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Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Nobody: 4:00am On Mar 27, 2012 |
@ Killz, So basically what your saying is that if 2 people love each other, then they will do anything to provide for their upkeep. They are living and surviving together as a team. Since we must eat and have a roof over our head, making money is the means to this. We wouldnt watch our loves ones starve while saying "I love you." But if there was money problems they would stay together and the key is, TRY to make things better as a TEAM because of love and commitment. |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Killz3(m): 4:06am On Mar 27, 2012 |
MRbrownJAY:Like i said earlier in my very first reply : "Therefore, while Love can exist without money, money still has a vital role to play!" Her love for you is not based on her upkeep, but her upkeep is necessary! what i have been saying all along is that whether you can take care of her upkeep or not (money), that shouldnt be a reason for her to fall out of love for you.That shouldn't. But it happens doesn't it? Neither have i said that lack of money should make a lady stop loving a man. . . so LOVE is based on FEEDING in your world?! lol. who can survive withouth eating?! i guess in your world, if a guy can "feed" a gal then he is worthy of her love.What are you saying? If? What if? Which comes first, love or the food? Do you feed random girls, cos i dont! So i don't know how you'll say if i can feed a girl she's worthy of my love. I'm talking about a wife here. Would she marry me without love? So if she marries me out of love, we shouldn't feed? Feeding was used in a context to mean providing. Re read the comment i used the word "feeding". You only picked out "feed", took it to mean physical food, and decided to enumerate on that. . . Lol. Funny guy! bwaaaaah, Killz, you are a funny character, i give you that!Care and affection is needed to love someone, money plays a part in caring for someone. You need amenities that affection cannot provide. Affection cannot provide accommodation, neither can it pay the bills. Caring for someone entails provision of these basic amenities, and to provide these amenities, you need what? Money! It's because i care, that's why i work to earn money for our provisions. . . I dont know what you are saying! i hate women who are quick to say "i love you", but then dont act like it. if a man is hungry then there is absolutely nothing he can do to stop his woman from being hungry. thinking that a woman is a man's responsibility when they get married is WRONG, they are each others responsibility 8as they become ONE). so if they have nothing to eat, its THEIR fault, not solely his.....unless you live in the stone age.They are each other's responsibility, but the man is head of the family, and the natural breadwinner. That she has a job shouldn't make him lazy to his responsibilities. Like i also said earlier, "How long were they expecting the leftovers to keep flowing? Why are they so lazy? If they failed to plan, they've planned to fail!" Don't twist my words! so what you are saying is that: if people handed them free meals, would their love die? if people offered them free accommodation, would their love die? or better yet, would she start loving the provider? lolHow long until they get off their arses and get a job that pays them? Money is needed to provide the free meals for them, or is it not? And like you earlier said, "if they have nothing to eat, its THEIR fault" Why didn't you ask CARE and AFFECTION to provide them food? LOL! |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Killz3(m): 4:08am On Mar 27, 2012 |
talina: @ Killz, So basically what your saying is that if 2 people love each other, then they will do anything to provide for their upkeep. They are living and surviving together as a team. Since we must eat and have a roof over our head, making money is the means to this. We wouldnt watch our loves ones starve while saying "I love you."God bless you and your Generations to come! |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Killz3(m): 4:11am On Mar 27, 2012 |
toyemz: ^^^^^Anybody that insults you further on this thread, has me to answer to! |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Nobody: 4:23am On Mar 27, 2012 |
REALITY101: screwdriver with no ice will do me just fine! lol |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Nobody: 4:57am On Mar 27, 2012 |
O lawd. . That's some convenience store viagra there lol |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Nobody: 5:07am On Mar 27, 2012 |
~Killz~: money has a vital role to play in LIFE, therefore everyone needs money to survive.....now, the fact that you mix that up with love is just amazing. That shouldn't. But it happens doesn't it? Neither have i said that lack of money should make a lady stop loving a man. . . well if lack of money wouldnt stop a lady loving a man then you should have said YES to the subject of this thread and we wouldnt have this discussion. lol. What are you saying? If? What if? Which comes first, love or the food? stop trying to change the subject...... food (in such context) is meant to STAY ALIVE, thats not "upkeep" thats SURVIVAL, lol! so as i said earlier, so long as you can provide for ONE meal, then that could be shared with the two of you and love will STILL blossom. Do you feed random girls, cos i dont! So i don't know how you'll say if i can feed a girl she's worthy of my love. I'm talking about a wife here. Would she marry me without love? well it seems, feeding someone is the only problem in your story. here is a clue: if you cant feed your wife, let her go to her parents house and get food there.......et voila! but that shoudnt stop her from loving you. So if she marries me out of love, we shouldn't feed? Feeding was used in a context to mean providing. Re read the comment i used the word "feeding". You only picked out "feed", took it to mean physical food, and decided to enumerate on that. . . Lol. Funny guy!and therefore i replied to you earlier, go back and read my answers again. Care and affection is needed to love someone, money plays a part in caring for someone. You need amenities that affection cannot provide. Affection cannot provide