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Marriage By Introduction by doncaster(m): 9:16pm On Oct 16, 2007 |
Hi peeps i was introduced to a gyl by a good friend and the basis of the intro is for mariage and the gyl herself knw about it as i do. So guys we have been keeping intouch ever since then although we are not in the same country but she visit and i visit her as well. My question now is do i need to ask her will u marry me. Please candid advice will be appreciated. |
Re: Marriage By Introduction by ikamefa(f): 1:25am On Oct 17, 2007 |
doncaster:hmmmmmmmm ! you could ask her if you are satisfied with her ![]() my questions is:do you really know her? if you are satisfied with what you have seen and learned go right ahead and marry her |
Re: Marriage By Introduction by havanah: 1:42am On Oct 17, 2007 |
u said that u two have already met with marriage as an intention but i think it would be a nice gesture if u do ask her to marry u (assuming that u both have developed good feelings towards each other) there is no harm in adding some romance to a relation that started in a formal way and i think it will increase ur points in her heart good luck i wish u all the best ![]() ![]() |
Re: Marriage By Introduction by ayeesha: 12:14pm On Oct 17, 2007 |
of course you should ask her! most ladies want to remember the day she was proposed to. |
Re: Marriage By Introduction by doncaster(m): 8:30pm On Oct 22, 2007 |
Thanks all for your contribution. |
Re: Marriage By Introduction by NihilceM: 9:00pm On Oct 22, 2007 |
I am not for introduction marriage. You should be the one to look for your spouse yourself. Don't ever take what other people give to you as the best. You might never know what is hidden behind everything! |
Re: Marriage By Introduction by LadyTi1(f): 12:52pm On Oct 26, 2007 |
@ doncaster: There is nothing wrong with introduction. Of course it has its challenges - For one, there is more PRESSURE to transform the relationship into marriage. My advice: One of the first quetions you should ask yourself is: If I'd met this person randomly, would I have been attracted to or considered him or her? If the answer is yes, then you may proceed cautiously. You should not rely soley on the report of the person who introduced you, although it helps, especially if they are people you trust and respect. But you MUST also do your own "homework" and get to know this person as you would have done had you met them randomly. As for proposing marriage: Of course you still need to "officially" ask her. Even if the intention was there from the on set, you must not enter marriage based on assumption. So it's proper to ask her and get a clear yes or no. Besides, like another poster said, a girl wants to remember the day she was proposed to, so it'd be unfair to deny her that ![]() ![]() All the best! |
Re: Marriage By Introduction by Busta(f): 2:10pm On Oct 26, 2007 |
would be nice if u ask her. |
Re: Marriage By Introduction by rosquare(m): 3:08pm On Oct 26, 2007 |
@poster NO, dont ask her. wait for me to come and ask her on your behalf and when its time to tongolo,also wait for me to ask her on your behalf ha ha ![]() ![]() |
Re: Marriage By Introduction by NihilceM: 7:45pm On Oct 26, 2007 |
rosquare: and maybe do it on his behalf! |
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