@ Onuokwu: u must really be a BIG LOOSER, U dont tell d whole world u wanna phuck ur house help,, U just do it and flex d fun while it last, I suspect u don 2 try d girl & she no gree, Get a life and get a new house help

A man ask for encouragement nd all he s getting is dissing like some on here vent done worse without remorse.
@op
U know the right tin; just try nd do just that

Don't mind the OP,he don shag d help sinceeeeeeeee

One of the reasons why I wont take a young and attractive girl as maid

I wont tell a grown up like you to do or not to do but i can confidently tell you to make sure dat when you start try and finish it or it will finish you, is as simply as abc

brox, u can go ahead if only u can do chop n clean mouth only for one shot.thereafter u may decide 2 send her away depending on d sweetness bt make sure u wear raincoat atleast jst to mark ur own register,

U hv nothing 2 gain <even frogs hv holes> and a whole lot to lose. Sack d girl!

bro, you are thinking with the wrong head, If & when the ish hits the fan, you will be the same person on NL seeking advice and blaming it on the devil like sey person force you smash am, We all have urges but that doesn't make it okay to act

@OP
be a man, if you have feelings for her then sleep with her, if she gets pregnant, then make her ur second wife. in my culture.tradition you are entitled to as many wives as you can provide for.
goodluck.

Easy Ma'am. Last I checked House helpers were/are humans like you and me. There is dignity in what they do. Only victims of circumstances. They are not from gutters or cesspits. The Op should be able to draw a line between his wife and his house helper. That's is what maturity and responsibility taught me. He is allowing his lust to control him

You just killed it for me. Some of these girls here are something else. We are all who we are by reason of Grace and not merit.

When will wives start to understand that is very wrong to employ a full breasted human female as house-help

^how do you know she is full breasted?

I feel you. My broda do not let this lady sleep in your house today o!!!! This is certainly the path to destruction!!! If ur wife is really ur friend tell her the girl has to go because u've started feeling uncomfortable around her.

Please do not make this mistake.

All that go down this road wreck their family.

Don't do it! Think of Arnold Schwarzenegger.

@OP, Send her away fast or you found yourself praying ''to be sent away'' !!! Be content with your wife and kids.

Send her away fas,t before you put youself into a big mess. That is the only solution. That your friend is not a good frien , you better run away from him before he ruins your marriage

For God's sake, what's the problem of this ladies dishing out harsh words all in the name of contributing to this thread. Must you be derogatory all the time? Just advice the OP on how to be free from the shackles he's about to get entangled in rather than cursing him. Small time you start announcing here you love your husband, who told you he is f**king his colleague at work afterall it's the househelp and street ladies you will easily notice he will avoid? For crying out loud let's be matured for once, unfortunately most of you are married.
At OP, if your wife is very matured and understanding, just tell her to stylishly get her packing cos she's driving you cr*zy. By doing that, you ve not offended or cheated the poor girl in anyway and also respected your wife enough to protect your marriage. Mind you the poorgirl must not just be thrown out like a piece of trash.

Send the house help away. She may be using spiritual assistance or she may just be very attractive. Either way, the result will be in her favour. I don't advise people to fight temptations, I advise them to run. Lots of attractive women will be close to u at one time or the other. How many can u sleep with?

Ladies on nairaland here.

Remember this when you get married dont get a full breasted girl as househelp.

Get a young flat chested girl of about 13 or a young boy.

Yea I know you will say ' oh my husband cannot be like OP. He's a man! He cannot even bring himself low and 'look' at a maid'

Yea that's fine but help him to maintain that integrity. Dont bring unnecessary temptations around him.

Piyke:

I feel you. My broda do not let this lady sleep in your house today o!!!! This is certainly the path to destruction!!! If ur wife is really ur friend tell her the girl has to go because u've started feeling uncomfortable around her.

Please do not make this mistake.

All that go down this road wreck their family.

so the poor girl should loose her job because the bobo got a hard on mama can't satisfy no longer, its either u work with very ugly ladies ur your a lady yourself. this is something he has to live with in life (every guys wahala) if he is going to bang, i suggest he do it outside the home, by ignoring his instincts and bottling up, one day ekaette would mistakenly bend down to pick something from the floor, and all hell would let loose

OP is more sincere than most of us here.
Some already deep in such immoral acts are cursing here,while some that know that such 'temptations' occur are branding him sex-maniac.
My advice,open up to your wife about such 'temptations'.
She will decide to send her home(which is the best option),or atleast know about it to avoid creating unusual vacuum and opportunity for the snake to bite.

Wait! Nigerians have sex? Wow! I thought they were uptight sticks-in-their-arses conservatives that'll go to any lenghts to deny the existence of sexual urges. Wow! Way to go.

Nairaland, stop fucking up my posts.

Pls dont do it.Either you believe it or not.there is always a repercursion for cheating on ur wife or vice versa.its better you send her out and maintain ur home with ur lawfully married wife.ur friends that are advising you to do will not be there to help when nemesis comes. Its not even descent at all.pls do not do it.Remember father Abraham did same even with d consent of d wife.The problem is still on from generation till now.My candid advice, send her parking.

I dont believe ur story, why telling us after u,

U better send hr packing b4 she ruin ur marriage

Mr Onuokwu (whatever),
Since your friend who has adviced you to go for it is the one running your life, go ahead with his advice. The day you land in a ditch, I believe he will come and bear the burden of your life with you.

Secondly, you sound like a man who doesn't have a mind of his own (your friends do it, so you follow or your friend says you should do it so you are considering doing it). Shame on you. how old will you be before you grow up?

I once had a neighbor who had a sad experience: She had a maid called faith, and her hubby slept with her. The faith report to her mum, and the mother removed her from that house immediately before this man impregnates her daughter. In order not to let the wife know why, they hid under the guise that the man's sister had falsely accused Faith of stealing a wristwatch.

Then the wife had a 2nd maid from Coutonou, and this man slept with her again. A month before she left the house, this girl from coutonou then decided to abuse the little 2yr plus baby girl she was looking after. Since the little baby couldn't describe what was being done to her, she would only cry and point to her private part to her mother. On close examination, the moter noticed trickles of blood stains on this baby's pant. This lasted for about one week. Afet the mother took the baby to the hospital, she decided to ask the maid because she had her cotonou phone number. When she did, the maid bold told her over the phone that "daddy touched me 2 time when you went somewhere and i start to bleed when it was not my time, so I too touch your baby where daddy touched me".
Incidentally, the baby is now 3+ and she can talk a bit, so she told her mum one day that Joy Joy put finger here (pointing to her part).

Now this family has a new maid, I will not be surprised if this writer is the same man.  Shame on you Mr. Go and castrate yourself since your dic is uncontrollable.
If you decide to see the maid as your younger sister, you will not be sexually attracted to her.

My guy, don't do it because after the first time you will hate yourself when you realise what you've done. Send her away now.