accommodation, neither can it pay the bills. Caring for someone entails provision of these basic amenities, and to provide these amenities, you need what? Money! It's because i care, that's why i work to earn money for our provisions. . . I dont know what you are saying! money plays absolutely NO PART in loving someone. so are you saying that you NEED amenities for your wife to love you?! you NEED accommodation for your wife to love you? you NEED to pay bills for your your wife to love you? bwaaaah! you could have NONE of these and still be in love, where is the big deal, unless you married a golddigger? caring for someone MEANS to be there for them THE BEST YOU CAN (whether you have money or not), if you aint got money then she (who supposedly loves you) should accept that and it should certainly NOT be a reason for your love to fade. They are each other's responsibility, but the man is head of the family, and the natural breadwinner. That she has a job shouldn't make him lazy to his responsibilities. Like i also said earlier, "How long were they expecting the leftovers to keep flowing? Why are they so lazy? If they failed to plan, they've planned to fail!" Don't twist my words! so to be the head of family means that everything is his fault?! to have no money means that a man is LAZY?! they take decisions together and accept the consequences TOGETHER. if/when he loses his job, then they act accordingly. it shouldnt make anyone "lazy". they are ONE, and therefore should act as such. if he has no money because he suddenly lost his job, it should in NO WAY be a reason to stop loving him.....in fact thats when she should love him EVEN more, thats when her LOVE is needed the most! How long until they get off their arses and get a job that pays them? as long as it takes for an able bodied man to find one, if you think it is that easy to find one in 9ja then think again. Money is needed to provide the free meals for them, or is it not? so long as HE didnt provide that money then who cares who pays for the meals. the FACT remains that they have no money and yet they still love each other.....whether their meals comes from the kindness of complete strangers or their family. And like you earlier said, "if they have nothing to eat, its THEIR fault" Why didn't you ask CARE and AFFECTION to provide them food? LOL! because CARE and AFFECTION has absolutely NOTHING to do with PROVIDING FOOD for one another, stop mixing oranges with potatoes! they care and love each other and they have no money, what has FOOD got to do with the love they have for one another, duh! they need food/money to live, thats their ONLY problem, but regardless if they have it or not, they will STILL love each other. |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Nobody: 5:20am On Mar 27, 2012 |
@killz really has a funni a view abt life I must say Well IMO, dt tru love dt we xpct of ourslvs is sth dt u cnt hardly gt to see. Too many factors alwys gt to affct love for we humans esp we nigerians. So in reality,and esp wit our nigerian women, for ur love to function properly, dere shld b money. 1 Like |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Nobody: 5:25am On Mar 27, 2012 |
^^^ bro, if you were surrounded by 99% ashewos, would you marry one?! i guess not!!!! well, you should use the same logic here then: simply because most 9ja babes act in such hungry manner, shouldnt be a reason to now believe that this is the RIGHT way to live/love. stand for what you believe (and die trying) instead of becoming the "mugu" they want you to be. |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Killz3(m): 8:31am On Mar 27, 2012 |
MRbrownJAY:Stop twisting and contradicting yourself. . . This is a summary of all i've been saying: talina: @ Killz, So basically what your saying is that if 2 people love each other, then they will do anything to provide for their upkeep. They are living and surviving together as a team. [b]Since we must eat and have a roof over our head, making money is the means to this. We wouldnt watch our loves ones starve while saying "I love you."That's an unarguable fact! Take it or leave it! Those who understand my parabolic trajectory do so already! |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by omoharry(f): 10:05am On Mar 27, 2012 |
~Killz~: You have said it all. |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Nobody: 10:53am On Mar 27, 2012 |
MRbrownJAY: |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Nobody: 10:57am On Mar 27, 2012 |
MRbrownJAY:They will still argue. |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by dabrake(m): 11:10am On Mar 27, 2012 |
toyemz: @debrakecoming from a C class babe, I just have to laugh. Grow up and make money. Stop depending on that maga. |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Nobody: 2:23pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
MRbrownJAY:I wonder what's so hard to comprehend about this?!? |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Nobody: 2:35pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
MRbrownJAY: ^^^ bro, if you were surrounded by 99% ashewos, would you marry one?! i guess not!!!!Quite neat. I owe you a full Gold Bottle. This is what Nigerian men should put in practice but will they? And I don't blame them o, I had a failed relationship before m own eyes gan clear. Look if you use money to ''sustain'' a relationship you better ensure that that money doesn't dry up o and even at that nko? Now when I don't even buy #100 recharge card I'm labelled stingy and I'm like ''that's your opiinion''. I wouldn't want a gf/wife to be wiv me because she knows I will always provide for her; if she's justified to think like that then should be the justfication for me being wiv her?that she can fawk? All this balderdash about sustenance of love is bullshyte, that is the philosophy of conditional love if you cannot love me if I were a broke arse mufucka don't expect even respect from me talk less of love when I'm loaded. 1 Like |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Nobody: 2:36pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
