blasterman:

My brother no smoke without fire You have Been WARned!!!

easy Blasterman, we are not @ WAR, or did I not quite get your point?

@op
my best friend is from mbaise and he is a good guy. However I can tell you that there are some beliefs some Igbos have against them of which most are false. But I can tell you they are very fetish and most of their indigenes hardly return home or are very careful when they return. You can ask her yourself. (as they say no smoke without fire)
Also forget most of these Hollywood fans telling you that you are only getting married to her let them go and check how long Hollywood marriages last. In Nigeria marriage is a union between two families not necessarily between two people.
Also remember marriage is not all about love and NO marriage lasts no love alone

In summary: Don't stereotype her because of her people but there are somethings associated with Mbaise people which you should look out for in her. This doesn't necessarily mean she is bad.
Ok just take these analogies
- You are more likely to be duped if you are doing business with a Nigerian than with a Briton. This does not mean that all Nigerians are fraudsters
- As a Christian you are more likely to be killed by Boko H if you live in the north
Man its all about probability

Poster may you live long for finding an mbaise woman, They are good and very homely. I can tell u that if an mbaise woman falls in luv with u. She wld stick wit u through thick and thin. She is very supportive and submissive. Count yourself lucky my friend.

op run oo.
if you are having doubts, there is a reason.

my ancestors said that as well and worshipped amadioha and ikenga.
i now have my personal ikenga that guides my every move with my chi.

I would advice you go back to your roots and get your own ikenga and seek guidance from it.
what you will get will be long life and prosperity. happiness and contentment without bounds.

What a load of bullisht

@Jedisco, thanks a lot, I'm very grateful. I promise you I 'll be careful.
@Nomsochris, you are right my friend; the way she behaves, the way she makes me feel, I feel as if this is just the first time I'm falling in love. I thought that with her beauty, she ll'd be rude, but she proved me wrong. I 'll just keep watching.

Good, happy 4 u bro

See twist oh! The young woman now wants my only camera phone( I have 2 other cheap phones) claiming she is serious!!!
I can afford to buy her many of such phones but why should she request for my own phone?
Note: she has a dual SIM camera phone.

Jamesbona:

See twist oh! The young woman now wants my only camera phone( I have 2 other cheap phones) claiming she is serious!!!
I can afford to buy her many of such phones but why should she request for my own phone?
Note: she has a dual SIM camera phone.

I have a concern for you. What's your age? I think you are not matured for marriage.

a word is enough for the wise. check your testicles every morning o. make sure there's always two of them.

Lol

okeymadu:

I have a concern for you. What's your age? I think you are not matured for marriage.

Thanks for trying, but unfortunately, I wouldn't pick up a quarrel with you

okeymadu:

I have a concern for you. What's your age? I think you are not matured for marriage.

Thanks for trying, but unfortunately, I wouldn't pick up a quarrel with you

@post and comments, [b][b][b]LOLLLLL[/b][/b][/b] ; [/size][/size]

Mbaise women make good wives. They'll stick with u thru thick n thin. Don't mind what people say. Follow ur heart.

The mbaise story dates back to the colonial era, when mbaise people had to migrate to neigbouring urban centers due to the economic neccesity that existed at that time, and the ill fertile geographical location (red soil) of mbaise. Upon entering new areas, these people took up menial jobs ranging from artisans ,bus drivers,hawkers, load carriers etb. Most of this people had no educational background therefore had to rely on physical strength to survive. Other people saw them as aggresive, agitated, rural,troublesome, unpolished and witty, and concluded that this was a reprensatative of all mbaise had to offer, thus mbaise people were made subjects and supects of every bad thing that happened. This continued till a non mbaise musician with a biased orientation of the mbaise people, compaired mbaise with the snake and ranked us worse. This led to a wide ill perception and stereotype of the mbaise people. How many of you sincerely know of anybody that had his testicles taken by an mbaise woman or have witnessed first hand, the claims made by some posters on this thread, We are all learned and well enlightened individuals, it is true that in every twelve there is a judas but when we begin to belive that all twelve are tratiors and as such must be dealt with, then we have a problem.

People can get so stupidly superstitious

Hehehe

I am from mbaise. Every region in Nigeria has bad people and good people. All you need to do is to study the family he comes from. Because Mbaise prople don't joke with their children. If the girl loves you but her family rejects you, I advice you to find your way. But if the family likes you, go ahead and marry her.

