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| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by Wumine(f): 12:13pm On Jan 07, 2009 |
DONT!!! Except ur conscience is pushing you to sucide. Guys dont forgive such things like women do belive me. If you are 100% sure he will undertand and really forgive you, fine but if not, do not confess except you know he's going to later fing out! Please think about this very well, men cant sand the thought of theri wife with other men but they thing they are free to do as they will. SO help you God! 1 Like |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by bronxdog: 12:28pm On Jan 07, 2009 |
@poster I feel you, but i still dont get you, but i need to help you. The only way for you to get out of this guilt and feeling of guilt is only one, and that is to fok as many men as you can see around your neighbourhood in one week. Lets say you look around your neighbourhood and you can notice around ten men, able bodied and you can visualise the size of their dik, all you have to do is to plan how you will fok these men in one week of 8 days without your husband knowing. Woman, this is a serious matter, because it has been proven to work, if not, the guilt stays with you forever. After the one week, all you then need to do is to cap it up with foking your husband, note that in the 8 days of foking the ten men, you are not allowed to fok your husband. This way, your feeling of guilt would have dis appeared after the sixth man, but make sure you complete the prescription. Do you know why it works, because, one cheating, you will remember, but ten cheating, you will no more remember, pls if this fails, my dik is lurking round the corner to make the 11th, all for grabs. Thanks. |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by angelina08(f): 12:52pm On Jan 07, 2009 |
I understand how you feel but don't give up your marriage, because God have joined but of you together on your wedding day. Take your time to watch blue film with him or alone. Tell him were to touch when romancing you and watch it with all your heart. |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by deb(m): 1:25pm On Jan 07, 2009 |
Confront him about the voice mail. Get him to admit to it first Then tell him about what you did too. Then you both start on a fresh note. I can almost guess your hubby still cheats on you now. |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by sparta(f): 11:04am On Jan 08, 2009 |
He cheated on you too, so what s the big deal, its do me i do you. Women sef, person cheat on you, you come do am back you dey feel guilty. Abeg keep your secret jare, the donkey aint worth it.  1 Like |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by JazzFreak(m): 11:57am On Jan 14, 2009 |
deb: Do this, the marriage goes dow the drain. No man likes is wife shagged;  Seriously though, confessing does not serve any purpose/ use for him; that him feeling really bad and ending the whole thing. I think you should take this to the grave, silence. "Say all Break all" |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by sparta(f): 12:10pm On Jan 14, 2009 |
No man likes is wife shagged; but men like to shag other peoples wife [/b] [b]They just dont have a clue, karma sure is a  |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by JJYOU: 12:24pm On Jan 14, 2009 |
wbb |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by maputu: 8:38pm On Jan 14, 2009 |
an average man will NEVER trust his wife again if she tells him she cheated on him NO MATTER if she saw him shagging another woman talkless of listening to a voicemail which i believe u cannot proof if he really shagged or is shagging the girl. discuss the voicemail message with him & ask him how he'll feel if u did the same to him if u think i'm joking. i believe sex like other things makes up 60% of marraige. if u want to save u marriagee, i advice you sit ur husband down and discuss how u feel when he makes love to u. ask him how he enjoys it and tell him how u want it done to u. GOODLUCK. |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by vodka(f): 2:06pm On Jan 15, 2009 |
the problem is you married him for the wrong reason-because of PITY. well so what do you expect? i realized a man who constantly accuses you of infidelity is himself an infidel so what are we talking about? sweetie, confront him about the voice mail, then keep your lips sealed about the other man,then make up your mind to be better and never do it again or just keep shagging the other man, cos you can't be sure he just might be doing the same thing to you. but if you wanna really save your marriage go see a marriage counsellor but keep your secret secret there no use it coming out. |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by ohwofasa(m): 2:16pm On Jan 16, 2009 |
how i wish i could advice u not to tell ur husband,but i will not b helping u at that point.madam pls try and talk it over with ur husband and ask God to open ur heart to love ur husband cos not loving ur husband cos close ur heavens |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by selencious(f): 10:13pm On Jan 15, 2010 |
If you are a Christian, go see a counselor at a good church. Or you should go talk to an elderly person, They gat more wisdom on issues like this. Ask your parents for advice too. |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by Niceobo(m): 7:33am On Jan 16, 2010 |
How old is ur husband |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by henryhemon(m): 9:08am On Jan 16, 2010 |
There's nothing hidden under sun so those advising u 2 take it d grave are ignorant of this fact n d guilt will drive u nuts.there's no justification of ur deed,2 wrongs dnt make a right n u were angry cuz of a voicemail,i think u were looking for an excuse 2cheat,wat stopped u from confronting him then?a woman makes a relationship/marriage work n ur husband didn't know u weren't enjoying it cuz u kept quite.my advise do d telling n u would remove d burden n discuss with him y u did it that will make him feel guilt too n that will be d healing process.open up ur heart n luv him n u will enjoy sex n ur marriage.God will do it 4 u.remain chaste 2 ur husband.wishing u best of luck. |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by adagz01(m): 9:25am On Jan 16, 2010 |
