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Re: Why Do Foreign Embassies Reject Our Nigerian Traditional Weddings? by Fenrir(m): 8:19am On Mar 01
1) because it's tribal
2) because you are literally selling women if you take a bride price at all no matter how low of high
3) because it's humiliating, selfish and greedy only caring about the traditions of one side, because the world attitude is if a woman wants to celebrate HER AND HER FATHERS TRADITIONS then she should marry her fucking father, because you don't respect your traditions yourself and what you call traditional weddings in Nigeria today are not fucking traditional weddings at all, they are cherry picked traditions, the number 1 tradition for all tribes is that a woman is a virgin at her wedding, read your fucking laws men you don't have to suffer the humiliation of stroking your woman's fathers ego, in consummation in your laws it says a traditional wedding Is ONLY supposed to be done if the groom has the pride of meeting his woman as a virgin and marrying her as a virgin. IF YOU DONT RESPECT YOUR OWN TRADITIONS THEN WHY THE HELL SHOULD WE
4) because it's a not a real fucking wedding and customary law does not apply to us
What's your government going to do? Throw us in prison for not getting the mother or fathers permission?
A lot of countries would just go to outright war with you if they did that
Re: Why Do Foreign Embassies Reject Our Nigerian Traditional Weddings? by Fenrir(m): 8:23am On Mar 01
UNESCO was formed to promote and recognize all united nation member countries' culture and tradition,
and to also preserve them, and Nigeria is a full member. what am I trying to say? They need to recognize and respect our culture and tradition the way we respect theirs. when an american living in Nigeria wants to bring his white spouse to Nigeria, do Nigerian embassy force him to go and perform an african traditional wedding to show that truly he is married to the woman he is bringing in? This shows we are inferior to them, that our culture & tradition is inferior to theirs, which ought to change now. They need to start recognizing our Traditional marriages since it is recognized and respected by us. And this should also be applicable to our courts. I wonder what the ministry of culture and tradition is doing, sighs.

When the Bleep have you ever seen a Nigerian man do our traditions to marry a white woman?

Not one fucking time at all ever

And don't you say a white wedding is our traditions as that's a religious act not a tradition and if you are Christian then it's yours, read your bible it literally tells yoh where it comes it and it's not America and it's not Europe

Secondly when they ask you to get married in a registery THAT DOESN'T MEAN WHITE WEDDING YOU FOOL

IT MEANS A COURT WEDDING
Re: Why Do Foreign Embassies Reject Our Nigerian Traditional Weddings? by Fenrir(m): 9:10am On Mar 01
UNESCO was formed to promote and recognize all united nation member countries' culture and tradition,
and to also preserve them, and Nigeria is a full member. what am I trying to say? They need to recognize and respect our culture and tradition the way we respect theirs. when an american living in Nigeria wants to bring his white spouse to Nigeria, do Nigerian embassy force him to go and perform an african traditional wedding to show that truly he is married to the woman he is bringing in? This shows we are inferior to them, that our culture & tradition is inferior to theirs, which ought to change now. They need to start recognizing our Traditional marriages since it is recognized and respected by us. And this should also be applicable to our courts. I wonder what the ministry of culture and tradition is doing, sighs.

Do you respect out cultures?
Do you respect our traditions?
Do you care about them?
Do you value them?
Or do you blame every white person for forcing Christianity on you, and for what THE BRITISH AND AMERICANS DID but the rest of my race didn't?

You are two faced and a selfish cuNt
Like the whole repatriations talk
If you want reparations
Then knock on the edo tribes door first
They were taking Nigerians and selling them to the British and when the British abolished slavery those tribes were complaining that British were killing their kingdoms for setting you free

You talk about culture and traditions
It's all bullshit it was a tradition for some of you yo eat people, are you going to ask us to respect that?
Re: Why Do Foreign Embassies Reject Our Nigerian Traditional Weddings? by Fenrir(m): 9:21am On Mar 01
UNESCO was formed to promote and recognize all united nation member countries' culture and tradition,
and to also preserve them, and Nigeria is a full member. what am I trying to say? They need to recognize and respect our culture and tradition the way we respect theirs. when an american living in Nigeria wants to bring his white spouse to Nigeria, do Nigerian embassy force him to go and perform an african traditional wedding to show that truly he is married to the woman he is bringing in? This shows we are inferior to them, that our culture & tradition is inferior to theirs, which ought to change now. They need to start recognizing our Traditional marriages since it is recognized and respected by us. And this should also be applicable to our courts. I wonder what the ministry of culture and tradition is doing, sighs.

Like whole prostration bullshit and lie and fake tradition from yoruba?

The yoruba tribe was established in the 14th century and to stand out and set themselves apart from all other tribes their ancestors promised virgin brides forever in return for prostration

How many women are virgins at marriage now?
How many men want a virgin or care about it?

Why would there be a tradition where a woman can have sex with any man or men and those men not commit to her then a man that wants to be her husband has to get on his stomach and beg to be her 2nd or 3rd or 100th man?

You are fools screaming respect this and respect that when you don't know the full history of your people because you only believe the bullshit you are told by your fathers and Uncles and they believed the men before them

But you don't get off your asses and actually research any of it yourselves
Re: Why Do Foreign Embassies Reject Our Nigerian Traditional Weddings? by Fenrir(m): 9:41pm On Mar 01
The 100% and sheer truth is

YOU DONT FUCKING DESERVE YOUR FAKE TRADITIONAL WEDDINGS RESPECTED!

when it comes to traditions you are the shame of Africa

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