@oyinboaja
are u talking about mamaput?
u obviously have not been on nairaland dor long
she's a mother with grown -up children

the comment she made was of abt the guy working in her house was of a long time ago

what's with the fables and untruths
wetin mamaput do for u

i feel u rose, there was dis guy in my uni, just becos he helps me out with my assingment he tot we were dating,i had to tell him off.I dont get too close to guys cos when i do the only tin on their mind is wantin to date u

@oyinboaja, read mamput reply b4 u start runin ur mouth.She said it was a long time it happened

d closer d better

i think it depends on the parties involved, i got real cool friends that are guys, so i think it depends on the individuals. no need generalizing it on all guys.

anabell abi na cowbell you call yaself. you chop lizard yansh?
who dey run mouth. if you no put ya mouth where e suppose be, you go hear weeeeeen

i can see u have a lot of bullshit in ur mouth go and clean d shit in ur mouth b4 u speak to me runin mouth, cos i aint gono talk to no shit stinkin mouth.

i see say mad man open yansh for ya face. as u no sabi put ya mouth for where e suppose be

yeye girl

u no sabi write sef.

o yea thanks alot,pls pass by so i can give u soda to clean ur shit stinkin mouth.

ThoniaSlim:

i think it depends on the parties involved, i got real cool friends that are guys, so i think it depends on the individuals. no need generalizing it on all guys.

Yeah--im with u on dat---i feel those dat inteprete it dat way actually had dat in mind from the onslaught or ur kinda "friendliness" seemed to them like u are flirting with dem. I believe if u display a casual attitude with ur male friends, they wont mis-inteprere it

Anabell please ignore this buffoon, he obviously is poorly educated and I can see from when he started on mammaput that his command of English is poor.
@ topic .This is a catch 22 situation. Most guys have learnt from experience including myself, that women are usually indirect when they fancy a guy especially in Nigeria. It is a very tricky game to understand when she is playing hard to get and when she is just being friendly ,the more experience you are the better you become at it.
I personally have always had very close platonic female friends,some closer to me than their boyfriends who come and go.

Good intentions?? the men are often right!! anyway

Because men are simple-minded, randy creatures, sadly. you have to be very careful when dealing with them. Like handling an animald. They think any woman that gives them 2 glances likes them and anyone with a hug wants them in bed.

@poster
The same way a woman interpretes a very friendly guy as trying to get under her skirt.
Why do you ladies do that?

Hi guys,
It's really nice to be here once more.Well, this topic is individual and so I will answer it from my perspective.Most girls are fond of this,they like to have 'puppies' trailing behind them and doing their bidding.Well if you are not genuinely interested,why show friendliness.Everybody no matter who responds to the show of love and it's just a thin line.
You get there sometime and when the question is asked,the reply,the guy may feel used.
So take my advice if you are not genuinely interested,don't even venture into friendship or when you do,don't overexpress it like always complimenting,being there for each other.

I have said my mind.LIGHTS OUT!

:-x

@topic

becos they are men!

cos grls aint predictable

When they say Yes they may mean NO

amuki:

Hi guys,
It's really nice to be here once more.Well, this topic is individual and so I will answer it from my perspective.Most girls are fond of this,they like to have 'puppies' trailing behind them and doing their bidding.Well if you are not genuinely interested,why show friendliness.Everybody no matter who responds to the show of love and it's just a thin line.
You get there sometime and when the question is asked,the reply,the guy may feel used.
So take my advice if you are not genuinely interested,don't even venture into friendship or when you do,don't overexpress it like always complimenting,being there for each other.

I have said my mind.LIGHTS OUT!

Are you for real?

well as it is applicable to alot of men's situation so it also happens when you show some friendliness ,kindness and generousity to females too,I had such experience in my office when i assisted an office assistant during trial moments financially while she was a student in part time at the university and do give her lift to her part of the town almost daily,she mistook it for interest and started making dirty moves but alas i waka oo cos i know want wahala,so it's vice-versa