Hello everyone; I am 28 years old, I am married, I have two kids, a son and little angel I am hindu, but the problem is that I love another young lady, single, also hindu , I don't know what happened to us because our love is so strong that we can't sleep without meeting. I try all the ways to stop that love but in vain.

@ op what does being Hindi, have to do with anything? Is your wife Nigerian, i am asking cause you felt the need to disclose your ethnicity. Anyways you cheated ont he wife and now your in love with another person looking for advice. Well you gonna certainly get some.Why did you cheat, so soon after getting married? Did you want to marry your wife in the first place? Do you want to save your marriage or move on with this young lady? Give us more info, so we can advise.

EEEEyah, too bad, that is what happens when you agree to ''arranged marraiges'', you are now experiencing what your heart should have experienced with your wife with another woman, there is nothing to be done, or what do you have in mind? to send your wife and kids packing so that you will marry the other woman? or do you want to run away with this other woman? Whatever your answer is, think about your children and the effect your actions would have on their future, there is nothing too small or to big to sacrifice for your family, let that feeling of lust ( which is usually temporal) go with the wind, and love your family.

agiboma: @ op what does being Hindi, have to do with anything? Is your wife Nigerian, i am asking cause you felt the need to disclose your ethnicity. Anyways you cheated ont he wife and now your in love with another person looking for advice. Well you gonna certainly get some.Why did you cheat, so soon after getting married? Did you want to marry your wife in the first place? Do you want to save your marriage or move on with this young lady? Give us more info, so we can advise.

Agiboma, something is really wrong with you. Can you show us when the OP said he cheated?

Genius100:

Agiboma, something is really wrong with you. Can you show us when the OP said he cheated?

He mentioned he cannot sleep without meeting, meeting her to do what, stare in her eyes, hear her voice which he can do over the phone, lets be mature about this, based on his "need to meet" one can assume they are being intimate. Futhermore their are many types of cheating like the emotional cheating he is doing on his wife by being in love with another person. So nothing wrong with me Genius, or what i stated.

The title is misleading, makes one think that it is a woman saying that she is in love with another woman.
I actually logged in to modestly use the F-word that I hardly use (as in WT*) to show my irritation only to read a more confusing thread narration.

Will return when poster makes stuff clearer. Don't worry poster, I don't bite-----

Nothing do you jare!.
Marriage is only sweeeeeeet in the beginning and at the h-end!

What makes you think the 'single hindu lady' will make you happier than what you have?

Sorry sah!
I don't believe in MARRIED PEEPS. . .FOOLING AROUND WITH 'SINGLE PEEPS'!

Stick with your level ALWAYS!