@OP If u must know Mbaise is the most intelligent people in Imo state.

let me tell u where dat ur adage came from, back in da days when Nigeria was still under-developed, Mbaise people were already developed in knowledge and wisdom. You can never cheat an Mbaise person except they want to let go, so people were so afraid of them and scared in dealing with them.

More over, back in da 80s when Yahoo Yahoo were still done manual, Mbaise guys were the real dudes that made cool cash from it and today they have all relaxed as fathers and have developed several companies in the south east.

the truth is that mabise people are so so wise, far more wiser that u Enugu/Anambra guys

if u hail from a family where there is no mutual relatnshp between the extended families and urs, i think that girl will make a good wife, she will help protect ur interest and anytime ur people hears she's coming, they will quickly adjust themselves properly.

kaysy:

@OP If u must know Mbaise is the most intelligent people in Imo state.

let me tell u where dat ur adage came from, back in da days when Nigeria was still under-developed, Mbaise people were already developed in knowledge and wisdom. You can never cheat an Mbaise person except they want to let go, so people were so afraid of them and scared in dealing with them.

More over, back in da 80s when Yahoo Yahoo were still done manual, Mbaise guys were the real dudes that made cool cash from it and today they have all relaxed as fathers and have developed several companies in the south east.

the truth is that mabise people are so so wise, far more wiser that u Enugu/Anambra guys

if u hail from a family where there is no mutual relatnshp between the extended families and urs, i think that girl will make a good wife, she will help protect ur interest and anytime ur people hears she's coming, they will quickly adjust themselves properly.

Dude, better tread with caution! . .

@Chioma 134, Thanks, that's exactly the point of Nomsochris
@Nomsochris, thanks for letting me know the origin of that adage prefering the snake to a human being created in God's own image; how ludicrous the saying! I'll save the info. Thanks a lot.

@kaysy, thanks for your own version, but I guess it is conflicting with that of Nomsochris, which should I believe?
@ Metalgoong, thanks man, I grab the gist! I code your message! High five! Just imagine "so so wise indeed" Now, who's gonna play the fool in this case? Just like I promised earlier, I 'll be VERY carefull.

@ jamesbona,

It is men like you who use their wives as girlfriend and vice versa. listen and listen Good.you should not joke with what you have . you better give your love back to her in return, be open to her always. Mbaise ladies love men who are "REAL MEN" NOT " MMANYI SI" . They are hardworking, protect their husband anytime as far as they are in love. Give them room to express themselves and dont take them for granted.

Morealso, we believe in communual marriage in the sense that you are not getting married to you and your wife alone, you have to extend hand when it is necessary which is important anyway.
In terms of " BRIDE PRICE" it is little but the list of "Umunna" is always long eg from my own clan , the list of marrriages comprises of those who attended school from primary, secondary and tertiary even those who went for skilled work. so it varies (lol) but in all the family decision is absolute . if you are in good rapport with your in law you will be good to go.

stop be skeptical , be a man and go for what you want. i have always wanted to marry an mbaiselites because i love and cherish our festivals , but god knows the best,

Goodluck.

Africans and Superstition. . . Duh

brb

Mumu Op, stop the stereotype. How old are you again? You troglodyte wants to marry an mbaise lady. Yeye de smell, mtcheeee!

[quote][/quote]How old are you? You sound so pitiably lopsided & discombobulated! Is it safe? WTF!
What's the distance between Enugu and Imo state? And why is it so hard for you to go to Mbaise and make your research, or better still send someone more "matured" to go?

Is it safe for a lady from Mbaise to marry a dumb guy from Enugu?


Sexkillz, you used to be one of the best posters alongside Mrbrownjay and a few others but now
There is absolutely nothing wrong with the question this poster has asked. I have also heard that too and people always talk about Mbaise people. Instead of insulting him or making people look like fools, try and reason and understand sometimes and offer advice if you have to.

^ But his Manliness lives on. . .

To be frank,Op might not be able to handle an mbaise lady,enugu peez re dull,they act like Mumu(am sorry)an Mbaise girl will overide you during the first 6 months of marriage,she will take over the house,Listen,its only Imo people like us can handle an mbaise lady,I dated an mbaise girl for 18 months,she was inlove with me for sure,but she is self centered,she is always talking about her people,this happened in 2007-2008,in 2010 I met another mbaise gurl outside nigeria,she hmmmmm long story,not good. OP U̶̲̥̅̊ as an Enugu man Can not handle any Imo girl talkless of mbaise,she will shout at you cos U̶̲̥̅̊ guys are dull.marry from Enugu or ebonyi,that's if U̶̲̥̅̊ want to listen.
(Am from Okigwe)