@poster,the act u did was delibrate n not a mistake so u should keep it 2 urself.i wont ever forgive my wife if she confess about something she did delibratly,how on earth would he ever trust u if u told him.if u love ur husband and ur marriage my advise is that,pray to God for forgiveness and make sure u never repeat it.about ur sex life,try n read sexual books,watch porn films together, |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by igbele(f): 10:06am On Jan 16, 2010 |
deb: |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by agitator: 10:08am On Jan 16, 2010 |
deb:  |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by Dammyray(m): 10:53am On Jan 16, 2010 |
Please don't say it, or else u want him to start suspecting u on every step u take, Believe me if u go to the market and probably there's traffic on the way or something and for your own gud i wish your phone should have a flt battery by then , please make sure you go from that market to your family house or else, this man go kill u U cant trust a man with such, just think about this, am a man but even is a sleep with thousands of woman, and my wife gets to find out that doesn't give her the impression of hugging a man too much, |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by kemcin: 4:25pm On Jan 18, 2010 |
my dear,if ur husband were a white man i think u could take the risk by tellin him what really happened but 4 the fact is my african brother,pls never u try to tell him, cos this has broken so many marriages, civilization has nothin to do with this,cos it is a critical issue pls be wise, dont put urself in a mess |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by ololo12: 8:18am On Aug 18, 2011 |
@ This is very funny, How do one ENJOY SEX I have as a matter of fact never enjoyed sex. So i don't even have sex. I prefer Oral and pre-intimacy. |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by MMM2(m): 8:25am On Aug 18, 2011 |
old thread |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by arki(m): 6:10am On Aug 04, 2012 |
my own piece sequel 2 this is dat there are some cultural myths or believe predominat in various groups, ethnic grps,languages,villages etc.some have it dat : if a woman cheats on d husband.wen d woman eventual becomes pregnant, she will die with d baby. Some also have it dat : if a husband eats food cookd by his cheatn wife..d man dies after having such food. The essence of this is jst 2 let u discover d type predominat in yours or ur husbands cos dat might jst be d reason of ur pains in bed. This is nt gibberish, it does happen in my own ethnic grp. Again neva carry dis 2 ur grave as some pple say, Seek d advice of a man of God on this. Jst my point Gudluck |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by bendazum: 7:43am On Aug 04, 2012 |
Queenisha: na wa oWORST ADVICE EVER!because the hubby will see it as a deliberate act of revenge.Infact its better you get your divorce papers ready if you must follow this advice.A man who gave you hell without proof of infidelity,now you want to give it to him?Forgive yourself,pray to God,seek doctor's help.Tell your hubby how you enjoy it.Open up communication lines.Infact just let him cuddle you in bed,put your head on his chest while sleeping.Let him whisper sweet nothing in your ears,take you out.Infact START COURTSHIP again with him. |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by Nobody: 11:55pm On Sep 04, 2012 |
first of voice filthy biotch now if you love him and want to preserve your marriage shut the phuck and don't do it again  |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by EDAMS: 4:34pm On Sep 06, 2012 |
this is grave! |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by Prec1ous(m): 7:29pm On Oct 30, 2012 |
av u nt heard of pre-intimacy, kisin. Hugin, talkin switly, touching of breast n clitoris? Do dat b4 sex, n u wunt av pains. Tel ur huby d trut, bt nt nw! |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by gilmaro(m): 9:37pm On Oct 30, 2012 |
[quote author=Queenisha]na wa o all these cheating people on nairaland and their advisers. Well my advise will be to confront him about that voice mail from his mistress and gather all evidence needed to prove your point and after he admits it, you release your own bomb shell so you can both start the healing process. I believe in honesty,without that,the marriage is just a sham. Gbamm, my brother u've spoken well. Madam u commited this sin against him and God, so you need forgiveness from both. |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by Lusola15: 10:35pm On Oct 30, 2012 |
Don't ask don't tell. African culture allows a man to sleep with more dan one woman even in marriage not the woman. If she tells that's the end of the marriage. Man: I slept with three different women and am sorry Wife: islept with two different man and am sorry If they have kids. The man starts to look at those kids fun and ? Man wants to hear that no matter how honest u think u are |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by Lusola15: 10:49pm On Oct 30, 2012 |
Would as an husband want to know how men or how times another man slept with your wife. hmmmm So think before u tell her to confess My sister go and sin no more |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by HURUCHI(m): 5:47pm On Feb 28, 2013 |
good lork |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by Gmoney5(m): 9:27pm On Feb 28, 2013 |
KarmaMod: If the husband can keep such a secret, why cant she osisi?i wonder o |
| Re: I Cheated On My Husband, I Feel Guilty; Can I Confess To Him? by Nadoson: 8:26am On Mar 01, 2013 |
Queenisha: na wa oI disagreed wit u on dat. One tin u shud knw is dat wenva man catches his wife havn sex wit oda man or woman catches d husband & try 2 b curious over it, both wil tell on d woman negetvly cos she'l b d one 2 go or expeld. So my advice 4 her is 2 let d sleepin LION rest & talk 2 her hubby on how 2 ignite her on bed. |
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