MRbrownJAY: ^^^ bro, if you were surrounded by 99% ashewos, would you marry one?! i guess not!!!!Quite neat. I owe you a full Gold Bottle. This is what Nigerian men should put in practice but will they? And I don't blame them o, I had a failed relationship before m own eyes gan clear. Look if you use money to ''sustain'' a relationship you better ensure that that money doesn't dry up o and even at that nko? Now when I don't even buy #100 recharge card I'm labelled stingy and I'm like ''that's your opiinion''. I wouldn't want a gf/wife to be wiv me because she knows I will always provide for her; if she's justified to think like that then should be the justfication for me being wiv her?that she can fawk? All this balderdash about sustenance of love is bullshyte, that is the philosophy of conditional love if you cannot love me if I were a broke arse mufucka don't expect even respect from me talk less of love when I'm loaded. 1 Like |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Dyt(f): 2:44pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
oh nt again love moni sexx cant u jst let dis b? dayum |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Nobody: 2:49pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
I bought love with money and a nice car!!! Let's get this thread on front page, and celebrate our heroes and heroines.. Please, post your Nigerian heroes and heroines here: https://www.nairaland.com/900756/notable-nigerian-heroes-we-all#10470998 |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by sylve11: 2:51pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
~Killz~: u try nor be small. . . but money is involved still |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by sylve11: 2:52pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
Dyt: oh hey my adorable chocolate covered Dyrt! how are u? |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Dyt(f): 2:55pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
sylve11: baby bum m fyn where s my choc? |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by MegaG: 2:59pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
. 1 Like |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by sylve11: 3:00pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
Dyt:[quote author=Dyt] Baby i have warned u several times that too much choc ain't good for ur health, or haven't i? |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Dyt(f): 3:01pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
well u didnt buy 4 me d last tym |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by sylve11: 3:26pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
Dyt: but i bought kpekere for u, or didn't i? |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by Dyt(f): 3:27pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
blinks kpeke wat? |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by pdpiperpippen: 3:31pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
Most Nigerian girls are hungry and broke, in naigja love is for the highest bidder, all women are love peddlers, u wan make hunger kkill them. Nay y homo full every where now. |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by ayodele123(m): 3:32pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
My opinion: For a woman,love and money are intertwined and are the same. For a man, love and sex are interwoven and are the same. If you are asking if there is love without money,is it not the same as asking if there is a marriage without sex? If we expect a woman to love without money in the equation,ask a man if he can scale through a marriage without sex in the equation and without looking elsewhere? If any man wants his woman to love him without money,then the man must also love the woman without going near or touch her pussy.QED |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by ayodele123(m): 3:32pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
My opinion: For a woman,love and money are intertwined and are the same. For a man, love and sex are interwoven and are the same. If you are asking if there is love without money,is it not the same as asking a man if there is a marriage without sex? If we expect a woman to love without money in the equation,ask a man if he can scale through a marriage without sex in the equation and without looking elsewhere? |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by MissEZ(f): 3:40pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
I always find the comments interesting when the issue is about love and money because we women come out at the receiving end. I think that love is possible without money if both parties are willing to work together as a team. For everyone who generalizes about all naija babes being gold diggers, i guess my question is where are you meeting those girls and what kind of impression do you give when toasting? From personal experience, guys always try to toast me with money or by telling me what they have, or just plain showing off, and it is personally irritating. A man should have substance (intelligence, honesty and integrity, sense of responsibility, godliness) beyond his money, because money is something that can easily be lost. At that point what is left of the man? it is that substance within the man that will make him rise up again when s*** hits the fan. It is the same substance that will also give him the strength of character to remain faithful. Women should have this same substance too so it applies both ways. If you chase a broke babe with no future ambition, you should be ready to keep up with her bulls***. And the fault will be yours. By this i am not saying money is not good to have, but i think in terms of what is needed and our wants, people need to set their priorities. The man should be doing something worthwhile an atleast have enough to take care of himself. As for me and my house, if the way you approach me is based on what you have/money, i always feel insulted, like you are putting a price on me. But then again, i am self driven and believe that everyone should have her own money regardless of how little it is. i dont want your money, i want the man himself and that means that he has to be correct with or without money. |
Re: Is There Really Love Without Money by MissEZ(f): 3:46pm On Mar 27, 2012 |
ayodele123: My opinion: Interesting point of view, and well articulated too. |
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