gold digger... The husband feels emasculated simply because the wife didn't include his name as well, like no one is stopping him from also buying his own property in his name.

Discussing with your partner on such matter is very advisable. Couples did not supposed to be hiding such sensitive matter from each other. They are married not gf and bf stuff.

You sound foolish and stupid
Why didn't your own mother do this nonsense you are saying here ?

If your mother didn't do it . It means its not the right thing to do

GboyegaD:
The husband has a right to say he isn't willing to move and the wife can rent out the house if their current location works well for their current jobs and other errands.
The wife isn't done anything wrong however, she should have informed him of her intention to buy a property.
That said, I believe they understand their marriage better than any of us and our thoughts.

You have contradicted yourself. You have actually confirmed that she was wrong to have not informed her husband of her intention to buy a property.

omooba969:


You have contradicted yourself. You have actually confirmed that she was wrong to have not informed her husband.

I don't see any contradiction here. In as much as she has the right, the ideal thing was to inform the husband before buying it.

GboyegaD:


I don't see any contradiction here. In as much as she has the right, the ideal thing was to inform the husband before buying it.

I'm not contending her right to buy a property, but her sinister move of not carrying her husband along which you have rightly affirmed.

Kobojunkie:
......... What you all are saying is that if the wife had simply pocketed the money — maybe stored it away in her bank account —and not purchased any property with it, you all would have been fine, right?

This is not the point. The question is that, is it right for a married couple to hide things from each other?

omooba969:
✓ This is not the point. The question is that, is it right for a married couple to hide things from each other?

The video does not say she hid the money but rather that the problem began after it was revealed she used her incentive check to purchase property in her name only and then asked that her husband and her move to the new house together.

That's not automatic in Nigeria. The wife has to prove that she played a role in the acquisition of the property.

SmartyPants:


You know fully well that there's no such thing as a property bought in a man's name. The Courts will split it in half without thinking twice